Why are women so intimidated by short men?

[TonightYouu]

Does a man’s height undermines his partner's sense of self-esteem and trigger womens fears that he will ultimately leave her for a shorter more feminine presenting woman

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The whole height thing is so stupid to me and I think women realize that how stupid it is when they learn that most men aren’t tall but most women are short therefore short men have more options while women of all heights who claim to only want tall men or date tall men drastically decrease their options

But another point I wanted to make is how you women feel about this question is how men feel when you ask us “Are guys intimidated by a strong woman?” 😑 No 👎 it’s just not attractive

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[Twalli]

I think it's illusionary protection. Bigger men appear more masucline and intimidating and thus look like they're able to protect her. It doesn't matter that I was once a second degree blackbelt and my strikes are "heavy", I am short and don't look like I could protect anyone (including myself).

[TonightYouu]

All the best fighters and strongest men throughout history and today are and have been short im sure you’ve met guys who were over 6’2 how just use their size to intimidate people but they are really just big pussies plus being tall isn’t all it’s cracked up to be taller people have back and knee problems as they age fatigue is worst for them because a larger body requires more energy ( higher caloric intake ) to move

[Twalli]

I know, you know, and the protection aspect isn't real. It's illusionary. As I said I know how to fight and if I get back into shape I am stronger than most people. Also I practice my strikes in water. That makes them extremely heavy and fast because water provides a lot of resistance. Try to punch someone underwater from standing still. It doesn't work that well. Yet continually practicing in water translates to a big increase outside of water.

[RolandCuthbert]

What in the world are you two talking about?

Women are attracted to confidence. You can be as violent as you want to be, but if you do not have the confidence to approach and engage women, all that violence won't do you a lick of good. I have known a lot of short guys who get a lot of women.

It had nothing to d do with how violent they were.

[Twalli]

@RolandCuthbert The more violence you are capable of, the more protection you can provide.

[RolandCuthbert]

Again, none of that makes any sense. If you have no confidence in approaching women, none of your violent tendencies will help you.

[USLegionary]

Women see small men espicially men smaller than them as sexually inferior, like children almost.

[TonightYouu]

Woah her tits actually do look like mosquito bites 🤣

[USLegionary]

Nice tight body though.

[TonightYouu]

Yea but I’ve seen her mom
That figure is definitely temporary 😂

[TonightYouu]

🐷 🐳

[USLegionary]

A woman's prime attractive years are 15-30, so if she's skinny like that now but puts a little bit of junk in the trunk in her 30s and 40s as women generally do natural then she will still be hot. You ever see the British model/actress Kelly brook and compare her body from age 16 to age 40 damme she still looking good.

[TonightYouu]

Yea but Kelly isn’t half black and black women who are really slim put on weight really fast and really easy as they age and it all goes to their butt and thighs genetics play a big role this is why I always tell guys to meet a girls mom and check her out because that’s probably what your girlfriend is gonna look like at that age

My uncle and his sons all went completely bald before they were 18

[USLegionary]

Don't know why but I thought she was native American. So hard to tell ethnicity these days. Thought Meghan markle was white with a tan. Then you got all these light skinned black folks in northern states and Canada that are Mathew Perry white. Kristen kreuk at first I thought she was white then Chinese depending on the light and the angle.

[TonightYouu]

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[USLegionary]

🤣🤣🤣

[CallyKat89]

No. Sometimes dating a shorter guy can feel like you're dating your little brother. Just as guys prefer blondes or brunettes, girls like tall men. You'll find someone someday, Short King.

[TonightYouu]

A woman being honest? 🤯🤯🤯 🤯 what sorcery is this? 😵‍💫😵‍💫😵‍💫

[insteadfew]

How tall are you?

[TonightYouu]

@insteadfew her or me?

[MCheetah]

Guys prefer blondes and brunettes? No one ever told me this. I go gaga for redheads; regardless of race.

Also, it's fine you're telling the truth, but don't sh*t on short men with that sarcastic last sentence. We go through enough as it is. (@bigpauly)

[skyrider]

The dating your little brother part... I agree

[TonightYouu]

@skyrider that little brother thing is creepy

But I guess incest is a popular genre for a reason
Yuck 🤮

[skyrider]

I meant dating shorter men feels like one is dating their little brother

[insteadfew]

@skyrider what's your height

[CallyKat89]

@MCheetah Hi, coming back to respond to you specifically because you seem to be responding to me on every post I make lately. I don't care about your specific preference in women. You're frankly creepy and gross. Is this because you're short and angry? Or are you angry because you're short?

[Twalli]

He is angry because he can't get girls. He ascribes this to him being short, despite the fact he's not that short. He's probably close to average in height. Personally I assume the reason he can't get girls has more to do with his personality. I don't actually prefer brunettes. My girlfriend and crush are brunette, but I don't think hair color enters into the equation for me, outside of porn.

[JHAYES317]

Not a fair comparison at all lol

[Sirenboobzilla]

Because being able to hug me and naturally be at boob level is too powerful a gift to have

[insteadfew]

😂 what a sarcasm 🤣

[Sirenboobzilla]

I mean, technically not all the sarcasm. My boyfriend is 5'4 and I'm 5'11, so he can literally just look down and have his face in my boobs without trying... too powerful I say!

[insteadfew]

How is being able to look at a pair of boobs at eye level " powerful"?

[insteadfew]

by the way why are you dating such a short man?

[Sirenboobzilla]

Because he should have to work for the boobies 😆

What can I say, he won me over

[insteadfew]

You never had any height standards for a man in your relationship?

[insteadfew]

Does it arouse you that his eyes are taking exactly at your boob level?

[Sirenboobzilla]

Generally more attracted to taller men. But this hobbit treats me better than every other guy I've dated

[insteadfew]

But you have him a chance to know him and see how he behaves and treats you. That's a good opportunity. Otherwise a tall woman would never ever even give a short man a chance. And he has enough courage to approach you?

[Sirenboobzilla]

He was a friend of a friend. We were at a party. He saw my Delain and asked if I had been to one of their shows. Took off from there

[insteadfew]

His short height never was an issue for you?

[TonightYouu]

were you intimidated by his shortness?

[Sirenboobzilla]

It was a bit challenging at first when it came to sex. But we figured that out.

Yes, totally intimidated. Hobbits can go unseen by most of they choose

[insteadfew]

How come height difference be a challenge in sex when both are lying down in bed?

[Sirenboobzilla]

Use your imagination

[ChiTown33]

Yeah, but Hobbits saved middle earth!

[TonightYouu]

@ChiTown33 um hobbits and elves 🙄

[Sirenboobzilla]

And a stubborn dwarf

[Twalli]

Primarily hobbits though. Smeagol was a hobbit. He's the reason why the ring was eventually destroyed.

[TonightYouu]

@Twalli no no no Who went to save frodo? Who convinced Aragorn to join the fellowship? Who never ran out of arrows?

[Googlemyahoo]

A tall girl will date an ugly tall guy just because of his height. If thats her only option. In their mind they’re thinking genetics & reproduction.

All of that is negated if the short guy is rich.

[TonightYouu]

I dated tall girls in middle school because nobody else liked them and they were super insecure because guys didn’t even talk to them even fat girls got more attention than tall girls

Tall girls have a hard time because guys that are as tall or taller than them still want short women look up any really tall male celebrity or influencer his wife will be like 4’10 the 6’5 guy doesn’t want the 6’1 girl he wants the 4 feet tall girl

Tall women have it slightly better than short men only because they are women and they still receive validation and attention but because most women are on the shorter side a short man has more options than a tall woman

[thisluvv]

Since when are women intimidated by short men? 🤣 I think most if us just prefer someone who is the same height or taller

[TonightYouu]

So you confess?

[thisluvv]

Well based off what I’ve seen most women prefer taller men & most men prefer shorter girls 🤷🏻‍♀️

[TonightYouu]

Exactly but what’s the average male height?

[thisluvv]

Well, according to google the average height of a male is 5.6 ft and the average height if a female is 5.2ft. Why?

[JHAYES317]

Thus intimidated lol…if you don’t wanna be with a guy shorter than you you are intimidated of what society might think

[Dazed0N0Confused]

My boyfriend is 3-4inches shorter than me, I like it better than my ex boyfriend who was over a head taller than me (I'm 5'7"). But to each their own.

[TonightYouu]

But why are you intimidated by it

[insteadfew]

Why do you like shorter man?

[Dazed0N0Confused]

I'm not intimidated by any man, regardless of his size.

I just happen to like the sex better. The best sexual experiences I've ever had were with shorter dudes.

[insteadfew]

How does height matter in sex?

[Pleaznhim4me]

We aren’t. Says who? You do know the definition of intimidated?

[TonightYouu]

See what you just said 😂 can you say that again 🤣

[MCheetah]

They're not "intimidated" by us; they just don't want to have anything to do with us and secretly hope we go extinct. There's a difference.

But yes, I get the inverted satire here in the post.

[Anonymous]

This is 100% accurate and I’m glad someone has finally brought this to light. Short men intimidate women because they also possess the power of the Devine Feminine and they cannot share that power with anyone who has a different set of genetalia.

[Harbringer26]

It's weird how people both male and female with low self-esteem always have to pretend "it's because they're intimidated".

[TonightYouu]

You clearly understood the assignment 😂 spot on mate

[Harbringer26]

That reply doesn't make sense. So as far from spot on as is possible, mate.

[TonightYouu]

Well your original comment was the whole point of the question

[LimitedBenefits101]

oof good question

But what does Tom see in that skelton? her chest is FLAT FLAT FLAT

Nice body tho.

[TonightYouu]

That’s what I said 😂😂😂🤣 zendaya is hot though but look at a lot of these models they are very well endowed they just have nice faces

[TonightYouu]

aren't

[MiamiMadness]

I know plenty of short guys who have mucho success. The difference is they’re confident and don’t stuffing playing cards in theirs shoes for an extra inch or two. No one cares more then you do

[Kori1236]

While height isn’t a huge deal or deal breaker, I do prefer my partner to be my height or taller. I’m 5’3”, so if he’s 5’3 or taller I’m happy. But I don’t go over 6’

[TonightYouu]

So your preferences aren’t a huge deal

Stop beating around the bush

[Kori1236]

If I were to meet the right guy they’re not a big deal. But I’ve also never met dudes shorter than me that weren’t kids lol

[TonightYouu]

So if he is perfect in every other way then it’s not a big deal. Got it😂

[Kori1236]

No one’s ever perfect. As said before height isn’t a dealbreaker

[TonightYouu]

If no one is ever perfect then there is no such thing as the right guy

[Kori1236]

There’s a difference between the right person and perfect. No one can ever be perfect, everyone makes mistakes and has faults. But the for the right person you can look passed their faults that doesn’t make them perfect though.

[TonightYouu]

So the guy you imagine being with isn’t the right guy for you

Why is your fantasy someone you would settle for? Are you just a more realistic person?

[Kori1236]

I don’t imagine or fantasize about dudes. Definitely more realistic

[insteadfew]

What's your height range?

[TonightYouu]

@insteadfew im 6’1

[JHAYES317]

I feel like if you wouldn’t date him if he was once in shorter, then height kinda is a huge deal…

[AviatorTom]

Because size does matter, no matter what women tell you.

[NotTacocaT6969]

Women are not intimidated by short men.


It’s literally the opposite of feeling intimidated.

[insteadfew]

Opposite feeling as in?

[NotTacocaT6969]

Not intimidating at all.

[insteadfew]

Pity? Little brother type of feeling? Kid type?

[JHAYES317]

Then you haven’t been around the right short men

[TroyDT]

No idea, as I have never seen this even once in my admittedly not very long life.

[JosyJosy]

We are? Never noticed. I'm intimidated by dangerous men. But height never had to do with any of that.

[insteadfew]

Dangerous as in?

[Avatar74]

I wouldn't have thought they are intimidated by small men

[msc545]

You really have stated this backwards but I have a feeling you know that already

[Paul09]

She's not even that tall, heels! Why do women need to wear heels to tower over everyone? Lol. Women are a bizzare species. Men like women all shapes and sizes. A lot of women love tall bearded men, Beats me. I myself aren't short. But I don't got much of a beard lol. Might be single forever because of it.

[TonightYouu]

Buck up friend! There’s more to life get to know yourself or do some volunteer work

[Paul09]

Yeah I know. I'm more happy with myself. Still seems like it would be nice to have a woman best friend for life.

[TonightYouu]

You’ll meet someone I learned to stop worrying about that stuff because everything seems to have worked out so far I mean you're still living

And you should focus on finding the right woman not just any woman

[Anonymous]

Zendaya and Tom are both about 5'8, it's just that she wears crazy high heels that makes her appear tall compared to him.

I doubt she's intimidated.

[bigpauly]

Maybe it’s insecurity. Maybe it’s preference. Depends on the girl.

[Part2603]

I LOVE IT. Way to flip the script. :)

[DCooper]

Haha well played

[Justneedtokno]

We’re not intimidated by it. Just like y’all like butts and boobs that’s the female equivalent. Nice smile tall.

[TonightYouu]

Is that all you think men like butts and boobs?
You watch too much tv😂

[Justneedtokno]

Lol no that the simple truth. That the woman’s equivalent example. If you’re asking what we like.

[JHAYES317]

Uh…not really? Boobs and butts have nothing to do with height…

[Rockstarrrrr]

Lol why is this question in backwards

[KrakenAttackin]

Ha! Priceless question.

[JCT666]

Insecurity, mostly.

[BLP11520]

Did not know that was a thing

[maximumpower]

They're not intimidated - they're materialistic.

[Chazmatazz269]

Ell oh ell!

[Anonymous]

I think its the opposite.

[TonightYouu]

That’s the point

[art84]

They aren't attracted to short men.

[Anonymous]

Are you serious dude?

[In_Trance]

They're not

[TonightYouu]

Yea they are

[In_Trance]

You watch too much TV

[TonightYouu]

I don’t even own a tv I’m more of a movie person it’s more…Theatrical 😉