I went out on a coffee date with a guy and it went really well. Later that afternoon we make plans to get dinner downtown that day, dinner goes well and we decide to head to a comedy show. After the comedy show we headed back to his place for a glass of wine and obviously start fooling around, yes we slept together, hey if it feels right do it, and then he said he was going to be out of town the next two weekends. I never heard from him since. He seemed very concerned that I went out with him while starting a new job that Monday, he said he couldn’t do it and would need to be mentally focusing. Convenient excuse it seems. If all it was supposed to be was a one night stand then fine we had a ton of chemistry and similar interests and it was a super awesome time. But he spent close to $200 on a first date just for it to be a one night stand? I’ve been in relationships and never have a guy spend that much on me for a night out. The sex was drunken new partner sex, was it the best sex ever no but it takes 2-3 times to figure that out with anyone new, at the end he said I was really getting to him before he came. A week and a half later I text him hey stranger how are you and we exchange a few messages back and forth. This weekend he is now home but it’s a holiday weekend. Thoughts on this? Would he text back if he wasn’t interested?
One night stand, hook up, maybe casually date?
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