Honestly, it sounds like BS one way or the other. I could just be a BS line to end the relationship for any number of reasons. But it could just be as easy as that this guy lacks the degree of emotional maturity to be in a good relationship, and is very self destructive. Either way it does some like the type of person I would want to seriously invest in and a date.
The more you chase him the easier you make it for him to maintain himself in this relationship and the more burden you will inherit along the way to make it work. So it could become a very emotionally draining situation for you, and I would hate to see someone do that themselves when at this pion the guy had given you a perfect out or escape plan... which is actually pretty easy way out for you at this point.
I can understand his point of view but maybe he will be missing out on the best relationship of his life. I almost always looked at it that way.
Why would you continue to pursue if he's already telling it's not gonna work out? The man is giving you a huge red flag and you're intentionally trying to miss it. Don't waste your time when a guy is telling you he's not ready to commit to anyone right or better yet, at all.
Why chase someone who chose to leave you? Lot’s more men out there.
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Thank him for showing him he’s not worth your time. Move on, sis
You probably have very few flaws because he would use them as an excuse to break up with you. He’s just being cowardly about just not being in love with you. I would say he is going to break up with you eventually if he doesn’t have feelings for you at this point.
Maaaan, he's just a little bish. Really..."know this will end eventually" that just says he gives up rn before he goes through the true tests of love. Guess he really don't need a partner then
I'd say that's a 100% bullshit reason, but what are you going to do? He isn't into you anymore for whatever reason. You think chasing him around and demanding further explanation will yield any results? Highly doubtful.
There are certain women you like. Find attractive like many things about them. But there is a MAJOR character flaw that they have. You know they'll never change and it would be fruitless to ask her to. So yeah, you break it off with her with a b. s. line. Cause she's going to want to hear the truth much much less.
Oh my... how horrible is this. At least it is on sort of the Front End... I think he is generally insecure to be happy but can't enjoy it awaiting for the bottom to drop out.
It’s not BS. He’s detected that you’re going to hurt him eventually. Unless you can guarantee that will never happen, it would be terribly selfish to attempt to convince him otherwise.
He is being manipulative and being dishonest for his reasoning because he doesn’t want to take responsibility as to why he doesn’t want to date you.
Could be an excuse or could be true. Try pursuing him tell him you really like him too but don’t push too hard.
Just get to the point with this jack off and ask why he thinks it will end eventually. Sounds like he has commitment issues, or wants to keep his options open and feels like you are about to rope him down
If he's that unenthusiastic, you'd be better off ending it now
He already told you, in not so many words, that the relationship is a lost cause. Staying with him would be like staying on a sinking ship
Yeah if i had to guess there might've been another girl he was more into. yeah it sucks but... ehh at least you didn't get too far or this would hurt much more than this
Sounds like some kind of BS to me. That or he's distancing himself due to mental illness. Do what you think is right.
He let it go! why would you pursue it? you think you can change his mind? that's the problem most girls have! Letting go and moving on! be smart and find the right guy.
Don't pursue.
Don't let yourself go 25 years and come home to an empty safe and a 3x3 post-it note.
Yes - this happened.
I don't know what to say to that lol you should let him know you aren't going anywhere and you like him.
This is a BS line. It's a lost cause. Just get your shit and move on down the road.
I had this happen to me too many times in my younger years. I think it's just the way he doesn't want to get involved with you. He is a rude sob.
Of course it's s bullshit line how long have you been with him
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