I dont think my boyfriend is all that into me, is it best to let him go?

[Anonymous]

He pays most of the bills. Is attentive, caring...

He just doesn't take me out on dates or buy me flowers.

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I planned the dates all the time in the past. He just doesn't do them unless I ask him for it :/ itd be nice for a surprise or for him to put effort. Or am I being a brat? Thanks guys

[20yearsolder]

You and 90% of the women on this planet wish their guy did exactly the same thing that you're wanting. Why does he have to spend the money on you to show his love and affection? Maybe he shows it by grilling you a steak or doing the laundry. Blah blah blah. You want to know how I show the majority of my affection, I work 70 hours a week so her disabled ass doesn't have to attempt to work.

[Asker]

Totally motivate her to get back out there... like going to the gym with her. I'm disabled mentally and I've been off meds for months because I'm consistently healthy!! Fuck those meds and being in the dumps all the time.

[Asker]

I mean I can be a little insecure and paranoid sometimes 🙃

[maximumpower]

Jesus - how much more do you expect from him?
Maybe YOU need to think about what YOU'RE bringing into the relationship.

[PrincetonGirl97]

I think he's a keeper personally. Some guys just don't like dates.

[Faith18letsgo]

Yeah I think he likes you. You should ask him out on a date.

[Anonymous]

How about you take him out on a date.

[In_Trance]

DO you take him out on dates or buy him flowers?

[Asker]

Of course I do.
More like buy him cool gadgets