Which # would you date or befriend (depending on if you are into women romantically or platonically) & WHY?

[VIVANT]

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If the ONLY info you have is how the person is dressed & based on this you have to decide if you are likely to get along, personality hobby ethics music discussion wise— which would you choose?

I think most people make assumptions about people on site based on how they are dressed. I try not to but it happens fast then I try to ignore any conclusions until further data presents itself. Really annoys me. Now DONT take this too seriously, it’s just for fun 🤩

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1 y

I understand most of us care about the content more than packaging. I’m not trying to trick you into seeming shallow lol Im just just curious about impressions- not the attraction per se.

The idea is not to choose your favorite outfit, but to try to imagine the PERSONALITY of the person based on the outfit and then choose accordingly. So you may end up choosing an outfit you do not really like aesthetically, bc it leaves an impression of a kind of PERSON you would like, or vice versa 🙂🙂🙏🏼

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1 y

…I knew a girl who had to choose a roommate based on shoes under the bed, bc the girls were not there at the time she arrived. She ended up choosing the girl who dressed very trendy & was very unpredictable. The other dressed all in black w/ chains & was extremely even tempered.. Remembering that gave me the idea.

Of the choices, Which do you think you’d get along with best? 🙃

[Lliam]

I like all of those, Vivant. People wear different clothes every day. Some days are more casual than others. So I look forward to their changing moods of attire each day and their overall taste in clothing.

Of the outfits, I like #5, the yellow, the least because I don't care for the wrinkly material. But it doesn't look bad and it wouldn't turn me off.

#6 Is sporty and casual. Nothing special about it, but it looks nice.

#3 is casual but more upscale.

#2 looks super cute, fun and frolicky.

I would be intrigued by #1, 4 and 7. They are unusual and very fashionable. #1 is elegant. #7 is really cool. Reminds me of the 60s. So does #8, which I also love.

Is #9 the blue knit dress? Very classy. You look gorgeous.

#10 is really cute. Kind of a school girl look with the cute skirt and white shirt. I like the detail in the shirt and I like the skirt's color, pattern, and the waistband.
And are those your cute legs? 😉 :-)

#4 might be my favorite. Very detailed and whimsical. And really sexy.

I like your whimsical taste. You're full of surprises.

[VIVANT]

Lliam thanks for breaking it down. Your answers are always a kind of story themselves 😊

…, I knew a girl who had to choose a roommate based on the shoes under the bed bc the girls were not there at the time she arrives. She she ended up choosing the one who acted normal but was bipolar. The other acted super edgy but was extremely even tempered.. that’s what gave me the idea.

Of your choices, Which do you think you’d get along with best? Lol

But I still have to read you may have answered 😁

[VIVANT]

Nvm you went above and beyond you don’t have to do more work lol

I should try this prob on myself. I’d probably choose #1 bc she looks low key wish sny but also like no f*cos to give. Kind of trustworthy in that respect- I don’t expect pettiness & like she Jay he a good study teller if she cares to talk to me which I’m not sure lol

And the casual jeans w/ striped shirt bc casual but solid.

I’d want to talk to the one in the white shirt & teal skirt bc it’s so peaceful to look at but like you said it’s kind of school girl and they can be the worst 😂

[Lliam]

I wasn't thinking of the mean kind of school girl. I was thinking of someone who is young, playful and energetic but also smart. Or forget about what I said about school girl. It's light and breezy and suitable for almost any casual occasion from walking in the park or shopping, to going to a coffee shop or on a date. I wouldn't write that outfit off. It's really cute and fun.

[VIVANT]

Oh I know you didn’t mean that! I’m just reminded of past experiences lol I never thought you meant anything negative and yeah I agree it’s light breezy just very peaceful

I think my brain was off last night all I needed to say was if you had to guess the girls personality based solely on the clothing, which pic would you choose.

I don't know hue rust turned into 10,000 characters lol I understand the last update was relevant - the show scenario - but the rest jeez. Luckily it turns out I’m sick today so I guess it was brain fog 😶‍🌫️ 😃

Lol thank you for your patience Lliam 🙏🏼

[Anonymous]

Probably 8.

It's got an old fashioned quality to it. And that appeals to me. I'm not suggesting we need to go back to a time before feminism or anything like that. But a woman who shows a lot of skin to me is a turnoff. Less is more

8. Just says to me "I'm relaxed, yet I'm still feminine and can decimate you with my charm anytime I want to".

Also the design and accompanying accessory says (at least to me) I'm kind of hippy-ish. Not that I am drawn to hippies in any way. But I do like thier non judgmental nature. So in that respect I do like hippies.

Also 8. Is not something I'd see many women wearing. Odds are she's a unique minded person. So she'll definitely be different. And I'm always at least intrigued by women who alter my already held perceptions of women.

[VIVANT]

lol actually I completely understand 8 is my favorite too it’s very soft and the color puts my mind at ease. I tend to wear it when I am in a peaceful graceful gentle mode and without losing sight of the mystery around me. It’s crazy how clothes can create or enhance quality of interactions with the world-, not just people. Not specifically physical sexual attraction but so many other auras.

Very much what you describe is what I like about it. It feels welcoming with a respectful distance while maintaining a connection.

Thank you for explaining that was very insightful and pretty much exactly what I was asking. ✨🙏🏼

[JustAnj]

I'd hang out with 3, reason being is that they are the modern chic, sweet, fun, casual, upbeat, talkative, and romantic types.

A lot of people dismiss this style for being modern and assume High maintenance or too youthful but really it's a girl who is grounded and level headed with a pinch of fashion sense.

Also sensetive to others but still fun may you be getting coffee or going on an adventure.

😉

[Jamie05rhs]

I totally agree with you regarding #3. I regret that I forgot to mention it when I commented on the other question.

[AsaKyo]

Knowing how I am, I'd most likely befriend #4 or #5 lmao

[VIVANT]

Those pics really needed to be zoomed back 😂 🤦🏻‍♀️ really awkward

[VIVANT]

Thanks for answering 😊

[AsaKyo]

Np! <3

[NathanDavis]

7... marry...

6... team up with, for school project...

5... date...

4... try to get her attention out of intrigue...

3... being business partner with or work project with

2... start a random conversation with, till we depart in different ways (bus stop moment, lol)

1... would approach no matter what out of intrigue...

10... friends with

9... keep wondering... "isn't that too warm for summer?" lmao...

8... best friends with, reminds me of my best friend right away... lol

[TonyMetal___86]

It seems that the skycrapper girl's head had reached the moon, she's getting taller and taller 😂

Anyways they all look cool, i'll date all of them except the ones where the legs are shown a lot because the dresses are too short...

All the other outfits are good!

[VIVANT]

Lol the 🌚 sometimes the mirror is more or less upright it dies impact the apparent length. I don’t remember one with short skirt- oh yeah ok nvm I see

Thank you 😊 😊

[TonyMetal___86]

You're always welcome 😌

[VIVANT]

♥️💫

[abhi44444]

What the shit first we watch face not body to tell the truth most time when I am out my eyes are always on face even when I am driving it make me afraid I will crash into something because of this they just too cute but i all forget them as I see there face next time I see new face

[VIVANT]

That wasn’t the question 😂 but thanks 😊

The last update probably explains it best

[abhi44444]

Actually I really fear my first accident will be because those bullets

[VIVANT]

Ok It’s fine lol thank you for answering 😊

[ZackBan]

I would both befriend AND date all of them.
Because all of them combined make up a person that is very multilayered and riddled with personality, who undervalues just how attractive she is.

So yeah... chosing? Impossible

[VIVANT]

😂 I have a question and I’m asking you bc I know you will be 💯 honest & will not think I’m being accusatory.

Can you tell me exactly what you thought I was asking?

I ask bc, Last night when I write this l, I was getting sick -tho I didn’t know. I’m sure my thinking was cloudy bc I thought I was being really clear, yet most people seemed to be answering something I was not asking. If it was just a few people then it’s probably them, but if it’s everyone, it has to have something to do with me lol

I didn’t understand why no matter how I tried to explain & of course I thought at the time I’d been explicitly clear 😛 it made no dent. Yet still I kept trying to re explain.

I woke up to a giant mess of text & now im genuinely wondering if I in fact had never managed to actually convey what my question was.

I know my head was really foggy tho I didn’t realize it at the time. I think most people think I’m asking which picture looks the best. It’s an acceptable question, but not one I was in the frame of mind to ask & it’s a bit mortifying now to realize it may look like all I was doing was asking people to look at me & tell me where I look best.

[ZackBan]

I understood it as "who would you date or befriend if each of these pictures was of a different woman"
Like trying to use the outfit to judge the personality of the wearer

[VIVANT]

Oh yeah that’s what I was asking. I think the personality part got lost someone bc mist people were answering based on which outfit was most attractive which wasn’t the question. It can play a part obviously but it’s that you can only guess the personality based on the outfit so who do you choose.

Fair enough sone people don’t care about the personality if it’s just a date and others don’t want to guess based on looks. That’s fine. But I think many assumed I was just asking which looks just attractive to date.

It’s not just this question like every question I’ve ashes recently I find I’m true explaining so something is off.

Thank you for your time 😁😁

[VIVANT]

Haha you should do one! 😛😛 you won’t but it’d be fun

[ZackBan]

I'm afraid it would be different color t-shirts and pants for me. I dress fairly basic outside of work (where I wear a suit)

[VIVANT]

Be funny if you wore 7 diff t shirts & still there was a lot of variability in choosing 🙃

[molonski2]

I kinda like them all honestly , I think you are correct we do assume , I kinda like the gypsie , greenie , kaftan look , but I voted A , coz I can only pick one :) .

[VIVANT]

Thank you 😊 😊

[molonski2]

Quite an even split when you look across the Stats --

[VIVANT]

I went looked. It’s too bad there are only 7 options. My favorite dress can’t even fit in the poll 😂 pointless 😁😁

Thank you for playing 😊

[molonski2]

Oh thats sad , maybe do another?

[rip999]

I don't befriend females. I would date girls that are fully dressed. I can't stand women showing off their body. Says a lot about their character.

[VIVANT]

Ok so beyond showing diff body or not like based on other personality characteristics which would you choose?

[rip999]

I'm looking for a woman that is emotionally mature, humble, logical, and Outgoing. Has the same values as me. Respectful towards loved ones. Respect for herself. Patient. Knows what she wants. Looks for a long term relationship.

[rip999]

There more to it than just outfits but 8,4,5

[VIVANT]

Thank you very much 🙏🏼😊

[JDAC092299]

If we had the same sense of humour or shared some hobbies any of them could be my friend but as for dating they’d have to be my friend first anyway or I wouldn’t feel a connection

[VIVANT]

The gene is to guess the personality based on the outfit and choose that one 😊😊

[VIVANT]

But yeah I do agree with what you’re saying 😊

[JDAC092299]

Ahh fair enough in which case for me it’d be 2,6 or 7

[JDAC092299]

They seem the most chilled and approachable

[VIVANT]

Tanks! Exactly what I’m asking 😊🙏🏼

[VIVANT]

Thanks lol

[VIVANT]

They are quite casual comparatively I agree 😊

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

I would date romantically cause I like this type of outfit on a girl.

[VIVANT]

Thank you good guy 😊

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

@VIVANT You're Welcome :)

[HighValue]

Interesting question. I picked 6. I think that one may be more likely to be into gaming (board games, table top RPGs, etc.)

[VIVANT]

🛎 🛎🛎 thank you! Finally playing by the rules 😂 🙏🏼

[VIVANT]

And yeah I could see that 🤔

[EmbraceThePain]

I don't believe in platonic friendships with women, so I would date all of them.

[VIVANT]

Thank you 😊

[DavidRaul]

It doesn't really matter how they are dressed, if i vibe with any of them. I am more likely to consider them for a relationship

[VIVANT]

Of course & I’m head of that’s how it should be — this was just a thought experiment about assumptions since they happen anyways 😊😊

[DavidRaul]

Yeah i know and its irrelevant in the first place

[VIVANT]

I do not disagree with you but in this case I wasn’t interested in the relevance but the phenomenon itself

Anyhow I respect your stance 😊

[DavidRaul]

Haha no i wasn't saying your question was irrelevant. I was saying it's irrelevant to judge someone based on their attire, because that most people do

[Jamie05rhs]

I know this is not what you want to hear, but

I don't choose someone based on their outfit.

(Unless, of course, it is something terribly ghastly. In which case it would be a rejection.)

[VIVANT]

I don’t expect anyone to choose someone based on their outfit under ordinary circumstances, this is purely hypothetical and not meant to be serious but also you’re not choosing based on clothing you’re choosing based on what personality you guess the person may have based on the clothing

Like if you wanted to get along with someone you go on a date with right? And all you know about her is how she is dressed, so you have to make a decision about personality based porky in the clothes.

This doesn’t mean that’s what you do naturally if it was then there would be no point in turning this into a game lol

It’s like trying to choose a team mate based on their hair style. You wouldn’t normally but who do you choose if that’s what you have to do.

This is meant to be imaginative not literal 😊😊

[Jamie05rhs]

But for the purposes of playing along with your game, I voted for number 6.

[Jamie05rhs]

Even though the skirt is my favorite option. But that wasn't an option. Lol

[Jamie05rhs]

Sorry; I see you wrote something back. Let me read it real quick.

[Jamie05rhs]

"you’re not choosing based on clothing you’re choosing based on what personality you guess the person may have based on the clothing."

(Sigh). I know, but... that goes entirely against the motto of "Don't just a book by its cover.". I feel like you are encouraging people to regress. Lol

[Jamie05rhs]

"Like if you wanted to get along with someone you go on a date with right? And all you know about her is how she is dressed, so you have to make a decision about personality based [purely?] in the clothes."

Ok; I get what you're saying there. Lol. It's just that I like basically ALL of your "personalities" (based on your clothes). So I don't want to segment you and separate you from yourself. Lol. Know what I mean?

[Jamie05rhs]

And yeah, I know I'm being difficult and ruining your game. Sorry about that. Lolol

[VIVANT]

No you’re not thinking. Each time I have to explain it I think I get a bit better at it lol I was pretty sick when I first posted and it’s way too long and clunky

Also you can choose whatever you want you just can’t vote you have to tell me 🙂 s& thank you for choosing tho you were uncomfortable I totally respect your position really lol I mean I’m going to accept the conscientious objectors of course—I just want to make sure the rules are understood bc the post is confusing 🙏🏼

[Jamie05rhs]

"No you’re not thinking." Lol. Sorry 😅

[Jamie05rhs]

Aww. I'm sorry you were sick.

[Jamie05rhs]

And okay; cool. :)

[VIVANT]

Yeah sucks but thank you 🙏🏼

[Jamie05rhs]

You're welcome. :)

[VIVANT]

Do you know a mod who can’t get rid of this post it’s too similar to other one 🥵

[VIVANT]

And too many people answered so I can’t delete but I wanted to bc it’s such a mess I thought I’d have time 😢

[Jamie05rhs]

In other words, you would like me to stop commenting on it? Okay! Lol

[VIVANT]

No not at all it got cut off I asked if you could find a mod to delete it lol

[VIVANT]

Thought you might have connections but if it’s not fair bc people already got mho

[Jamie05rhs]

@VIVANT I was just joking with you haha.

[Jamie05rhs]

But Wow- you really do want to delete this, I guess.
Now you've put me in an awkward position, because I don't believe in deleting things, on principle. I'm a librarian! 😅

[Jamie05rhs]

@VIVANT I'm just giving you a hard time; sorry. 🤪
I'll ask if you really want me to.

[AviatorTom]

Based solely on looks, I'd select 9. Classiest and most modern of all the pictures.

[VIVANT]

Thank you 😊 😊

[VIVANT]

Ah I love the color of that dress and that dress & it’s so soft 🥰

[Dreamclouds]

8 because that long dress is an explosion of colour, it has such a lovely model and texture and 4 because it expresses ao much good taste also the dres is cute and goes well with black, and the necklace is quite cute

[VIVANT]

Thank you for the detail😊😊

Hello my friend it’s been a while how are you ✨

[Dreamclouds]

I could have went a lot more lot in detail but was a bit busy, I am always good sending you all the love and good thoughts friend

[VIVANT]

It’s ok the whole world is busy 💨 💨😗

Hope all is well with you dreamer 💫

[Dreamclouds]

I am in a decent state of mind yes, I also hope all is well with you also?

[Sevenpointfive]

1 then 6

i like the hippy look but without the leggings or pants with it.

[VIVANT]

Thank you 7.5 😊

[maximumpower]

She cannot be dressed like a slob or only dress in the most expensive of fashions.
Personally, if she has a huge closet full of clothing and is always buying more, that's a major turn-off, as well.

[VIVANT]

That’s not the question 😊

[CuriousMufuxka]

10 looks pretty hot from the back.. Personality in a possible relationship develops with physical attraction. Platonically the "attention to detail" remains.

[VIVANT]

Thank you for the input 😊

[Ryan1979]

It is hard to answer this question. I don't care what she wears as long as I am treated well.

[VIVANT]

That’s a healthy attitude and I agree, but think of this not as something you’d do but a game. I’m not asking which outfit you like best but what you guess the personality to be based on the outfit. If you had to hang out with 1 out of 10 strangers and all you knew was the clothing- which do you pic? 😊😊

[RealMarek]

None of these outfits would put me off from dating or befriending a woman.

[VIVANT]

I just meant if you had to guess a personality based solely on the clothing, which outfit would you choose & what is the personality you guessed.

But I didn’t ask it clearly I was sick and it’s ok if you just want to stay with this answer. 😊😊

[RealMarek]

Oh, okay. #8... seems like she would be vibrant and cheerful.

[VIVANT]

Ok yeah that’s what I’m asking! Thanks you I love that dress lol it’s so soft and the color is relaxing 🥰

[humanearth]

Number 1 but In a real life I would choose all of them.

[VIVANT]

#1 bc you illegible sued have a personality you might click with?

Thank you 😊

[VIVANT]

What did I write 👀 👀

I think something like do you imagine that person would have a personality you’d get on with?

Thanks! 😊

[humanearth]

If we were the same age. We have we similar personalities.

I think we we would be the Yin and Yang of each other.

You see all the clothing styles you show. All show different personalities of yourself and me being me. I have the same clothing personality when I am not working

[VIVANT]

Agreed!