If I make 100K annually, how should I keep it a secret from the women I'm dating?

[Anonymous]

i don't make 100K annually right now but suppose i reach a point, where I'll make 100K annually? I don't feel comfortable telling women i am making this much money because it's only gonna be an invitation for gold diggers or otherwise money hungry women and i don't want to invite any gold diggers in my life. When women ask me how much i make, should i lie to them and say i make 48K? Or should i simply say, that i am not comfortable disclosing my salary?

[Amy10223]

If oyu are that young and making that much money--tthat's very good, but there is no need to tell anyone about how much you make anyway. Women may be impressed, but is that what you want--for them to be impressed with you--or do you want them to know and appreciate the REAL you?

[Dinklex3]

Just date other people making the same amount as you if you're so worried..

[Avicenna]

You don't have to- just make it a dealbreaker if she asks you directly, Here's the thing- women generally will not ask you what you make. They will ask you what you do for a living and extrapolate from that and your lifestyle. where you live, etc.

[Juxtapose]

The only way to be absolutely sure is to live in a place below your means and at all costs, hide your true income. Reveal it later once she has proven she isn't care if you're poor or rich.

[Juxtapose]

*she doesn't care

[bolverk]

Never tell anyone you date how much you make - EVER - it is none of their business, if they push drop them.

[In_Trance]

Why would you wanna do this?

[Asker]

I don't want gold diggers?

[In_Trance]

How would you feel if someone did this to you?

[Asker]

With understanding. She could earn 48K or 100K and i would not be mad, that it was kept a secret. I don't blame her.

[In_Trance]

Just know that not everyone will feel the way you do about this. Communication is a key component of relationship success. Withholding information is viewed a deceitful and leads to further miscommunication, distrust and resentment

[CAPTAIN-OBVIOUS]

Buy a regular basic car