In June, I matched with a guy on a hinge, and we clicked, went on dates almost every weekend and then made it official on August 27th; in the initial stages, he was very much eager, excited and made quite a bit of effort to communicate and plan dates or at least made an effort to plan something out lol.
That said, during our dates, I would bring conversation starter cards, which helped us open up and explore various topics early on. He said he was also inexperienced in relationships.
Since making it official, I feel he hasn't made any effort in planning dates, so I have made some effort in suggesting things we can do. Still, apart from that, he doesn't seem too eager to plan anything outside the norm, as he solely likes us to go out for dinner and walk around the mall, and that is it.
So two weeks ago I suggested we visit a different part of town and maybe do an art class; unfortunately, the art class didn't work out.
Still, we ended up having a good time playing at a game board cafe; last week, I suggested we try an axe throwing activity. He was a bit excited via text, so this week, when he texted me on Monday, I told him that we could go this week if it works for him and that I would register/pay for it as well as he has been paying for all of the other dinner dates.
He then said, "sounds good" a few minutes later sent me a text message that he was very exhausted this week but that we could go later this week, and I told him I understood and that it was totally fine that we go later this week.
He then texted me on Wednesday, and we chatted about his day; he said he had cut his hand badly, so I wished him well and told him that he shouldn't worry about the axe-throwing activity as well; I didn't want him to hurt another finger lol. However, he reassured me that he wanted to go but was still very much exhausted, and I told him not to worry about that. I understood.
Thank you