Girls that date older guys, do you ever consider what will happen years from now?

[MikeTheBartender]

First let me say, I LOVE DATING younger women, I'm 41 and will go out with girls that are 21 for drinks or whatever and have a blast but when the girls start getting attached I'm always thinking... Does she realize when she will be a hot 41 year old I will be an old and maybe ugly 61 year old? That's kind of the far stretch but really anything under 10 years I have to think about that. Guys w similar experiences chime on in.

[ShadezMcgee]

Nah, I get it completely dude. My girl and I have a six year age gap and I was hesitant in dating because of it. Thankfully she is a gem and we are still going strong. I have had women as young as 18 make a pass at me and then have the coming to Jesus moment when I tell them how old I am. It is all dependent on the woman, but most seem to come to the realization quick in my case when that happens and walk off.

I feel like younger women that get attracted to older guys do it for one of two reasons. The first being the man resembles a strong masculine figure the are reminded of from their life and the second being possible daddy issues. Then again they may see it as a potential sugar daddy or silver fox fantasy, too. Either way, that gap will be dependent on certain factors.

[MrNameless]

There's a lot of men out there in their 50s and 60s that look good for their age. Just don't let yourself go. Avoid smoking, limit alcohol, limit time in the sun or wear sunscreen when you go out, eat healthy, get plenty of sleep, and exercise daily.

[rachel776]

i don't stay with guys that long and when i settle down it will mostly likely be with someone 5 or 10 years older than me

[YoHoeRose]

I'm 21 and my boyfriends 35 I'm excited for him to get grays 😁🤣