Since men want women to shoot their shot more, how do we do that?

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Ask you out on a date pay for the date and expect sex after lol joking I’m shy goofy I don’t know how to do this

Sixgunsound · Accepted Answer

Be a real person who demonstrably doesn’t like or have any interest in games. If you don’t want a relationship but just want free drinks or dinner then don’t waste guys time. If your idea of a relationship doesn’t include even a good night kiss till you’ve got a ring on it, let that be known from the beginning. There are guys out there who respect that, but leading someone who isn’t about that life on then disappointing them just gets everyone angry. Be flirty and suggestive, if you’re going to do something about it. If you aren’t going to do something about it, you might consider emphasizing other assets, such as loyalty honor faith if that’s your thing, skills you bring to the table, etc. not on the first date, but if you eventually want a long-term relationship and kids or at minimum marriage, find a way to bring that up that isn’t needy or desperate or too soon. Men as a general rule are straightforward, blunt, and don’t like wasting time and resources on something that isn’t going anywhere. Date with a purpose, not because you’re lonely. If you’re just lonely, almost any guy who is of age and single can help you out with that as long as you don’t want anything more.

Chazmatazz269 · Accepted Answer

Just be perfectly clear when you are interested in a man. No games, no insinuations, no hints, and don’t rely on body language AT ALL. ESPECIALLY when it comes to sex. With new affirmative consent laws, a woman has to clearly say “Yes, i want to have sex with you, (insert full name). Without that, every man, including MARRIED men, is now a rapist. No joke. Look that shit up.
There is no more room for subtlety in dating and sex. So just use your words loudly and clearly. Fortunately, most men don’t demand subtlety in “romance” the way women do. So you can get away with saying and doing anything. In fact, the pending affirmative consent laws do not protect men at all. So if you want to fuck a man who doesn’t seem to want you in return, you can just threaten to accuse him of rape if he doesn’t do exactly as you please. Either he lets you rape him, or he goes to prison and lets Bubba rape him. Either way, you win! Ell oh ell!

VIVANT · Accepted Answer

I’d just ask him out to something neutral- I don’t like money getting involved with strangers anyhow. Bit of he wanted to do so ehhh g that cost money I don’t see any problem with paying my way and he his... I’d do that whether I asked or he asked.. money between friends is not a big deal but strangers dk it’s uncomfortable. We want to spend time together not purchase each other lol

Anyhow, main thing is just asking out 🙂

Pinay_ako · Accepted Answer

I’d try to ask him a question to get him to notice me? And go from there? Like hi, how are you? Are you tired? 🤣

Him: No, why?

Me: coz you’ve been running 🏃‍♀️ in my mind the whole time and I wanna know if you wanna go grab coffee with me?

Him: 🥹🥹🥹🥹

If he says no, I’ll just say ok 💔 but at least I tried 😝

Lionman95 · Answer

Who says you need to ask out a guy on a date right away? I think one of the biggest issues many guys nowadays face is that we have literally no clue if a woman likes or is just polite. Get comfortable being around guys and find ways to show them your interest. That already brings you in a vulnerable position.

But chances are that he will take over if he gets interested in you because he now knows that the interest is mutual and therefore he might have less problems taking the lead.

That way you don´t need to ask him out for a date or ask him to go out with you.

Smoke-n-Growls · Answer

Just fucking ask. It's the same as for men. Don't try to play games. You're in real life, not a Hollywood chick flick. Be open, be straight forward, and follow through.

TryMeBee · Answer

Hey I like you (or you seem like a great guy, if you wanna be less direct). Wanna meet up sometime for coffee/movie/dinner/bowling/etc and get to know each other better?

genericname85 · Answer

well is there anything particularly wrong with expecting sex? xD you're not waiting till marriage are you? what about "girls just wanna have fun"?

as for how: just be straight up tell them how you feel and what you want. nothing wrong with that.

SolitarySolace · Answer

Us men had to figure it out. Now you women have to do the same

JDavid25 · Answer

It won't be hard.. Just go up to a guy you fancy ask for his name, and just say that you think he's cute and would like his number and maybe to meet up sometime soon.

TheSpaceGnome · Answer

Simple:
1: never ask out strangers.
2: only ask out friends you relate too and share interests with.
3: if you aren't into any of your friends, make more friends.
4. don't be subtle with flirting ever, be obvious.

DannyUk2017 · Answer

Go on a date, has to be someone super cute/nice/turn on sexy for you, when time is right (sex i mean)... Sit on his face, grind urself on him, you will cum/climax so much i'm sure He will be... SURPRISED!.
SAVAGE!!! Isn't it? 😈😈😈

MCheetah · Answer

Just go out and flirt with a man you like and show interest. Women have the easy parts (in everything, really). It's not hard to figure out.

Fa1con · Answer

"Hey man, you wanna go to/try (X activity or place) sometime?" If they ask why just say something along the lines of you think they're nice or you want to get to know them better or that you like spending time with them.

Anonymous · Answer

Honestly just start a conversation. I will admit I'm in the same place with you as shy and awkward. And for a first date I wouldn't expect the woman to pay fully if she asked me out I'd want to split the bill.

I kinda think that's how all early dating should be done spliting the bill.

Stevefiveo · Answer

I don't think it has to be that extreme but it is nice when it happens. But if you want someone, let them know. Whether it is flirting or asking out.

Philyouup · Answer

your not a Prostitute. prostitute you don’t have to sleep with anyone for bonnet or drinks. if he expects it, tell him to sod off and burn his number.

Waldoe · Answer

I think it simply means to "make the first move" that can mean just saying "Hi, I'm Sally, what's your name"

Twalli · Answer

Just ask us out if you like us. Yes, you may get rejected, but when guys do the asking they can get rejected too.

EaterPeter · Answer

However you can, make bold moves. Get way out of your comfort zone.

Jamie05rhs · Answer

You just say, "Hey! I like you." That's it. Easy Peasy!

Juxtapose · Answer

Just tell the guy how you really feel and ask if he wants to get to know you.

FilmGuy93 · Answer

Just say "hi" and don't be a spazz.

OnlinePeanut22 · Answer

I lkept sending message first on online and got nothing backs. I got rejected more in real life.

Anonymous · Answer

As a female you would simply show interest, let him know you think he is attractive. Women have about a 90% shot of her intentions being met positively.

OnTheLevel · Answer

Just don't any away from approaching a guy you are interested in.

Celtrabbit · Answer

Usually using your mouth in order to make sounds to form words is enough

Nikki1989 · Answer

You just ask them out. It's easy.

zagor · Answer

Ask if they'd like to go hang out sometime.

NathanDavis · Answer

just be yourself, simple...

fonduegirl · Answer

I just tell them I like them.

Anonymous · Answer

🤣 @ "how to do this".

Iron_Man · Answer

Make a move go for it

moviedude714 · Answer

Very interesting question

maximumpower · Answer

WTF are you talking about?

msc545 · Answer

Shoot what shot?

Andres77 · Answer

Idk…🤥

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