One night stand, hook up, maybe casually date?

[Anonymous]

I went out on a coffee date with a guy and it went really well. Later that afternoon we make plans to get dinner downtown that day, dinner goes well and we decide to head to a comedy show. After the comedy show we headed back to his place for a glass of wine and obviously start fooling around, yes we slept together, hey if it feels right do it, and then he said he was going to be out of town the next two weekends. I never heard from him since. He seemed very concerned that I went out with him while starting a new job that Monday, he said he couldn’t do it and would need to be mentally focusing. Convenient excuse it seems. If all it was supposed to be was a one night stand then fine we had a ton of chemistry and similar interests and it was a super awesome time. But he spent close to $200 on a first date just for it to be a one night stand? I’ve been in relationships and never have a guy spend that much on me for a night out. The sex was drunken new partner sex, was it the best sex ever no but it takes 2-3 times to figure that out with anyone new, at the end he said I was really getting to him before he came. A week and a half later I text him hey stranger how are you and we exchange a few messages back and forth. This weekend he is now home but it’s a holiday weekend. Thoughts on this? Would he text back if he wasn’t interested?

[Anonymous]

When hooking up with someone new I always tell my friends to go into it with no expectations and being fine with the possibility of nothing coming from it. This may be something you have to do. Could it have been a one night stand? Absolutely. There’s people you’ll meet who aren’t supposed to stay in your life and just passing through. You two shared a fun night and you’ll always have that memory, but that may be all it is. Sure $200 sounds like a lot but for some people it isn’t, and I’m sure he didn’t go into the situation planning to have sex with you. Anyway, I say wait it out. If he engages and puts effort then that’s good but if he’s not then you have your answer.

[Anonymous]

Wow you really are dense and new to that. 200 dollars is a typical amount spent on booze to get a woman drunk to fuck and chuck her. That's all you were to him was a fuck n chuck a cheap lay and yes 200 dollars is a typical amount to get some 20 or 30 year old broad drunk for a fuck n chuck

[Danny_dan92]

Texts back equal interest

[BarryLiverstone]

Yes he texted back for more sex