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Girls, am I asking for too much?

TomGarand
For my last question, I asked some of the ladies if not wanting to be a protector is unattractive. My reason why I didn't want to be that in a relationship is because protecting the women in my life, and doing physical things for them--they don't boost my ego like they do for other men. No good feelings, no dopamine hits, nothong.

Emotionally, I get no reward for it. I'm not saying I wouldn't show the person I love that I care for them, or stand up for them. I would. But I don't have the Hero Instinct many men do.

The majority of the women who answered said "yes, it is unattractive." Plus, my type is physically strong, tough, and athletic. If she's also tall or more boyish/masculine, that's ideal. Basically, a woman who might not need me to protect them. For a man who doesn't have the Hero Instinct, it just makes sense.
Obviously an exaggeration, but you get the point.
Obviously an exaggeration, but you get the point.
But ladies, is wanting a woman who doesn't want/need to be protected is asking too much?

Should I want to be a protector, even if I am not needed for it?
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And yes, I'd still protect kids and women I'm not in a relationship with in my care. And I'd show my lover I care about them.

However, I'd still rather have a partner who was physically strong and capable of fending for themselves. Like I said, strong, tough, and athletic is my type.

Girls, am I asking for too much?
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