Why do I get a ego boost when girls taller or stronger then me or have more money flirt with me? ?

[Anonymous]

Okay. A lot of guys claim they get insecure to me. This gives me a massive boost to my ego.

It’s. Like. Dang. She’s way out of my league. But will flirt with me or flirt back with me or go out with me.

Then when nobody can believe who I’m with it’s another.

I never understand this insecure thing. Makes ZERO sense

I know this might sound bad but it is just the truth. I mean this assuming that she gives me a chance or even makes a move on me. It does not bother me a bit. So I was just wondering why some men feel insecure and some women do as well. But I just don't understand.

If you're dating someone "out of your league" you would think it would feed peoples egos rather then the opposite. You would think it would make you more secure like look who I can get. Rather then less...

[Anonymous]

This is usually a woman response. Women want a guy that they consider "on thier level". If she's really insecure she may want a guy way out of her league to "legitimize her". But most women bounce back an forth between wa ting a guy attractive enough to legitimize her and not so overly attractive that she has to worry about him Straying. Since so few women want to give anything to a relationship anymore, or even anything to understanding what kind of a guy thier dating, that many women fond themselves ironically in that exact spot.

[Asker]

Interesting response

[darline19]

at first it will feed your ego. later, you'll be the slave lol. my family from upper middle class people, I have seen several female cousins of mine married poor guys, now their husbands are their slave haha

[Asker]

I would not a woman whose like that. LOL. I don't date women for those reasons. I am just saying.

[Asker]

I never really believe in "leauges" I just think it is a way that people limit their dating pool. Sure some people will reject you at first or later on when they learn more about you. But hey... Just isn't meant to be. Pick yourself up and move right on along.

[Guy13]

Cause you are Short, Weak, and a Broke-Ass would be my guess !!

[Asker]

I must be attractive if they would want me at least in some way or another. LOL. I think you're jealous and even if that is true. I suppose it would not matter. Would it?

Maybe swallow your own ego and you might have some women want you besides bad and shitty women. Since that is all you attract