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Should I hide my history from girls I date or how soon would you want to know if your partner had a really scary and troubled childhood?

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I had a really rough childhood. My father abused drugs and was always in and out of jail.
I used to release my anger on anyone who bullied me. I broke my classmates bones and sent them to hospitals during school fights. I was only in 7th grade.
I broke into places and got arrested by age 11. I went to a DAEP program that was basically an alternative for troubled teens.

I hide this history from everyone I meet. Nobody knows I used to be so troubled before because my criminal record was removed by a judge and probation officer by the time I turned 15 years old and turned my life around. I started doing good and being the best person I could be. The judge and my probation officer removed my criminal record and everything from my history so now I have a clean record totally. But I’m so ashamed of this that I have never told anyone. Not even my girlfriend of 3 years I dated in the past. Nor can anyone ever find out. I have tried doing the criminal record search on my name and nothing ever comes out. Similar with jobs and stuff. I just want to hide this part of my life forever.
Should I hide my history from girls I date or how soon would you want to know if your partner had a really scary and troubled childhood?
Should I hide my history from girls I date or how soon would you want to know if your partner had a really scary and troubled childhood?
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