Is it possible to have bad luck with friendship and having no one like you but only having luck in finding a good partner?

[xJayleenx]

Like is it just me lol? I sometimes think that I might as well be lucky in love because no one likes me and besides him I am so alone I have such bad luck at friendship the other day a girl I barely knew was asking me for money and then she had the audicity to say “can I have 50 more 😬?” Like wtf lol. And everyone sucks at texting I thought I had a little chance with the girl I knew from middle school but this girl leaves me on read for days and just everyone is so lame I tried making friends on bumble too THREE TIMES. And the only good possibly good friend that I had has her own friends and lives almost 4 hours away. Like everyone already has their own friends and I have no chance. I heard that making friends as a guy is way easier. I am very shy and anxious but I eventually get comfortable.

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Like girl I’m trying to talk to you and show you some videos that I like and you just save them and leave them on read for days? Lol no one even asks me how I am except for my boyfriend.

[RealMarek]

Yes. Good friends are hard to find, especially these days. Part of it is people simulate socializing on social media, then don’t feel as much need for actual friendship. Try not to waste time texting and focus on getting quick in-person coffee or lunch meetings with people who are potential friends.

[Googlemyahoo]

I’m same. Never had a best friend but acquaintances. I don’t feel lonely though. My experience is that many people are only your friend so long as they get something out of it.

[xJayleenx]

People suck

[Googlemyahoo]

Yuuuup. 😑 Try what I did. Don’t call anyone for week see what happens.

[xJayleenx]

They won’t talk to me I already know.

[Googlemyahoo]

I tend to get annoyed when I’m around people for any length of tine and prefer just going my own way. Usually have more fun.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

I have one friend but I try but it never works out so I see myself when I look at you and I'm very shy, anxious

[xJayleenx]

Im sorry

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

@xjayleenx Thank you :p :)

[tony_baloney]

I've been very fortunate to have a handful of really good supportive and loving friends. My closest friend I've known for 14 years. This post makes me want to call and check in on everybody lol

[888theGreat]

would you rather be single and hang out with so called friends or with a guy and no close friends?

[xJayleenx]

I love my guy so ill pick him anytime

[Adogdog]

Yeah, it is possible. You are fine and have nothing to worry about. Anyone would be glad to be your friend!

[xJayleenx]

Thank you 😊

[FilmGuy93]

I guess it's possible, but it would be rarer than having the opposite problem.

[ohsheeT]

So your saying you have no friends. Come on you have many friends I would think I will be your friend if you ever want to chat send me a DM

[katestar]

Are you talking to me or someone?

[ohsheeT]

Oops what did I do right this on your page or your post well I I'm not sure LOL but at the same time guess I'm talking to you if you don't have any friends

[katestar]

I do some friends

[katestar]

I do have some friends. In here. Will you be my friend?

[ohsheeT]

Yes of course

[ohsheeT]

Please Dm me

[katestar]

Okay

[katestar]

Yeah. I agree with you.

[Zolly99999]

I guess it's possible..

[Staximus]

Maybe you have no social skills

[xJayleenx]

Thank you for that 😂 but then how did I land a boyfriend? I suffer from pretty bad social anxiety but I still tried to put myself out there

[EaterPeter]

Yes it is

[EaterPeter]

Thanks for like!