Have you ever met your soul mate and he / she was married?

[cth2188]

What did you do? Met someone I'm connected with , but he's married.. never met him and won't cross lines with him because he's married, but had to back off despite there's a connection.

Sadly I may have to end the connection- I just broke the news to him... feelings were getting too deep on his end.

He hasn't responded because he logged off earlier.

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I made it clear that I don't deal with married men.. due to beliefs it'll be hard to find someone nowadays why I'm still single 9 years. I have yet to find anyone who connects to me anyways and is serious about love

[Knowledge-Is-Key]

Actually just the opposite... met my soul mate 35 years ago, I was just too immature to recognize it. Coincidentally I ran into her by chance in an airport and we had the dance of "how have been", "what have you been up to" and the like.

This may sound strange, but have you ever been in a situation where the feelings are so strong they fill the room, so focused that you can actually feel your pulse quicken and everything around you is enhanced? Colors are more vibrant, sounds are incredibly focused (I swear I could hear her heart beat), smells are extremely distinct (call it pheromones or call it something else, but I could smell her desire).

Funny part is that we had never had sex, yes we explored each other, but never had sex. She went to school that required her to wear skirts. I would bring her and pick up from her school dailyover that summer. During the drive home, my right hand would gently glide over the softness of her left inner thigh.

Once parked, my hand would follow her thigh upward to typically white silk or cotton panties. I will never forget the sensation my hand felt as her cool, soft creamy thigh became warmer and warmer as my hand moved ever so closer to her panties. Pausing in between kissing her neck and teasing her lips, I would pull back and give her a "you are incredible" look that was deep and passionate.

I would tease her by gently encircling her now warm wetness making sure to use her silk or cotton panties as the soft friction that made her orgasm every time without ever touching her beneath her wet panties.

This went on all summer, curiously I enjoyed this more than i enjoy sex today and in some small part has shaped my desires to focus on all of the little things that I can do that illicit physical or audible responses. I guess I have been chasing that feeling.

She called me about a week after our chance encounter and described how she felt seeing me. Gave me her perception of that summer and stated she to this day will masterbate using her white panties and that her husband does not understand. She offered to meet me anywhere so she could give me attention that I gave her summer. As enticing as that was, I told her as much as I wanted that, I just did not want to ruin the connection we had and memories we created during that long, hot and sticky summer.

In truth, have never had that kind of raw emotion and thankfully we both had planes to catch, or I am sure we would have found a private place to relive those creamy thighs and her intense orgasm.

Sorry for allowing my thoughts to wander, did not intend to provide a story. Howver, CTH your question made me think, that in turn made me relive a time long since past. Thank you for that!!!

KIK

"Make love to mind, make me see you"

[cth2188]

YW so interesting

[berwise13]

Tough question I met my soul mate in 1985 I went overseas in the military. We both married others. My wife passed away last year. Then I got friend request from my soulmate. I gave her a promise ring in 1986. She didn't believe I would keep promise 36 years but we are getting married next year.

[cth2188]

That's a beautiful love story

[Cynicaldreamer]

No. Because if someone is truly your "soul mate" they wouldn't be taken or married. It just means said person isn't the right one.

Then again, with the current divorce rate in the world at an all time high, that also means some people are getting married, only to realize they're incompatible. With that being said, I don't lust or want people that are married; it's a moot point. It means they aren't right for me. However, if they truly are your soul mate, things will work out in the end.

[Summeroflove]

Then he’s probably not your soulmate. Sorry. Keep looking. Don’t mess with someone whose married.


If he is your soulmate. God will work it out. Otherwise. Move along.

[cth2188]

I don't mess with married men I just said I cut it off

[cth2188]

I have moved on

[Summeroflove]

Okay good

[Summeroflove]

Yeah if he’s married it’s probably not meant to be

[cth2188]

I wasn't looking for love when u met him

[cth2188]

He was someone I met through an online chatting app

[cth2188]

I met idc about soulmates or love completely gave up there

[Summeroflove]

Oh ok I see. There’s probably someone out there. You just have not found the right person.

[cth2188]

Idc about the right person I want to be alone

[cth2188]

I was ok being friends with him despite him being married... I have plenty of toys and things to keep me busy it's not about sex or anything..

[Summeroflove]

Yeah being friends is fine

[Summeroflove]

Yeah. I’m the same way. I have no interest in casual sex or sleeping around.

[Summeroflove]

You seem cool. I sent you a follow request

[cth2188]

Thanks

[Summeroflove]

You’re welcome

[mobiusforniner]

Yes. But im the married guy and she was my friend. I ended it. Hurt. Like. Hell.

I still think about her over a year later. Worst breakup in my life.

[exitseven]

I am not a big believer in soulmates. However I met somebody who had so many things in common with me on so many different levels it was scary. We were both coming out of long term relationships where we were going to marry somebody else.

[cth2188]

The irony what happened

[FilmGuy93]

Eh... my first girlfriend was like that, except engaged. We broke it off when I found out she was engaged.

[Asker2022]

Call me what you want but I believe that a man can and should have multiple partners but ofc he should have consent from both women.

you would be surprised how women can tolerate this.

[cth2188]

I don't I'm not about to be the other woman

[BigschlongEnergy]

You think he’s your soul mate yet he logged off that sure is Interesting 🧐

[cth2188]

He is married and I had to walk away

[Berethor]

At my age I don't believe in soulmate, and if she married it's a huge turn-off for me.

[LazerBean]

There are no soul mates, just good and bad choices.

[Knowledge-Is-Key]

Lazer, I respectfully must disagree. If you have ever had that type of emotional connection. I can see why you feel that way. Soul mate is a catch all phrase that defines two people who align easily, have similar likes and dislikes and many other attributes that just make two people click. That does not imply that any relationship is without challenges or requires work to sustain. So in my humble opinion the good and bad choices comments will always play a part, but with someone who you connect with in more than just a sexual manner.

[LazerBean]

My husband and I waited for marriage, and we are as perfect a match as is possible. So my opinion has nothing to do with sexuality, only logic. If we are soulmates, then if I die he has no chance of finding someone else who he can be as compatible and happy with. Which I do not believe, but that is what the term soulmate always intails, from what I've seen - that there is only one optimal person for each of us. I think that there are a handful of people in this world who are this level of compatible with a particular person, based on their choices + personality, and I also believe that some people have nobody who they are this compatible with because of their poor choices.

[Knowledge-Is-Key]

Thanks Lazer, we essentially said the same thing.

[LazerBean]

If what we said is the same thing, then you agree with me that you don't believe in soulmates.

[Knowledge-Is-Key]

I believe that a Soul mate is a catch all phrase that defines two people who align easily, have similar likes and dislikes and many other attributes that just make two people click. Did not take it to the death, though. So yes, we are saying the same thing.

[LazerBean]

So people can have many soul mates?

[Bethany22]

It's just as easy to fall in love with someone who's single

[AsaKyo]

I'd rather just go after single people lmao

[WhitneySnow]

That really sucks. I’m so sorry.

[cth2188]

Why? I'm not sorry sometimes you can meet the wrong person at the right time or the right person at the wrong time..

[cth2188]

I just live whatever the universe sends is what it sends

[WhitneySnow]

That makes sense

[cth2188]

Yes ❤️ thanks

[FunkyMonkee]

Yeah, that's all I've EVER had!!

[Valso]

No. My "soulmate" doesn't exist.

[cth2188]

I don't believe it either why I stopped dating 9 years ago

[cth2188]

I don't have time for soulmates or love

[Valso]

I gave up on dating or even trying to hit on a woman 15 years ago. I do have time for love but never met any woman worthy of wasting time on her.

[cth2188]

Same my beliefs are too complex to find anyone

[peedy]

No she was 6 years old

[Rockerroy]

Yes I have met 8 soul mates in 10 years.

[EaterPeter]

Many times

[cth2188]

Strange

[EaterPeter]

Strange it is. See lot of women. Most beautiful feels like what it is like to be with her. None of us are perfect.

[EaterPeter]

Wish she have a sister or friend like her. Brain asks why can't I find woman like her. I found one and she is already taken. Is she happy in her current relationship. Can she be happy with me?

[MrTaboo]

Yes, and Mines worse

[Zolly99999]

No...

[panamared1]

yes she was