whenever I see the cutest couples known to man king I’ll get so bitter and even a little resentful towards them. It’s like the guy will seem so sweet and handsome and I’ll be so jealous of the girl not even because of him specifically (because they’re are tons of nice cute guys in the world) but the fact she got so lucky it’s insane how lucky people are to get into relationships like how do you even start to date it feels impossible and I’ve never even had a boyfriend before. It makes me so mad because I can’t even envision myself having something like that happen to me statistically it feels so improbable and hopeless I just get pissed off.
Listen, your exceptionally young. You have a good 10-12 maybe even 14 years to get sorted.
Answer a few questions and I might be able to help a bit. These aren't in a specific order.
1. Weight?
2. Thoughts on marriage?
3. Thoughts on traditional/modern roles for men/women?
4. Thoughts on having children?
5. Have you thought about therapy for your jealousy issue? I ask because I feel it could lead to controlling behavior within a relationship and that would poison it.
6. Have you thought about reevaluating your male friends within your social circle that may like you and those you may have deemed "unworthy"?
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The moment I stopped caring about that kind of stuff was the exact same day a nice guy i knew from before asked me out. I was around your age at the time. As much as we wish we could walk out the door on a certain day with the goal of getting a boyfriend, the reality is we have to suck it up and just find other hobbies. i should note though, that that day I gave up on men, it wasn't as if I just stayed in the house feeling sorry for myself. I put on a well put together outfit on and ventured out in the world. As long as you don' t stop doing that, then if you can't find a boyfriend, then it's not your fault. You know within yourself that you've done everything you can do.
Honestly, same lol. I've never dated, but when I find myself starting to get a bit bitter about couples... I always remind myself that there's no such a thing as a perfect relationship.
The couple might seem lovely and perfect outside, but we don't know the whole story.
And relationships always have ups and downs, stress, deceptions...
Then, this instantly reminds me of why I haven't wanted to get into a relationship up until now and am better off alone lol
You have to go out more. People can feel butter. www.meetup.com
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Get some counseling. What's stopping you from meeting someone yourself?
Whenever I see stuff like that, I smile, knowing I can be that.
By knowing that nice couple you see in actuality are probably very unhappy.
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