Girl's Behavior 
Guy's Behavior 
Flirting 
Dating 
Relationships 
Fashion & Beauty 
Health & Fitness 
Marriage & Weddings 
Shopping & Gifts 
Technology & Internet 
Break Up & Divorce 
Education & Career 
Entertainment & Arts 
Family & Friends 
Food & Beverage 
Hobbies & Leisure 
Other 
Religion & Spirituality 
Society & Politics 
Sports 
Travel 
Trending & News 
i have a crush on my college RA, he’s so cute and nice. i heard a thing that most RA’s sleep with the students. i’m turning 18 in a few weeks, but he’s 21 now. even when i’m 18, would it still be wrong to go for him? how do i even figure out if he’s into me/flirt with him without getting in trouble
I think it is best to wait until you are 18 to do anything. It depends on what you want out of this; Do you just want to sleep with him or do you want a serious relationship? If you want something serious, then in those few weeks, you should observe him. Listen to the things he says and watch the things he does. Use this time to make sure if he is the guy you want. Older guys often go for younger girls because they see them as easier to manipulate and easier to sleep with. They think that because you most likely have less experience in dating, then you are less likely to know the tricks men use to get what they want from you. I remember at my school a lot of seniors went out with freshman for these reasons. Obviously, not all older guys do this, and some older women do it too. I am not saying that I think you would be easy to manipulate or anything like that but be cautious, because most of the men that do this are really good at it. They can talk their way out of anything and are good at talking you into things. I am not saying that your TA is like this, but there is a possibility that he is, so just be careful. I don’t want you to get hurt. Don’t let me discourage you though; You know him better than I do. I wish you the best of luck! ❤️
It is time. You have reached the age where urges take over. In fact, I predict when u two make love, you will make wacky sex faces during your encounters.
First off you are Attractive But It’s a bad idea 👎 We’re talking about his Career you said it yourself You heard rumors That should be enough for you to back off if the idea of him Losing his Job because rumor gets out there that you were sleeping with the teacher his license to teach will be Destroyed and all that time hard work and money He did to become a Teacher will be Ruined because some Attractive Girl decided to seduce him essentially Taking away His Free will because of the seduction is like Seducing his mind Taking away His free Will due to promise of Seeing you naked and banging you
It’s hard to resist fucking a Girl when She wants too
Hopefully His will is stronger than the Desire to be inside of you.
u The university may have some rule that prohibits him from engaging in a relationship with the students under his charge, but for that position, the enforcement is very sporadic. If you want a smooth way to ease into it, get one or two girls to agree to go out to dinner and then invite him along. You engage him in conversation and the other girls know to leave as soon as they are finished with dinner. Then, there you are, you and him, talking in private for some extended time. If there is any mutual chemistry, that should give it a chance to show itself. Just be careful that you don't become nothing more than another notch in his bedpost.
Opinion
32Opinion
RA? Is that like a teaching assistant if so I suppose that's the only thing that would be wrong about be with him over here.
Since legal age is 16 here.
Personally I also don't see the problem with them just because they are an RA, but law will disagree.
Then of course if you are in place legal is 18 you are almost there anyway. So I don't see the problem but again law would say so.
Don't do anything about it until you are 18. If you are still interested, and he is still around, just talk to him about something light that isn't related to the school stuff and see if he is interested in that conversation. If he's interested, he will be glad to talk to you and after a while make the move to ask for more.
Just wait until you turn age 18 and figure things out from there.
After you are legal it doesn’t matter. I mean the school may frown upon an RA or an “employee” technically of the school sleeping with the people they need to mentor and take care of.. but I’m sure that happens far more often than not. So once you are 18, you can so what you like.
Shoot your shot. The age difference is not that big, and those few weeks until you turn 18 would be enough for you two to find out if you really want to have a serious relationship with him or not.
Don’t expect commitment if you sleep with him. Also, be careful. If he has sex with you he has probably had sex with a lot of other young women in the dorm. The STD risk is real.
Dnt rush to grow up,
Maybe try being friends with him, but dnt approach him with your dirty mind for it will be cool if he likes you back but, you will hate yourself and everyone if he dnt like you back
I don’t think an 18yo and 21 is a big deal. As a 21yo I’d probably not want to date someone that couldn’t get into bars for 3 years…. But I don’t think anything bad about the age gap.
Go for it! You can do it.
So go ahead and get your vagina wet and go do some hip action!
18 and 21 is more than ok. 18 and 38 is something not taken lightly by society.
If the RA fucks a lot of people, why would you want to be another conquest 😆?
Pretty sure you'd only get him in trouble if you have sex with him before 18 but even then it depends on where you live.
It's best to wait until you're 18 before doing any funny business.
Wait till you're 18, then screw his brains out.
Go for it. Who are you going to get in trouble with?
Dude just go for it that’s not even illegal
When your 18, it will then be legal for him to be with you. Yes its okay! Persue him when you turn 18
In a way I kinda eveny you. But my age I close to Heaven. And all the girls are so different now and boys
What to do? Whom to do? Have you reached age of consent?
he may has sex with you, but RAs usually have a code about the residents on their floor.
Not much of an age difference, looking like you I would think he would be interested
You can also add your opinion below!
