This guy that i went on a date with keeps asking me about my ex, and that he wants to know what happened between us. He even wants to follow my ex and message him on Instagram. Everytime that i play some sad music, he always brings him up. He assumes that i still love him and want him back. He said that he can help me to get my ex back. He doesn't want to me sad because of my ex. And that's why he wants to be a matchmaker for me and my ex. The thing is that i don't even want my ex back. He doesn't realize that i actually like him more. Im over my ex now because of him. He basically helps me to get over my ex. Why would he act like this? Why does he want me and my ex to get back together?
Because something about the way you're telling the story of your ex relationship, he doesn't believe.
This is why I often advise women to never speak negatively about your ex and/or blame them for the break up. A relationship always takes 2 parties to make it work and 2 parties to destroy.
Clearly he wants to take you seriously but at present you're speaking to him in a way that is giving him the impression that you cannot be trusted, so he wants to hear the story from the other side.
Kind regards,
DoctorSex
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This has a many red flags. All over the place and none of them good. He might want to hurt this guy. He might not trust you. He might want to watch you and ex be intimate. He might just be curious but that's a morbid and not good curious. I would gently and nicely but firmly let this guy go.
Set a boundary and tell him to stop. It's not his business. He should better get lost
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Maybe his last girlfriend left him to get back with her ex, or wasn't over her ex, so he doesn't want that to be a problem with you. Try telling him that he helped you get over your ex. That chapter of your life is closed. You've learned what you needed to from it, and it's over. You're on a new chapter of your life, and that one is done.
That's weird.
Maybe this guy doesn't know how to break up with someone so he wants to try to get you back with your ex.
because he doesn't want you
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