Why can't you be happy and content with being single?

[Anonymous]

Science has proven that it is highly possible to be genuinely happy and content as a single person. So if that is the case why can't you be happy and content with being single, why do you actively try and put effort into finding a partner?

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For everyone who asked me for prove that single people can be happy and content with being single. And there’s so much more evidence online!.
www.happify.com/.../
www.sciencedaily.com/.../150821103644.htm

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sciencemadefun.net/.../ www.businessinsider.com/why-single-is-better-according-to-science-2018-2

[Ukrainiangirl7]

Well, we are actually made to communicate with others and be social. Our bodies are made to fit together with the opposite sex. Even the way our hands are made- to hold another’s hands. It’s proven that those that are happily married have better immunity and live longer. People that are perpetually single also have low levels of chronic inflammation. I know I definitely have inflammation cause I get some acne and I might be pre diabetic - though I’ve stopped eating sugar. I bloat and I’ve had stomach issues before. I felt better when I was talking to my crush. Right now, though I have my family, I don’t feel like I have someone to REALLY talk to, that cares about me and who I can just talk about my day with.

There are times in the month, where I feel empty- and I even have cried because it hurts. But it’s ok, I have people around me who tell me “Be content being single,” or “What will you do if God wants you to be single forever?” I don’t even think of that possibility because to be honest, that possibility sounds hopeless.

I would like to be a wife and a mom. I have been in the working world for 4 years, and no matter how much you like your job, I would like someone that I can talk to whenever, share griefs and trials with, that doesn’t put me down. Just someone that appreciates me and someone I can enjoy spending time with.

[Meatunnel69]

Yes I agree with this relationships are powerful tools to have emotional support however that sword cuts both ways when a relationship is toxic and you’d be much better off single.

[Asker]

@ukrainiangirl7, understandable, I did not post this to discourage people from pursing relationships by the way I was just trying to show and prove that you can definitely be happy as a single person and that you don’t need to be in a relationship to be happy.

[WizzardGirl]

The more i know people the more i feel being single i the best

[Asker]

@WizzardGirl I agree!.

[Little_Bumblebee]

I don't know what you're talking about, I'm happy and content being single.
I think it has something to do with our society, it paints the picture that you need to be in a relationship and such

[RavVid]

So what science and what were the criteria? Huh?

There is a lot of science that being unconnected leads to unhappy depressed people.

A lot of social science has an agenda behind it. The distinguishing feature of that sort of science is that do a survey than draw a line afterwards instead of before which allows the "researcher" to get the result they want. Usually this is one in three. Be wary of anything with a 1 in 3 result.

1 in 3 has a plausibility that a 1 in 2 result wouldn't have. In a 1 in 2 result it would be unlikely that you hadn't experienced X or a sister or close friend hadn't experienced X. With a 1 in 3 result it becomes plausible you have escaped and your sister and close friend have fortuitously escaped X.

The classic was research at a maternity hospital which asked the mother if the had been abused by their partners. The check list ranged from their partner being angry with them, walking out of the room without speaking to being knee capped with a baseball bat. As the word abuse encompasses angry words to physical assault It was easy for the "researcher" to pick a level that gave a 1 in 3 result.


A lot of social science is more a stunt than real science.

[Aakash_Hangargi]

Lol you don't need the science to prove that and science might be full of contradictions in some scenarios just like philosophy..

You can be happy alone for sure but it's upon you solely

[Pinay_ako]

I was single a few times in my life and I was content and happy. Didn’t feel the need for a partner to complete me.

[HighlyQuestionable]

Hi Pinay-ako. Yes I understand you.
But how would you feel about NEVER having had a partner?

[Pinay_ako]

@HighlyQuestionable never had a partner? That would feel lonely and feel you’re not good enough for anyone to even love you.. or attracted to you. Why?

[HighlyQuestionable]

No. Thank you for your response.
But, what are you asking?

[BlueScorpio]

A person can be happy single. After getting out of a relationship, I think people need to give themselves time to heal and move on before trying to jump back into another relationship. The reason the happiness dwindles after a while is cause people eventually get lonely. Human where designed to have social interactions with one another, it's how we grow bonds with one another. A person can become socially awkward or mentally unstable from a lack of mental stimulation and constant isolation from others.

The pandemic was proof of that cause some people took their lives because of it.

[Asker]

You can still be lonely even while your in a relationship and even while your with your friends so loneliness has nothing to do with being alone, loneliness is a state of mind and you feel lonely when you start neglecting self care and when you engage in negative thinking. Many people are alone but yet they don’t feel alone at all.

[Asker]

I know many people who enjoyed the pandemic because they got to spend more time at home alone and they used that time to work on themselves and practice “self-help”. Some even used it as a way to embrace their hermit nature so for some people they enjoyed the social isolation without feeling lonely.

[Lionman95]

For me it´s simply because society makes me feel that a guy has to be in a relationship to don´t be viewed as either weird or dangerous if he´s single all his life.

It´s the feeling of being not good enough or incomplete if I stay single.

It´s true I probably could be happy but many people make me feel like only a relationship can grant me ultimate happiness hence one of the next questions or comments after I tell people I´m single is that they either wish to be in a relationship in the near future.

[Asker]

understandable but relationships are difficult and they demand hard work, so if you are going to want an get into a relationship as a way to avoid criticism from people you are skewed, your no longer living for yourself you're living for others. What a sad way to live!.

The people criticizing you don't even pay your bills, they don't spend even more than 5 minutes thinking about you either and they probably even hate you, you probably even dislike them...

If being single makes you happy then be happy as a single man, don't give the jerks who make you feel bad any power to affect you. Those people are trying to make you feel bad or make you feel like you are lacking because they themselves are unhappy so they are trying to project that onto you as a way to control you and to feel better about themselves. happy people don't go around telling how to live their life and happy people are honest I bet those people never tell you the horrible down sides of being in a relationship do they? all they tell you are the good things. they never tell you how their girlfriend/boyfriend or wife etc. was grumpy the whole week, how they are struggling to keep things interesting with their so, how they envy you for being single because you have more time to do whatever you want and they are tied down and restricted, how their kids are tiring them out and giving them mental breakdowns, how much their partners are annoying them, they don't tell you that they are cheating or that they have cheated etc. the list goes on. people like portraying perfect versions of themselves and they are not real enough to tell you the downsides that come with being a parent or a wife/husband girlfriend boyfriend so yeah!.

[Asker]

being single is definitely challenging but you can be happy as a singleton and its the same with being in a relationship and having kids those things have many downsides and challenges too but you can be happy if you have them despite their downsides and challenges so all you gotta do is pick the route that suits you and bare with that route's challenges and downsides and be happy with it, do it only because you want to not for the sake of others. Afterall happiness is all about how you think about things.

[ohsheeT]

I'm single right now and I'm at age where I know myself I'm content I'm happy I think the only negative part would be is that I want to hold somebody I want to feel somebody's energy I want to care for them I want to be there for them I think that's my only drawback I love the feeling of two energies becoming one I love becoming one with everything

[ohsheeT]

I think the proof of being happy and content is when you understand yourself and who you are when you can become one with yourself that's when you are happy and you are content when you can become one with everybody else that's when you're happy and you're content when you become one with this universe that's when you're most happiest and content because you don't judge people you don't have opinions you don't look at people and talk crap about them you are just free from all of that and when you have that freedom to just live life and be yourself it is a very beautiful thing I think that's what we are all supposed to do is experience that experience becoming one with the universe because that's who we are meant to be I believe we are all one don't get me wrong I absolutely love making love I absolutely love taking a girl to a place she's never been before just by touch or making love and when you understand that feeling and when you understand becoming one with that person you start becoming one with everybody and everything else everything on this planet is pure energy and when you become one with it you Vibe with it

[Asker]

I hear ya point! Well said! but you don’t need to have had sex to be happy and content with being single in fact I believe that it’s much easier for virgins to enjoy single hood than non virgins because virgins will not crave sex as intensely as non virgins so that gives them an advantage and it makes it easier for them to remain single and train themselves to not focus on sex but to focus on other things life has to offer. Hence why nuns and some monks are virgins. But you can certainly be happily single as a non virgin but you will have your struggles and virgins too who are single will have their struggles because in this life we all struggle, struggling is inevitable it’s a part of life but it should never deter anyone from being happy!.

[ohsheeT]

Well honestly you can go a little bit deeper than that too I mean if you think about it we all have an energy within us our energy guys this it teaches us it warns us we as human beings are meant to become one with ourself to understand ourselves to have that confidence we as human beings are supposed to become one with everyone if you're one with everyone that means he's not judge you do not have opinions you do not do drama when people start crap or start talking about other people you just let it go walk away and don't let it phase you or change who you are you just it's none of your business and once you become one with yourself and you can do this you need to become one with the universe we are all supposed to be one with the universe happiness is a choice on how you live what you do we all were given a gift when we were born that gives his choice we get to choose who we want to be by the things we say and do and if you just let all the negative go and not even involve yourself with it that's what makes you happy when you can give of yourself and not worry about what you're going to get in return that's what makes you happy to become one with yourself and other people that's what makes you happy when you have no problems that's what makes you happy we always hold ourselves back because we're not confident we're afraid we're going to fail well you have to fail to succeed I welcome failure because it teaches me become better life is an experience it starts out one or two years old when we start first start to learn how to walk we do not give up we fall down we get up we call them we get up We Fall Down it's an experience just like everything that we do each and every day is an experience the better you become at your experience the more you understand it and so on if you come one with it now I think each individual it's just that an individual so we're all different can I ask you are you a virgin

[Anonymous]

You absolutely can. I was for many years after my son passed away and his mother cheated and got pregnant by another man.


The problem i now have is being happy and content in a relationship now that i am able to be happy and content single.

[Asker]

My condolences to your son💗. It's amazing that you figured out how to be happily single! what your experiencing is actual normal even people who have been in long term relationships worry about how they will ever manage to live life as a single person and be happy and content with that. If you end up in a relationship you'll be happy even if it ends so that's awesome also I believe you'll do just fine adjusting to relationship dynamics if ever you do end up in a relationship, it may be challenging but you'll do just fine! every person has a source of strength within them that enables them to overcome any situation. Wishing you all the best with your life journey you've inspired me🦋😊.

[Opinion Owner]

Thank you for your kind words. I am in a relationship now. Its an absolute struggle. She is an amazing woman. Probably more then I deserve. And i struggle daily with do i stay or do i go. Once you discover the power of being single. Being able to do what you want when you want. Not having to sacrifice days off or evenings off to keep anyone else happy. Non of the nonsensical arguments over nonsensical things. Its amazing. Maybe its just me but there is something amazing about going on vacation and doing everything you want to do. And not having to plan or coordinate around anyone else. Going to a movie by your self can be wildly refreshing. Especially if you go during the day and end up being the only person in the theater. Its hard to really describe but being single was amazing. I was lonely but at the same time now i kinda miss it. I dunno.

[Asker]

It’s my pleasure 😊, I actually completely understand what you mean and I can relate to it, your one of the few people who is honest about how difficult relationships can be even if you have a great partner so I respect that a lot.

What you are experiencing is normal even if you were single you were going to yearn for a relationship, so there’s no way of escaping the feeling of yearning for what you don’t have no matter what position you are in in life. It’s not good to yearn though because it robs you of genuinely and fully appreciate what you do have and it robs you of embracing the present moment.

The most important thing you can do is to do what feels right for you, you already know what’s right for you, all you have to do now is apply it, may be even listen to suggestions and then use that to make a decision based on which suggestion is most suitable for you personally.

Otherwise I’m wishing you all the best with everything, I hope I helped a little 🤗.

[Asker]

Appreciating*

[FunkyMonkee]

I've BEEN single all but 11 years of my life and it's fucking BORING and sad!! Half the rides at the amusement parks require two people! There's no point in going to things like dances if all you're gonna do is sit in the corner and listen to the music. It really sucks to have such a huge record collection and NO ONE to share it with!! I never have anyone to actually talk to!! The only convos I have need to be typed out!! I might as well become a hermit!! I feel like I'm in solitary confinement in a fully furnished cell for a crime I never committed!! How many games of Solitaire can you play before it gets to be pointless and boring?

[Asker]

You can still be lonely even while your in a relationship and even while your with your friends so loneliness has nothing to do with being alone, loneliness is a state of mind and you feel lonely when you start neglecting self care and when you engage in negative thinking. Many people are alone but yet they don’t feel alone at all.

[Asker]

I didn’t post this to discourage people from wanting relationships I just did it to show that happiness is possible as a single person.

[Asker]

Also they say that bored people are bored because they themselves are boring, that is true. I get bored even when I’m with other people but I found ways to entertain myself so now I’m no longer bored even when I’m alone.

[FunkyMonkee]

I've ALWAYS got SOMETHING to do! The boredom comes from NOT having something to do. It's a waste of my time to sit in a bar when I could be editing music, writing my books, looking for more voice acting work, doing other stuff I'd rather be doing. If you consider not drinking as boring, again, you're missing out on life.
At gigs, I'd load my drums in, go backstage and set them up and then go to the pool table and shoot pool for a few hours until it was time for us to go on stage. Quite often there were a lot of people that wanted to challenge me. And, if Sheila showed up and we played teams, we were unbeatable! So, it's not like I was hiding in a corner somewhere.
The other day, I was in the ER and had several medical women around me that day and I was making them all laugh!
I'm NEVER shy of entertaining myself! I've almost always got at least one deck of cards with me and a Rubic's Cube or two. But, how many times can you play Solitaire or solve the cube before boredom sets in? Even though I know about a dozen different Solitaire games!

[Asker]

sounds like your living a good life, you have almost everything you want and instead of being content your looking for an out by wanting what you don't have which is a relationship. You need to be grateful for all the things you have hun instead of wanting what you don't have and think about how much you'll crave and what the things you have now if didn't have them. happiness is how you think about things! i'm just giving you feedback here. I don't drink i'm religious, i'm a christian and i think my religion is helping me a lot because it literally always comforts me no matter what and it motivates me and helps me stay on the right track also i'm never bored because of it.

[Asker]

want not what***

[FunkyMonkee]

No, I DON'T have everything I want. My ex-sisters took most of that away from me 2 years ago and, I don't have a shitload of money, also thanks to them, and scammers that took my aunt for about $10,000,000.
As for a relationship, a girlfriend or wife would be great but, right now, I'd settle for just a fellow music lover that wants to learn as much as they can from me about music on their visits here. All this knowledge and no one to share it with!!
I WOULD be grateful if I still had it all but, I practically lost half my life 2 years ago!! I hardly have ANYTHING to be thankful for, anymore!! I still have most of my records and my drums and a few other things but, that's about it!
I'm not at all religious but I still try to help others, and not just people. There's bunnies that come into the front yard every day and I feed them bread and there's deer in the back yard that I sometimes throw apples to. Dogs absolutely love me, they take one look and think, THAT looks like a guy I can have a lot of fun with! And they can! The bunnies and deer still have trust issues. The bunnies are getting closer but are still a bit skittish.
My oldest ex-sister, the one that started all this shit when mom died 6 years ago, lives and breathes the bible and probably has a copy shoved deep up her ass!! Her hubby, an HVAC guy, fancies himself a make-shift preacher!! (He used to be BIG into Elton John and especially John Denver but, once they got married and found god, he wasn't allowed to listen to John Denver anymore! It was too hard-edge!) But. I really don't think there's anything in it about how "thou shalt fuck over thine own brother and mother as much as possible!". Lots of people in my family are very religious, too but, only one offered to TRY to help and he died before he could! My aunt was too busy throwing her millions away to scammers, but she was ALWAYS watching all this religious crap (basically, more scammers) on t. v..!

[FunkyMonkee]

Anyway, thanks for at least trying to advise and help out! We can continue conversing, if you like. I'm gonna go get something to eat. I wanted to be in bed hours ago but I still haven't had dinner. Let's see, Ramen noodles or potato chips? Decisions, decisions!!

[Adam_INTJ]

I noticed that you didn't cite this "science." So allow me to cite evidence.

Significant scientific sources contradict your claim. Married couples are happier. This peer review article shows as much. I've only read the abstract, but intend to read methods later. It was cited in an ifstudies. com article. Brendon Burchard also says married people are happier in his book High Performance Habits. He has sources for most claims, but I'll search for this source tomorrow.

I'm not happy as a single guy because:

1. I want kids, and don't want to have them when I'm older. My parents did that and it's hard seeing them age. I don't want that for my kids.
2. I want some validation.
3. As a Christian, I won't have sex outside of marriage, so I need to get married in order to deal with sexual urges in a Godly way.
4. Many of my friends are getting engaged and married. I feel left out. And like something g is wrong with me.

[Asker]

I’m literally still on xper1 I can’t send links to the studies, basically what those studies say is that a person can definitely derive happiness and contentment from being single, there are almost many great benefits to being single. Of course single hood and being in a relationship come with disadvantages but people choose the path that had the disadvantages that they bare.
Being in a relationship also does have its own advantages.

[Asker]

Your a Christian so In the Bible God
encourages people to be single and he even states that single people will have more time to fulfil his work and to focus on worshiping him which is an advantage over married people who will have less time to carry out Gods work and to worship the Lord because they will be busy focusing on pleasing their wives/husbands, but because God himself encourages singleness it means it is blessed by God and that’s why we see single people who are Happy with their single hood.
Almost the entire Corinthians chapter in the Bible talks about marriage being single. It sums up what I said here but I’ll add one quote

“1 Corinthians 7:32
But I want you to be free from concern. One who is unmarried is concerned about the things of the Lord, how he may please the Lord; but one who is married is concerned about the things of the world, how he may please his wife”

Marriage is blessed by God and encouraged by God as well therefore you can be happy in a marriage. God also tells that that life is hard so we will struggle a lot in this life and endure many hardships and that’s why marriage/relationships and being single come with many disadvantages.
John 16:33
“I have told you these things, so that in me you may have peace. In this world you will have trouble. But take heart! I have overcome the world.”

I’ll quote the Bible but I’m not going to quote all the studies that would be a lot but I’ll send you links once my Xper goes up if you want.

[Asker]

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[ArrowheadSW]

I tend to be happier and more content being single and not involved. However I am open to dating and it is possible to be content with the right person I think. There have been relationships that I've had where I was fairly happy but they ended for various reasons.

[mattclark242]

well it good to try finding a partner in you are lonely or if you just want to kiss someone or both. Some people think that if they have someone it fix every thing wrong in there life. There a lot of social pressure to find some one. There are a lot of love song about being with someone. Some people want someone to be with them and do thing with them. But they can do things there self. Have someone may not fix all the things in your life. being single is good cause you can look at anyone you want. It also good cause you can do what ever you want and not have to think of someone else. Have someone is not going to fix everything. you can be content with being single but most people are not.

[TheUniqueOne96]

Who says people can't, lol?

Surely you must have heard people says they're happy or happier when single.

Personally, I've never been with anyone before and whilst I do like the idea of being with someone, I understand that no one is perfect and it's easy to associate perfection with someone just because they look good.

You also can't miss what you've never had.

[Guy13]

We aree social animals and society glorifies everything sexual and relational within those confines. "Not good enough or Something is wrong with you or look around, you're on of the few who can't manage "spouse" "

[Asker]

i think some people really don't care what society or other people think so that won't be an issue for those people.

[Guy13]

Maybe so... but it does matter in the workplace as Singleness increases the "disparaging remarks".

[Asker]

if your going to make choices based on the fear of disparaging remarks then you are in trouble, relationships are difficult and they demand hard work, so if you are going to want an get into a relationship as a way to avoid criticism from people your skewed, your no longer living for yourself you're living for others. what a sad way to live!. the people criticizing you don't even pay your bills, they don't spend even more than 5 minutes thinking about you either and they probably even hate you, you probably even dislike them...

[Guy13]

Look ANON when you can work on an International level including Asia, you can preach to me about handling disparaging remarks as you did in the last post. Go back to high school !!!

[Asker]

You go back to high school first and then I'll follow.

[Kaneki05]

Yes along with how science proves that affection reduces stress and been cared for makes one happy. And that humans are mostly social along with having the drive to create a family.
It's such a wonder why on earth any of these reasons would lead to wanting a relationship lol.

[Asker]

the same science you are talking about shows that even single people can derive pleasure and happiness.

[Kaneki05]

I am confused did you not see me say "Yes" I already agreed with this fact? Are you trying to deny the other facts I've mentioned because if so then your the one who needs to learn more about it.

[MCheetah]

Because living life by yourself just seems "wrong." Family, friends, and loved ones, are what's supposed to make human life "worthwhile." But some of us had the misfortune to be single in the 21st century and not attractive enough men to be successful in the new dating environment.

[Pixel343]

I'm attractive but couldn't get a date to save my life

[Asker]

but at the same time there are many single, childless people living in 2022 who are content and happy with their lives in fact some people actively pursue singlehood because being single makes them happy and makes their lives worth while. You can be happy as a single person and you can be happy as a person who is not single both options can make you happy because happiness is all about how you think about life and it has very little to do with what you have or have not. people who can think positively and realistically are happy despite being single or being in a relationship.

[bolverk]

I'm happy and content being single, and I'm that by choice, I have not had a partner in over 30 years.

I chose to be single as my work could have me leaving the country on short notice and though it would not be fair to inflict my working life on others.

[JSmuve]

I'm happy and content without the drama and emotional upkeep that a relationship would require and love my freedom, but it'd be nice to find the type of relationship that I want with the type of woman that I want. Especially when you see everyone around you pairing up, it makes you question your desirability and ability to get what you want.

[jshm2]

Really? What pseudoscience would that be?

There is not someone for everyone, but humans are social animals, not single animals. Finding the right partner, team, network is part of the game of life.

Claims of "happy to be single" are just a way of saying you're an introvert, and toxic person. One lacking in social skills and incapable of making meaningful relationships.

[KeyZyenna]

i agree with that, we humans a social creatures we need someone to accompany us and if you dont then i think you're not human anymore

[Asker]

No your wrong @jshm2. Happiness comes from within, from how you think about things it does not come from being in a relationship and from having friends. So according to science because happiness comes from how you think!, you can be happy in any situation , You can even be happy as a singleton.

But as a single person you derive a lot of advantages to name a few single people are more able to focus more on helping other people, they can give more love and assistance to others, they can build better social circles so it does not mean that being single means that you shouldn’t be social and make friends or help the people in the world.

[Asker]

You might say but people in relationships can also build social circles, give love to others and do all the things that you said single people can do. Your right they can but if you are in a relationship you do not have has much time and as much energy to do those things because you have to focus on your partner and on building a good and sustainable relationship with them whereas a single person doesn’t have to do that they are single so they have an advantage there. Single people have more time to what ever they want when my xper goes up I’ll send you scientific studies explaining all the benefits of being single.

[FilmGuy93]

I think it's because a romantic relationship provides access to certain experiences that I can come extremely close to, but can't quite have as a single man.

[Asker]

Sounds like fomo a bit, but understandable, in terms of happiness though you can be happy as a single man even without those romantic experiences. If there are people in the world who can be happy with less that shows that you too can be happy single. Because happiness is all about how you think about things as a person.

[FilmGuy93]

Not really... I guess it comes down to the kind of people you surround yourself with in life, but romantic relationships and friendships are just different things. They can both be etremely fulfilling in their own right, but it's not a one-one substitute.

[Asker]

all i'm saying is that one can most definitely derive contentment and happiness with being single.

[TheVigilantOne]

After the experience I had with my ex who mentally and physically abused me I’m not looking for a partner nor do I want one, I think that personally I’m better off alone.

[Asker]

I'm sorry you went through that with your ex, Wishing you all the best as you move forward with life🦋.

[DiegoO]

I don't actively try to find a partner because I rather don't do it for the moment. To explain it in the most simple way: I am trying to renew my life, fix what I gotta fix, before entering a new relationship—the first one was unconventional; a LDR that lasted some years. Been so, F*ck it, I rather achieve very important goals, before sharing my life with a SO.

[TheSpaceGnome]

Science has proven that different things make different people happy. You cannot "make an effort" to change what you prefer. What you prefer is governed by your individual genetic makeup.


I'm very unhappy being single for a lot if reasons.

[TheSpaceGnome]

It doesn't matter what you post for "evidence".

This is a subjective topic based on personal preferences, and most people prefer to not be single.

[Asker]

Everyone has free will if you don’t want to be single then don’t be single but if you do want to be single then be single and know that you can definitely be happy with being being single just as you can be happy with being in a relationship.

[TheSpaceGnome]

Actually no, I literally can't be happy being single.

My entire point is that while people have the freedom to choose what to do, no one has the freedom to choose what does or doesn't make them happy, that part is entirely genetic. Like what food tastes good, or sexual attraction preferences, or which activities are boring or fun, or if you need "me time" or want all your time spent with a relatable person, you don't get to choose any of that, your genetic makeup chooses all of it for you.

Wants and dislikes are most definitely NOT governed by free will.

[Asker]

I believe that happiness can be explained scientifically which is what I did here but I always base things on the bible because it has never once failed me, everything written in it is as true as true can be, so I believe that out of everyone in this world Christians find it much easier to experience happiness more than non-Christian people and atheists, because they are comforted by the word of God in the bible and because they literally have a real living God on their side who does everything he can to ensure that his people are happy regardless of what happens in their lives be it divorce, abuse, singlehood, marriage, miscarriage etc. If you are a non believer that's okay but It will never change the truth and everything I said is true. Of course this is a world of pain and suffering everyone experiences those things and if you read the bible then you'd know why the world is the way it is.

[Asker]

if you are a non-believer then that's your choice i have no right to judge you at all.

[TheSpaceGnome]

People who practice science are able to prove that wants are subjective and genetics based, and that true free will is illusionary, because even your tendency to pick choices is based on your genetic vulnerabilities and pleasures.

People who practice science are also able to prove that a god can't exist, because the entire concept is self contradicting.

Omnipotence cannot exist, because opposites exist.

The beginning of everything cannot exist, because something cannot come from nothing.

So theism and creationism are by default, guaranteed wrong, regardless of what anyone believes.

The universe is infinite in size and age, it always existed, it exists everywhere in all directions, and everything in it was always restricted by the laws of physics.

[Asker]

people who believe in science have also proved that God does in fact exist so believe what you want to believe, I believe in God many other people do as well and many others don't, but the truth is that God does in fact exist and that truth will never change no matter if you choose to believe it or not.

[TheSpaceGnome]

1. Science is not a belief system, it's a method used to prove or debunk assumptions, it's how to understand how things work and what they are, and beliefs are just assumptions people cling to. Your computer/phone that you are typing your nonsense argument with was made with science.

2. Science has proven omnipotence can't exist, and that the universe always had to exist. And a god is either an omnipotent being, or a being that created everything, or both. So a god existing simply isn't possible.

3. Here is the proof of how thats simply not possible:

Also, the term "he" is used loosely in this analogy for brevity reasons, and is not literally describing god as male.

Step 1: Can god create something so heavy he cannot lift it? If the answer is yes, he is not omnipotent, do to his inability to to lift it, if the answer is no, he is not omnipotent, do to his inability to create it.

Conclusion: because opposites exist, omnipotence can't.

Step 2: is simply acknowledging that creationism makes the claim that in order for the universe (or anything for that matter) to exist, something had to create it, but then by that logic, something had to create whatever created the universe (ie something had to create god under your logic), and something had to create what created the universe, and something had to create that, and the thing before that, and the thing before that, etc. for infinity. Otherwise the claim that something needs to be created to exist is false, removing the need for a god.

But here is the thing, if thats the case, and if the definition of universe/universal is everything to ever exist anywhere, than the universe had to have always existed. And this point is futher reinforced when you look at scale and physics, which imply that there is no such thing as nothingness, so the universe has to stretch in all directions infinitely, and a finite thing cannot create an infinite thing.

[TheSpaceGnome]

Religion uses circular logic and false claims based on assumptions, ie faith, so science, which actually bothers to verify something as true or false using evidence, math, and the resulting logic, is always going to outclass religion in reliability.

[Asker]

yeah that's why there's scientists and archeologists who have proved the existence of God and that is why all the prophecies in the bible are happening and have happened!.

[Asker]

the have even proved the validity and accuracy of the bible, but like I said you and other people choosing to not believe in God is not going to alter the fact that God is real and that the bible is entirely factual.

[Asker]

they

[TheSpaceGnome]

Actually you are just making those claims up, none of that ever happened.

Instead, archeology, paleontology, astronomy, chemistry, physics, and many other sciences debunk most of the events in the bible.

[TheSpaceGnome]

They also debunk god.

[Asker]

I’m not making anything up. Everything that I said is true!. You not believing me is not going to change the fact that God is real and the Bible is highly factual. That fact is going to remain true it’s always been true and it will always be true, end of story.

[TheSpaceGnome]

Pretty much everything you've said was made up lol.

[Asker]

Facts can never be made up, otherwise you'd be changing the definition of the word Facts.

[TheSpaceGnome]

"Facts can never be made up, otherwise you'd be changing the definition of the word Facts."

Indeed, thats the only thing you've said in this entire conversation thats true, the rest was made up and an attempt to change the definition of facts.

[Asker]

believe what you wanna believe it's your right but I know I spoke nothing but the truth!.

[TheSpaceGnome]

Beliefs are for idiots, I'll stick to facts.

[Truthatanycost]

I don't... I've been happily single for ages.

[Light909090]

So your 106 years old so since your 106 I’d like to ask you a Question.
Did you Ever Meet Hitler?
Or maybe you Were his buddy? Or see him Out in public? Was He a Good Guy? Was he funny?
Lot of fake news now a days and you can’t take the news or history books For Truth anymore.
So that’s why I’m asking your a dude that’s been around longer than most people and clearly you know how to Take care of yourself.

[Truthatanycost]

@Light909090 I forgot my age showed as 106. It was a sign up error. I'm mid 40's. Having said that, I feel the best shape I've ever been in my life, am never tired and train isometrics every week. I love life! Who knows, sometimes History is just His story while other time's it's half truth.

[Light909090]

Nice you broke down the word to reveal its true meaning.

[Asker]

@Light909090 you are freaking awesome, I’m happy that you enjoy being single it’s good to do what feels right for you 😊 ignore the nay sayers!!!

[Pixel343]

@Light909090 bullshitatanycost is just some stupid troll

[Asker]

@truthatanycost****, you are freaking awesome, I’m happy that you enjoy being single it’s good to do what feels right for you ignore the nay sayers!!!

[HighlyQuestionable]

... and the conversation degenerates...

[es20490446e]

Because you can be content with being single temporally, but not permanently.

As our biology want's to procreate.

[Asker]

there are many people who stayed single for life and were happy and content with that so it does not mean that you should pursue what you are biologically wired to do.

[Anonymous]

What are you talking about, I am. I say this repeatedly on here. I mean do I want a relationships, yeah. But not at the expense of both mine and her's happiness. I think this is why so many women CHOOSE friends with benefits's today. Because occasionally they want that connection. But they don't want the hassle that comes with it. So they live a short fantasy then go back to thier single life.

[AsaKyo]

Why can't a miracle happen to make a friend who lives close enough to me appear again and just let me stay with them for awhile until I can sort out my financial problems and get out of my house because I hate how toxic and disgusting is, along with being treated more like a therapist rather than a daughter?

[Phoenix98]

Because that’s not who I am as a person I’m not a individual that enjoys being alone and lonely. it genuinely makes me miserable. And I have a want and desire to start a family of my own.

[Telekinetic-Potato]

Because I want a family. I never really felt like I had one and I feel like it's part of my life purpose.

[Anonymous]

I am more than happy to stay single. I'm just bummed that I am not getting laid.

[Asker]

on the bright side though is that getting laid is not necessary to your survival and you can totally live without it.. although...

[PamelaRivers]

Everyone has unique needs. Some of us need more companionship than others.

[RandomGuy1030]

Because being happy and content isn't the sole mission of life. Its to be happy and content in the most contexts. Its flexibility. If you show up to dinner and everyone has a girl friend, you'll be the odd dude who nobody likes. Who the fuck wants that

[Adam_INTJ]

I find it hard to believe that people won't like you because you're single. You might be single because you're not liked, but the reverse is a difficult claim to make.

[RandomGuy1030]

@Adam_INTJ being single is conspicuous

[zagor]

That's funny because when I go to a dinner and everyone else is in couples, I feel free to talk to whoever I want, and come and go as I please. No sig other insisting on staying or leaving or spending all your time with this or that couple.

[Berethor]

Monks and nuns had proven it a long time ago, but do you want to be a nun?

[wowop99266]

Oh I definitely am. I've never been in a relationship before and I've been very happy with myself. I don't plan on changing my mind any time soon.

[HighlyQuestionable]

Because "science" is not a human being, by "science", we actually mean whatever opinion corporate america is willing to pay for. The internet doesn't have emotions (yet?).

[Asker]

Your wrong hun science is man made so it does help people a lot in most cases. Being single is backed by science according to scientific discoveries the reason why you can be happy as a single person is because science discovered that happiness is how you think about things and it is not determined by having friends and being in a relationship that’s why there’s people with good friends and partners who are still unhappy. And that’s why there is single people who are happy. It all boils down to how you think about things so you don’t need to be in a relationship to be happy because of that.

[HighlyQuestionable]

You're wrong hun, what passes as "science" in these times is often nothing more than corporate sponsored BS designed to lead the masses in what ever direction will lead to "corporation A" making more money than "corporation b".

Your statement is so full of both kinds of Relativistic fallacies. I don't know where to start.
Specifically disturbing is "... science discovered that happiness is how you think about things... This nonsensical statement is constantly bandied about nowadays. Derived from the attitudes of individuals like Norman Vincent Peale and other Evangelical Christians who conflate popular religion, and motivational speaking subculture with Science.

I am involved in SCIENCE, Electrical Engineering to be exact.

What the Corporate/Religious secteur promotes is not "Science" but instead "Speculation". Speculation and Theory are important precursors to a Science, but are not identical with it.

[Asker]

Look here Mr, believe what ever the heck you want to believe but just know that there are people who are completely content and happy with being single all over the world.

[Anonymous]

I am... As long as a have a hookup on the side to take care of those needs, I'm generally happier single... I like not having a man to answer to.

[ArrowheadSW]

Like you say, I am generally happier being single.

[Djaay]

Isn't that slutacious? Definitely Not my kind of mother for my kids.

[Opinion Owner]

@Djaay who said I wanted to be the mother to your kids, or to anyone else's... I am not defined by what my uterus can accomplish

[Djaay]

Obviously

[TroyDT]

I really do not put much effort into finding a partner.

[Anonymous]

Because people want what they want. Some people wanna be doctors, lawyers, pro athletes. That's what they want in this life. There is nothing wrong with that. Let people go after their dreams. Not all people wanna walk around scared to live.

[Asker]

Your divesting from the topic and you didn’t answer my question.

[Asker]

deviating

[Bluemax]

"Science has proven..."

Where are the studies then?

[Asker]

Honestly There’s so many online but I’m still on Xper 1 I’ll charge up to xper 2 and copy and paste some of the ones I found online. Over here in this reply section.

[Heolurt]

I listen to podcasts that put a truthful look on females, to force myself to realize how better off I am never ever, ever being wanted by any female.

[LindsayR07]

Which podcasts are these?

[Heolurt]

@LindsayR07 I'm guessing you're asking to find out if I listen to Andrew Tate? That would be a no, I listen to females and hear the bullshit they say to tell myself these are the females out there and this is what I am luckily missing out on because I was gifted with such an ugly face.

[LindsayR07]

Actually I've never heard of Andrew Tate, I was just asking out of curiosity. I don't know what you look like so I can't speak to your appearance, but I can say you deserve happiness, whatever that means to you. That may not mean females, it may mean being single if that's for you.

But, if you want to be with a woman, while a lot of us can be shallow bitches, many of us aren't.

[Heolurt]

@LindsayR07 I've never met a female who wanted to be or was nice to me, I've had what I thought were female friends in my younger years but looking back they were actually some of the meanest people I ever knew, I just figured that was just how friends were to each other.

[LindsayR07]

That is truly unfortunate

[Heolurt]

@LindsayR07 yea I believe that's just the way life is.

[genericname85]

Nobody says you can't be happy and content being single for some time. But unless you're anti social or autistic, you will grow lonely sooner or later. And that still doesn't mean you won't also be happy or content. Just that something is missing. And you're longing for company. Humans are like that by nature.

[Asker]

You can still be lonely even while your in a relationship and even while your with your friends so loneliness has nothing to do with being alone, loneliness is a state of mind and you feel lonely when you start neglecting self care and when you engage in negative thinking. Many people are alone but yet they don’t feel alone at all.

[genericname85]

well if you're in a terrible relationship, you can feel lonely and if you're in a good relationship feeling lonely, you should definitely see a psychotherapist.

[Asker]

psychotherapists and scientists are the ones who discovered that loneliness is how you think about life and it has to do with self care. people who can think positively and realistically will never feel lonely even if they are alone but people who lack on self care and who have negative unrealistic thoughts will feel lonely no matter what.

[Asker]

people who can think positively and realistically and who practice *proper and adequate self care*

[genericname85]

it's not "unrealistic" to have human company in the sense of sexual and/or romantical relations with another human being tho. so i think if "long term" you never long for that and you never feel lonely when you are lonely, something is wrong with you. obviously there's something wrong with you too, if you can't take care of yourself but that's a different topic entirely.

[genericname85]

it's all a matter of time. like if you just broke up with someone yesterday and you already feel lonely and looking for new company, then something is wrong. but if you spent 30 years alone and you don't have negative emotions about not having any intimacy with a human that you like, then also something is wrong.

[Asker]

your not a scientist or a therapist but yet your so quick to say that single people who are happy have something wrong with them... that says a lot about you.

[Asker]

you are not a scientist and im telling you that being lonely has nothing to do with being alone and your here talking as if what your saying is backed by science... as you speak there are people who have been single for 50 plus years who are very happy as single people, and your here saying that something is wrong with them for being single and happy... again this says a lot about you as a 36 year old man really it does.

[Asker]

everything i'm saying regarding loneliness and being happy as a single person is backed by science and on top of that i'm a psychology student i have my degree so i do know what i'm talking about. everything i said to you is facts if you don't believe me look it up for yourself. some people are happy being single and they are content with that, they don't feel lonely and they are not trying to pursue romantic relationships and nothing is wrong with them as you are implying.

[genericname85]

ok firstly: what you're doing now is just borrowing someone elses authority to invalidate my argument. this is not how you have a positive conversation.

secondly: you're telling me that i'm not scientist so therefore i'm wrong while you're no scientist but you are right? just cause you read some papers doesn't mean you somehow represent "science". i have read my fair share of psychologic litterature as i actually am in an adjacent science (social science) where social psychology, media psychology and cognitive psychology was part of my education and i am still NOT using all this "authority" that i have to try and invalidate your argument. because i think that my arguments stand on their own.

fact is that you can be happy with one aspect of your life and unhappy with another aspect of your life. people evaluate their own happiness differently. they use very individual metrics to estimate "how happy they are". and i am not saying that you can't be 50 and single but still overall rate your life to be good and be happy. i'm saying that you will be lonely and dissatisfied with the fact that you're single. that doesn't mean that has to skew your individual overall happiness for the worse necessarily (tho it does do that generally speaking if you look at quantitative measures of subjective quality of life) but if you do not feel dissatisfied with the fact that you're single or with your lack of physical and emotional intimacy, then i will claim that something is wrong with you. and i am fairly confident that i am not wrong in claiming that tho i will not spend the time to provide you with the peer reviewed studies that would support my claim.

what you can do is disagree with me. that's fine. but you can't just borrow the authority that you do not have to tell me that i'm factually wrong, when you don't even know that and you don't even have that authority.

[genericname85]

i never said that a person can not have the state of happiness and content for some time when they're single. people tend to be specially happy about the fact that they are single when they just broke up. but that's like looking at a snapshot of an emotional state of a person and then saying that this is generally true, good and healthy permanent state of mind for most people.

[genericname85]

what do you have a major in? please don't tell me it's psychology.

[Asker]

I mentioned my qualifications and the fact that i am drawing from scientific discoveries to show that my words are factual sir not to exert authority over you at all.

We have narrowed down a very complex situation, some people are happy and single because they derive comfort, meaning and pleasure from stuff like friendships, family, pets, or work or even their religion or beliefs. But it is true that loneliness is due to a lack of self care and negative, unrealistic thinking, people who think positively and realistically do not suffer from feeling lonely.

we are all different some people prefer to be single because that makes them happy and content while others prefer romantic relationships because that fulfils them or adds on to their happiness. we are complex creatures as humans and sometimes things do not work the same way for all of us the same way that's why if you ask people about the exact same experience you get different responses sometimes one will say great and the other will say awful.

you are wrong for saying that people who do not feel lonely or dissatisfied whilst having been single for many years have something wrong with them just because they managed to derive happiness outside of a romantic relationships, you are now here diagnosing people which is wrongful honestly.

[Asker]

*people who think positively, realistically and who practice adequate and proper self care do not feel lonely*

[genericname85]

oh you have "have narrowed down a very complex situation". that sounds scary. that's certainly not words used to discourage me from questioning or chosen as an attempt to either boost your own credibility or intimidate me xD

so cann you maybe go a bit into it? what is the instrument that you measured "happiness" with? was it a cross-sectional or longitudal study design and what known predictors of "happiness" have you used to make sure that you isolated the effect of "being single"?

[genericname85]

was it even quantitative at all or just qualitative?

[Asker]

@genericname85, like I said I'm basing my words off of scientific discoveries, I did not conduct any of the research. Umm you know while we're here debating and your here being sarcastic towards me a cute innocent little girl baby of love👶there are single people having the time of their lives in many parts of the world and even though they experience challenges due to being single they still find ways to make the best of their singlehood and some even want to be single for the rest of their lives I just wanted to say that just because it's true.

[genericname85]

oh. sorry. when you said "We have narrowed down a very complex situation" i was assuming you did the research. but i guess you're using "we" vaguely referring to the "scientific community" which would again be borrowing authority you do not have. i don't think that any peer reviewed study ever used the words "We have narrowed down a very complex situation". i think you know exactly that i was shit testing you by trying to get you to use some actually "scientific" terminology so that i can actually take you somewhat seriously as an expert in the field.

you framing my critical inquiry as "sarcastic towards me a cute innocent little girl baby of love" just shows me that i can not take you seriously. you're just trying to dodge now cause you realized that you are standing on thin groun cause you don't personally have the authority you're borrowing. sad to see that you have resort to the "cute innocent little girl" bullying tactics that seem to have worked for you in the past.

i already did say that you can be temprarily happy if you compartmentalize your happiness and then put more emphazis on other positive aspects. but that in no way invalidates my argument that if you're "long term" happy and satisfied with the isolated fact that you do not have a partner, there's psychologically something not normal with you. because healthy humans long for intimacy (not just friendship). it is a basic human need according to Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs, which every psychology 101 student should know about and should know that if those needs aren't satisfied in due time will lead to feelings of deprivation.

[genericname85]

or is it that you're single and this is your copium? because that would fit perfectly with cognitive dissonance theory xD

[genericname85]

i'm not trying to make you feel bad for being single by the way. i'm single. i know what it's like.

[Asker]

your distorting Maslow's theory, it says nothing about needing to be in a romantic relationship in order to be happy. No matter what you say there are people who are completely content and happy with being single and they intend on doing that forever your words will not change that fact at all.
Rather focus your energy into finding a partner since you are so unhappy with being single and stop making your self a qualified therapist by diagnosing people who are happily single and who intend on staying single forever with being abnormal you don't have the qualifications to do that so don't.

[Asker]

yourself*

[Asker]

by saying we I am referring to you and I and our debate by the way.

[Asker]

"your distorting Maslow's theory, it says nothing about needing to be in a romantic relationship in order to be happy"
Maslow's theory says that you need either friendship, family, connection with others etc. and that you need one or more of those things in order to be fully functional and you are here using Maslow's theory to try and make people who do not have romantic relationships seem abnormal. Initially i said single people seek comfort, meaning or pleasure through friendship, family, religion, pets etc. all these things meet Maslow's law for love and belonging...

[genericname85]

I said intimate relationships not romance. You're distorting what i said. Neither Maslow nor me said anything about romantic. You just did. Maslow is not a collection of things you can pick and choose from what one needs or not. People need all of them. And if they don't accomplish them, they feel deprived which either causes them to try to accomplish them it is not an option to not have those things and still feel perfectly happy unless you have a mental condition that causes you not to long for that thing. Which then means you're not normal. Which isn't at all a normative judgement but just an objective statement of fact. It's as if you're claiming people don't need friends to be happy. Yes they absolutely do unless they're anti social.

[Asker]

no i am specifically talking about single people here, I'm saying that there is scientific evidence saying that single people can be happy while being single even if they decide to be single for the entire duration of their lives. I already explained Maslow's law and how single people can meet that law of love and belonging so i won't do that again.

[Asker]

your here saying that happily single people who have been happily single for the entire duration of their lives are abnormal and yet you have 0 qualifications to diagnose any body with abnormality and besides that no psychologist goes around diagnosing single happy people who have been happily single for the entire duration of their lives with abnormality... and then when I refer to being in a relationship as romantic relationships you pretend like its world war 180.. i'm done with this convo!

[genericname85]

Yeah you're right. Cause at this point it's a matter of ego and not of truth. I see that a lot in the younger generation. They go to university to learn how to "proof what they are all saying is true" not to learn what is actually true. If you do not have mental regulatory processes that make you seek company if you have none, then something isn't normal with you. Normal people get feelings of deprivation that make then wanna adjust their behavior to improve their situation as intimacy is a basic need that "normal people" can't live without. I invite you to find evidence for your claim that it's perfectly normal and mentally healthy for a human being to be happy and have no feeling of deprivation if they have no intimacy for a long time you won't find that. I'm sure you'll find a lot of people who say that they are happily single. But that's not at all scientific and not at all vaguely close to truth.

[Asker]

Maslow says that you need to meet 1 or more of the criteria listed his under the law of the need for for love and belonging (social needs), if you look on the pyramid they list various things such as sexual intimacy (romantic relationships) and they list family, social acceptance, religion, organizations etc. you can be happy and fully functional if you meet one or more of the things listed under the law of love and belonging this is according to Maslow, I'm not picking and choosing anything but I guess you missed that fact.

[genericname85]

maslows hierarchy of basic needs is not a list of options where you can opt out of one individual thing if you want. you need everything that is in it. and if you do not, then you are deprived and will long term not be mentally healthy. period. pointless to discuss this, cause you're talking about emotional feel good crap and i'm talking about facts.

[Dargil]

Some guys feel the need for companionship and to feel loved through sexual intimacy.

[HighlyQuestionable]

Other guys feel the need for companionship alone.

[Asker]

@HighlyQuestionable we don't need it because you won't die without companionship and sexual intimacy.

[HighlyQuestionable]

This is not EXACTLY/necessarily true about companionship, Asker.

There are some theories and even a bit of evidence about something tentatively called "Social Privation Theory" that would suggest that those who are not accepted by the opposite sex/gender and are not allowed to date/form pair bonds have worse health, higher stress levels, etc.

If these studies turn out to "hold water", then you are , in fact, incorrect.

[Asker]

@HighlyQuestionable there are also studies that have shown that people who are not in relationships can definitely be happy, healthy, etc. in fact it's happening right now as we speak they are people who are happy and single and healthy and all the things you said single people do not have.

[Asker]

There are single people with low stress levels, good health, etc.

[TonightYouu]

Because we aren’t meant to go through life alone

[Meatunnel69]

Prove it

[TonightYouu]

@Meatunnel69 www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC2527715/

[Zolly99999]

It would be nice to share life adventures with someone from time to time.

[JosyJosy]

I can, but I do need friends. to feel complete at least

[Anonymous]

I'm happy either way. I am happier being in a relationship. I love girls.

[Meatunnel69]

Because I enjoy the slimey snail trails girls leave on my abs

[Asker]

👀...

[Meatunnel69]

?…..

[Anonymous]

Because I’ve gotta constantly Have my Dick in a Girls pussy Or mouth to feel whole and complete.

[Asker]

👀…..

[Pixel343]

That's the answer I've been waiting for

[LivingExample]

Because people can be happy and content single does Not mean they should settle for that!

[Asker]

everyone should should settle for whatever the heck they want to settle for, if you want to settle for being happy and content as a single person then by all means do. We all have free will Afterall.

[LivingExample]

WOW, never settle for Anything in Life. Settling makes people live a life of Regret!

[007kingifrit]

because the purpose of life is to make more life?

[Asker]

that's why there's people who can't have kids and people who would rather not have kids right?

[007kingifrit]

those people are failures and losers.

[maximumpower]

Repeat yet again - for at least third week running.

[Asker]

I like breathing too.

[anylolone]

Because science has proven humans are a pairbonding species.

[Anonymous]

What science has shown that you can be perfectly happy being single and alone? It’s quite the opposite when you’re single and lonely.

[Anonymous]

Guys can and are happier single.

[AssholeNumberOne]

Same. Good for you

[Adam_INTJ]

See my opinion that I wrote. Your claim is incorrect.

[Asker]

@Adam_INTJ his claim is correct but it’s the same for girls.

[Opinion Owner]

older single women are miserable.
Young single men are horny.

Young single women are spoiled entitled and crave sexual attention from men, but are blissfully ignorant to actual life.

Older single men are financially stable, free, and happier to explore and do what they want without being controlled

[Asker]

Anonymous guy user your generalising too much, not all single women are unhappy some are happy and content with being single look at nuns for example, look at female monks you cannot box every human being done people both men and women have managed to find happiness and contentment while being single.

[Asker]

Some not done*

[JesseJayNeak]

Because the human being is a social creature and constantly craves company

[AssholeNumberOne]

Who said I did?

[Anonymous]

I hate being alone.

[Brandi555]

I’m happy and content

[Luopio27]

It might have something to do with sex.

[melanieeeB]

Who says you can't? The fuck

[Fuentes]

I am very happy and content

[ZenJen444]

Huh? You mean insecure people

[Beardedman1996]

You can, it just takes different kinda person