Would it be wrong to hide my past from women?

[Anonymous]

So I’d say I was dl/bisexual in my past dating experience but I never felt I’d be with another man. I always wanted a wife n child so it felt more like an experimental phase. I never caught anything and I honestly don’t think it would be their business plus women lie about being former sluts all the time so it might be even ground if you think about it

[ChrisOfTheAlienRace]

I don't ask a woman's sexual history because I assume she may leave out the really wild stuff, or even worse she might tell me, and it may stick in my mind.
I only expect a woman to tell me if she was a sex worker, drug user, or anything extreme like that.
As far as your bisexual experiments go I think you may be able to get away with playing dumb about it, like maybe don't mention it. Then 10 years into the marriage you're playing truth or dare with a group and someone asks if you've ever been with a man.
Say yes. Your wife may lose her shit and say "YOU NEVER TOLD ME THAT!!"
Then you say "You never asked honey."

[Guy13]

Right now, if I were you, I would stay out of any sexual Relationships for a long while. I know you do not realize it, however, your wiring is not right, right now. That’s what the other guy was trying to say.
—I would recommend that you focus on spiritual development. I don’t know what your vibe is or if you have one.

You don’t want to be the “there’s just something off there…I can’t put my finger on it…but something ain’t right”, Guy.

[Asker]

What do you mean, can you explain more in detail? I think I get what your saying but not sure.

[Guy13]

Do you have a spiritual life?

[Asker]

Can you just explain and stop with the spiritual bullshit

[Guy13]

I mean like God. Do you have a spiritual life. If you know God In and Through Christ Jesus then you have a spiritual life…and you would know it personally.

[wagsingle]

Ignore him. He's a religious not and probably homophobic.

[Ask_Again_Later]

It’s common for gay men to use females once they realize they want kids. Men do it all the time.

[RobT312]

when I was dating I never cared about a persons sexual history.
but I find when the relationship gets more serious it always comes up and gets talked about. Typically my girlfriend would ask me.
It’s super cool you are bisexual, I wouldn’t worry about it. I guess it’s your choice if you’d want to tell her or just forget about... if my girlfriend told be she had been with a woman I wouldn’t care

[Asker]

I’m straight, buddy but I get what you’re saying

[RobT312]

That’s cool man, and I do understand your dilemma. I have been with a dude and I loved it but not my thing. My girlfriend knows. But I get what I are saying about not wanting ti say anything. If I had a new girlfriend that I didn’t know well, I probably wouldn’t tell her, sex history just doesn’t matter

[boggboss]

If your mind set from the get go your wife is most likely a hidden slut I can tell any marriage with u is going to be amazing

[Asker]

majority of women are definitely sluts dude especially if she went to college just like men but they don’t wanna be viewed that way so they hide it plus if they find you physically attractive they’re super easy to sleep with

[boggboss]

Lol like ibsaid if that's your mindset going into it then I don't see how a marriage with u would work out lol

[Avicenna]

I think you need to be completely honest about that once things get serious. And don't assume that all women are lying about their past. TBH, most people don't inquire about such things.