Why is my boyfriend’s ex treating me like I’m the other woman? He left her for me. She’s 36 and I’m 25. He’s 40. She’s acting like I’m a downgrade?

[Anonymous]

[Avicenna]

Sounds like she is a narcissist. Why is he even in contact with this ex anyway? She needs to move on. Don’t put up with her BS.

[Asker]

I don't know she thought he’d get back together with her in the future.

[Avicenna]

Then you need to get her out of the picture because she’s trying to undermine you

[nawtee_me]

She was his girl first and you his girl second. To her you are the other girl... and when he leaved you for a 20 year old you will think she is the other girl too. Why? Because she is, he will leave you for her as he left the first for you...

[AviatorTom]

Why do you care what his ex thinks of you? He has you and you have him. Concentrate on that.

[JPresidente]

Women compete for men and she is still competing (although she may not admit it) so she is looking at any angle to get back at you.

[BJP21]

Jealousy she might be thinking you're too immature due to age gap.

[Anonymous]

You really don't know or you're just playing dumb. Because if so you should probably use a sarcasm emoji (🙃) so we know.

[boggboss]

Why does it matter what she thinks ignore her lol

[Asker]

She also said she can’t believe he took me to such expensive restaurants.

[boggboss]

Again tho why does it matter lol why u even talking to this women

[Asker]

She messaged me on fb

[boggboss]

Block the bitch lol

[Ironic_Method]

Why do you care? Ignore and move on.

[Anonymous]

She's jealous cause you are way younger than her

[Asker]

He told me he doesn’t usually go for women under 28 but that I’m an exception. I won’t lie I am ahead for my age as far as life experiences/lessons and make $170K as a software developer. I love older men

[Opinion Owner]

There's high chance of he leaving you for someone younger in future

[Asker]

That’s a good point. And also we just started dating so who knows if this is my forever person.

[Opinion Owner]

Sorry, but I highly doubt it. He left his relationship for you. She's younger than him, and you are even more younger than her.

The way his ex behaves is normal. But she deserves better for sure.

[TheSpaceGnome]

What kind of software?

[Agagagagaga]

I take care of dying people in a hospital and make a fraction of what you pull in. 👍

[Stevefiveo]

She is jealous.