Would you date your teacher if y'all were around the same age?

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MAC1983 · Accepted Answer

I know of a real, slightly different case, where I met the couple. They were my much older sister's friends. I'll keep their anonymity, if that's OK.

Maybe you'll find it interesting, still?
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She was what in the USA would be a high school teacher. He was a high school student. The attraction was there, but she shut him down over and over. She told him such crushes do happen, however it was just a passing fancy. He'd forget all about it when high school ended.

That is what a teacher should do. She did everything right, explained to the student all the reasons it would be wrong - some are in other comments - and potentially abusive and moved on. Bear in mind these were the more more conservative, in that regard at least, 80s.

But the now young man didn't forget his former teacher. He didn't have a teacher fetish - no, I'm not going to web search it for your sick pleasure, go listen to Van Halen's "Hot for teacher" or something - but was interested in the woman he met. When High School was over he tried again.

She turned him down flat. She said it was inappropriate and he was going to college. He would surely find someone he like there.

It would take until his second year of college for her to even agree to speak with him again. They talked in a public place. The man explained to her that this was no crush, that he really liked her and while he understood the possible backlash of society he would brunt it with her, and he would like at least like one date, something outside the previous context, just one chance to find out what they would be as a couple, and if she was capable of feeling the same way.

She did and last I knew, they married and had already 2 kids. Might be more now.

Bonus Answer from me: you can enter college at any age, for all kinds of degrees. You are bound to meet teachers your age. I would never date a current teacher - conflict of interest and too messy - but I would have no problem dating a former one, or one I didn't have in the curriculum.

Blueeyes81 · Accepted Answer

I would not. However I did grow up in a small town in the midwest and we had several instances of seniors dating 1st year teachers. It was never out in the open but there are no secrets in a small town. Two of the teachers later married their students who they had dated while they were in school.

SueShe · Accepted Answer

Of course not. Neither should teachers date their students if they know what is good for them. A teacher that dates a student not only risks to lose his/her job but will end up with a criminal record.

Also, a teacher that is caught dating one of his/her students will never ever be able to find a teaching job because no school or educational institution wants to take the risk to hire a person with a history of dating students. The teacher's teaching career is over and out. Who wants to take that risk?

I personally would not because I am not interested in dating.

Pinay_ako · Accepted Answer

Never really had hot teachers to fantasize about so no

glennos89 · Answer

I think almost everyone had these feelings for 1 of their teacher when they were your age. I liked a female teacher when I was 15 I believe. Back then I was hoping for a miracle to happen but sadly for me that never happened 😂

zzzrow · Answer

Its normal to feel like that at your age. I did too. But as the adult/teacher, they should never engage in that. 2 female teachers (that i knew of, there were probably more) in my old high school engaged in inappropriate relationships with students and not only did they get fired, they were put on a s** offender registry as well. A good teacher would not accept any advances from a student or initiate them.

bean2k21 · Answer

That's a great way to get your professor fired, especially at a leftist State-run university of today, where they'll conduct an investigation just for speaking to a female and not maintaining the proper eye contact.

wheresmrcunnunglis · Answer

Nope. I don't mix business with pleasure. Ever. No matter how tempting. So anyone at work or place where I'm supposed to learn automatically becomes unattractive in my eyes.

Autember · Answer

Nah honestly I wouldn't care if they were my teacher... aside from it being unethical according to our society. If we are both over age and we are interested, I would totally do it.

Chazmatazz269 · Answer

No way. There’s an imbalance in the power dynamic that makes such relationships dangerous to at least one partner, and highly inappropriate for both.

Sour-rose · Answer

if we're both 22, i probably would. If she is that cute and seems to have a good head on her shoulders

BlueScorpio · Answer

Ugh no. I wasn't attracted to any of my teachers. My history teacher was a good looking man but I just saw him as a teacher.

melanieeeB · Answer

Nope, I nearly never had an handsome male teacher... my chemistry teacher was good looking but not my type tho

Guy13 · Answer

i have already but 19 and 24 is LOT different than you thing and your age !!!

Mangospacho · Answer

Yeah if I got held back that many times that I was the same age as my teachers and one of them still wanted to date me, I don’t think I’d have any other options.

Sixgunsound · Answer

As a soon to be certified teacher this is disgusting. There are some lines that shouldn’t be crossed.

petitedollbabee · Answer

Probably not, due to the fact that they’re my teacher, plus I don’t date people around my age.

menina · Answer

Nope, a teacher is a teacher period. There's no relationship with teachers outside school.

supercutebutt · Answer

No. Bad idea. Find a neighborhood creep instead.

Dinklex3 · Answer

If I really liked him. He'd only be my professor for 1 semester anyways.

SiberFox · Answer

Not if she's still my teacher. I like your user lol

JohnK123 · Answer

I don't know what teacher would be my age but I mean if she was hot…. LOL KIDDING

Smoothing · Answer

Why not? Though one has to be careful and pay attention to the educational institution rules.

fonduegirl · Answer

Nope. Sleep with him if he was single and attracted to me? Hells yeah!

Twalli · Answer

Never had a female teacher near enough my own age. When I was a senior all the hot teachers taught 7th and 8th graders (I went to a prep school 6-12).

Anonymous · Answer

Dated both a GA and a Professor at the same time when I was in college (completely different areas) it worked out well

maximumpower · Answer

No. Dynamic is wrong. Both of you sacrifice your position and moral standing.

VanguardTitan · Answer

As someone who plans to be a professor, i hope people say no. Dating your student feels gross.

Hardworkingguy · Answer

I work as a teacher so I'm quite interested in this question.

Anonymous · Answer

I have a teacher-student fantasy kink, but probably not

Avicenna · Answer

You mean professor, right? Still a bad idea.

ElementoP · Answer

I hope you're not dating your teacher

Anonymous · Answer

That would be very unlikely.

Iron_Man · Answer

I don’t think so lol

HelenJacob · Answer

I think there is no problem.

OnlinePeanut22 · Answer

No that is illg illegal to do.

IJhonnyI · Answer

Maybe

Anonymous · Answer

Only if we both 18, otherwise no.

Idkwtfimdoing96 · Answer

nah lmao

duttyjamagyal · Answer

No cuz they're broke

LavLavLuv · Answer

no lol

TammyVeracious_III · Answer

Yes, teach me more!

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