Well at the very least,
have a winning attitude about self and life- can mean positive outlooks or vision, to create positive environments for others, or at the very least: an environment for self, that can be hospitable to others.
Because not everyone has 'full-winning periods' in life. Athletes' history, marketing business' stocks, and movie box office results to name a few, prove this.
Life fluctuates. SOMETIMES winning comes in intervals; perfection is
*usually* not a destination, but a journey.
Only mature people would realize this, in relationships,
and I think that starts with family. Realize they're not perfect, adjust expectations realistically, and love people wherever they stand.
If we're winning ourselves, we can love anybody.
Ricky Bobby just happened to say a line of words that would make some very unfortunate people to believe that, only because it seemed to be fitting in their *misfortunate* situation at a time.
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Win? Win what?🤔 I want some lovin' ❤️💋what do I have to win? To get some sugar? 😉
I feel like that's the counter-message to the whole message of the movie. Gotta win to get love. First or last. You either come in first or you don't matter. He held that belief the whole time because he dad said it, but he discovers it was just some drunken rant.
Been ages since I've seen the movie though.
Women don't like losers.
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With how trashy, unloyal and morally bankrupt people are today, that's absolutely the case with 99% of people.
But on the off chance that you're one of the 1% of good people and on the triple unicorn like event that you somehow find another 1%er, you've hit the jackpot in a big wayFor men, yes. Women often wait at the finish line waiting for the winners of the race. Only the men who are born with really good genetics, don't have to prove themselves via accumulation of wealth/status to find "love".
It's even supported by marriage data that extends over 50 years.
Women don't run the race with you... they wait at the finish line and try to seduce the winners.
Yep 👍, winners get Laid and Losers get laid out.
Sort of. You can be a complete loser and if she don't see you that way then you're still in. Conversely you can win more then DJ Khaled and if considers you a loser then you're still a loser.
So to answer it's less reality and more what her perception is.
Everyone has different opinions, and love is one of them some like winners, but some strive for their own path, to find the one, winner or not. Because love isn't something you can control, it just happens.
Every once in a while I hear his voice in my head "if you ain't first, yur' last" and just laugh historically like an insane person
if you are a man then yes cause no woman wants to "love" a loser
Yeah probably, I also like was his dad said, you’re either first or you’re last
Pretty much, yeah. From women, at least. Maybe if you have a good family, you don't have to.
Yes u do of you don't win you don't get shit.
Love is the win ❤️🥰
Only men who are not attractive need to make merits, bone, win, to get love, attractive men have free sex with club harlers.
Fuck no , thats fake love bro you get shallow chicks and real woman learn to know the difference, the devil is in the details
I’ve seen people lose and receive love through sympathy many times. Love doesn’t care about petty things like winning or losing.
Actually most women prefer a lovable loser to a successful jerk. Men have to win for their own ego but it has nothing to do with love.
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Oh my God, that’s Dr. Rick Marshal!
Well…yeah he is.
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