Abuse my fault? ?

[Diya1014]

If a 36 year old man narcissistically abused an 18 year old, is it her fault? Should she have been old and smart enough to know everything and avoid it. Does it make her dumb and did she deserve it for being stupid at 18? Is it her fault there were mean things being said, being stood up and then stalked? Did she deserve it for not knowing how to beg properly and allowing oral sex on her early? She also didn’t follow directions to get pregnant and never talk to her family or go to school to show she’s mature. Is she a whore and deserved it for not checking in with at least 10 text every minute.

Was she old enough to make better decisions?

[LazerBean]

An 18 year old is a legal adult. She was definitely old enough to make better decisions, and definitely old enough to know that getting involved with a man like that was stupid. Her shitty parents definitely share some responsibility in her stupidity though. I have not known many 18-year-olds that were that thoughtless.

[Guy13]

That’s wrong and borderline criminal to me but would never happen. Narcissist are the devil reincarnated. Hope she’s okay.

[Asker2022]

Here here, its not your fault.

give me hug, you really have been through a lot huh?