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I want a woman who is strong and independent and wants to be submissive to me when she needs me as a man, but also she expects me to do the same when I need her as a woman.
I agree! 💗
It's a bit complicated. I like women who are dominant in bed, but cooperative or submissive out of it. Any relationship that's going to work requires both sides to contribute something significant, and to appreciate what the other contributes.
The term "strong woman" has the same problem as the term "curvy woman." If you take it for what the words REALLY mean, then of COURSE it's a great thing. The problem is the way it's used rarely means what the words are supposed to mean. Just as "curvy woman" has come to mean "morbidly obese with more weight in fat rolls than boobs and no waist to speak of" the term "strong woman"--ESPECIALLY when self-applied--has come to mean "self-centered, entitled, loud, disagreeable, harridan."
But ACTUAL strong women, as with ACTUAL curvy women are very highly valued.
My attraction in women is not what she has, has accomplished, or how strong-minded.
In fact, I we see caution flags if she was strong-minded because I don't want to be a another man, in a woman's body.
I like feminine energy. I like an outwardly attractive woman who treats me like a man. I don't want the friction and competition in my love life.
I do find that being submissive sexually is a sign of a strong and sexy woman, i don't see the separation you see.
Generally I am attracted to true femininity, that means a woman who has no need to prove herself in by emulating men but instead understands that her womanhood is a strength all on it's own
That sort of woman describes like my ideal boss/manager.
But I'm not a fan of that strong personality as my choice of romantic partner.
I prefer a romantic partner as a woman who's submissive which is what I voted for. And as for strong women, they're just in my opinion I prefer them as leaders in society or leadership roles but I'm not at all attracted to them.
And that's why my preferences work well for me.
I like both and Yes, I do get intimidated.
because I fear that I won’t be enough for her.
Thanks for sharing your honest opinion! Expressing yourself without reserve is an extremely sought after trait!! 💗
Being beautiful is a magnet not a deterrent.
Agreed! 💗
Strong, independent, Intelligent women are the most sexy women in the world. Far from intimidating, in fact I like to tease the situation...
KIK
I love your self-confidence!!! 💗💗
You're confusing intimidation with peace. Most men want a life where they have peace of mind. When they have to combat people at work, they don't want to have to combat their female companion at home. That's what I think of when I read or hear "strong" woman. A strong woman is someone who will fight and cause disharmony. There's limited off-time during a man's grind, why should he waste it on someone who doesn't see his vision? Essentially, a strong woman is another co-worker not a lover; the home life becomes a second or third work-place.
I think you’re confusing the term “strong woman” with “toxic woman”. A strong woman will work just as hard to make her partner and family happy as she would herself. Truth is, many strong women ensure their family’s happiness over their own, making sacrifices without vocalizing them. Which is why the struggles of strong women often go I acknowledged. I as a strong woman don’t do things for the recognition of each task or choice, I do it because it needs to be done. Somebody needs to “be the hero” so I do. I won’t fight ever…. that’s not how you make a point. Intellectual articulation is my weapon of choice.
Are you in a relationship now?
I am! 💗
How often do you and your man get into an argument?
Never. I don’t argue. If I feel myself getting a little upset I immediately communicate how I’m feeling. I speak with a desire for open communication and make my points without putting my partner down. I speak of actions not his wholeness so he understands I’m not attacking him. Open communication is necessary in any kind of relationship. I welcome constructive criticism and will always take it into consideration. It’s impossible to always know how I impact others since everyone has different boundaries and deal breakers. My partner understands that as well. Our communication is always calm and compassionate. 💗
If you're at an impasse, who has the final say?
Hmmmm…. definitely not an impasse. Conclusions are always reached as closure is crucial for growth.
I speak my mind, asking questions in the process. We trade insights until full understanding is reached. No one ever gets a “final say” we strive for a mutual growth. That’s why it’s called a partnership!!!
Who has to compromise more often from their initial desires?
Haha neither. Love means always wanting to see the other as happy as possible. We usually have to force each other to take “their way”. I want sushi, he wants pizza. I say “ok, we’ll have sushi another night” to which he responds “no we can have pizza another night”. We go back and forth laughing and often forget all about dinner!!
So, you guys starve often then or do you just often get distracted to some other thing?
Well I don’t starve….😉…. but after our excursions I offer to go make him something to eat! Only fair!
Do you eventually submit to him?
I look forward to my turn being submissive! Yes, I’m proficient at speaking my mind but I’m also a great listener!!!
I have noticed that all of the "strong sexy women", and" intelligent independent women" posts always come from older women...30 or more. They are actually the nice guy equivalent-women in the dating market. The majority of men and women like neither and they often end up with each other.
But If I am fair enough that I would say it's okay to be like that, you have to find submissive guys and at your age, you will be in tough competition with younger girls. Many guys don't like the too-outgoing types of girls when it comes to serious relationships, as they tend to treat men badly and are kinda slutty to wife up... but everyone is different...
as a man i dont like the strong independent women. It makes me think they are not willing to commit. What is my future children gonna think and feel if she leaves her family behind? when women say that it means she wants to be masculine and strong. I get it but men want a women who they can protect and feel free. 70 percent of women are initiating most divorces thanks to the feminist propaganda. They dont want men to run their nature. to be a strong leader, to protect and love.
Submissive women can be strong too. They're strong in wanting to make their man happy and pleased. They just aren't so demanding/bossy or controlling.
And no, I'm not intimidated by a bossy dominate woman, I just don't want that kind of woman.
and again this choice of words. why do women so heavily gravitate to the word "intimidation" when talking about a thing that men may not prefer? like aren't there other legitimate ways to not prefer a thing other than "intimidation"? why do women always pick this word? no i do not think men are "intimidated" by that. though some men may not prefer it as some men do prefer playing the dominate role out of preference for that. as you probably know men are not a homogenous mass of people who all like the exact same things, so preferences will vary.
I think intimidation is a perfect word! I’m a strong independent woman, always sweet and always spicy. When I come across a strong willed male where chemistry exists I do sometimes get intimidated. I fear I start thinking with my hormones verse my brain. Which is where my second motto comes in…always masturbate before a date!!! 💗
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so it's about "your" fear, not his intimidation then. that's where the choice of words comes from. projection. now i get it.
Sure! I fear I’ll slip and fall straight into the massive cock of a sexy alpha male!!! But of course I have enough self control to stop myself….. there’s been special cases of course! Lol
But I wasn’t speaking of myself. I’m speaking the fears men have. I’ve heard men say quite a few times that they fear they aren’t good enough for me. To which I’m surprised bc I know I’m strong, independent and confident. But I’m not cock or conceded at all. I don’t place myself on any type of pedestal so I’m confused why some men fear they’re inadequate for me. I don’t get it. This is what I’m trying to understand! I’d like to be able to calm their fears but I need to fully understand them first. When I’m dating someone that’s insecure about themselves and their own wonderful potentials it never works out. I don’t mind reassuring them for awhile but eventually it gets old.
I have no issue with strong women in the sense of being confident an knowing what they want.
If by “ strong” they mean act like a jerk and talk down and argue with people I feel that is weak of character.
The same goes for being submissive though if the girl does everything I want and doesn’t have her own ideas an drive from time to time.
So it’s a bit of a balancing act in my opinion.
Just treat others as well as you can that’s sexy to me.
I love strong sexy women due to the fact of they have no filter and speak their mind vs holding everything in then randomly snap on you for no reason
That is the truth!!! Takes the guess work out of the relationship and leaves more time for fun!!! 💗
most definitely. too many "sensitive people" who can't handle the truth
“Hurt me with the truth but don’t ever comfort me with a lie.”
I love that quote!
amen to that
I doubt anyone is intimidated by a strong sexy woman. The reason why it's difficult for career women to find a HV man to commit to them is because most of the traits that it takes to climb the corporate ladder are masculine and men don't want masculine women.
I am good with either type. It really depends on personality/compatibility.
Great outlook!!!
Women mistaking revulsion for intimidation is classic copium. It's what you tell yourselves to feel better at night, regardless of whether or not it's true. Men are not "intimidated" by "strong" women. We find them repulsive. There's a difference.
@AshLee83 If I was going to date, I'd rather date an easy-going woman over a strong sexy woman.
To each his/her own!!! However, being strong-willed doesn’t mean you’re not easy going. It just means you stand up for what matters most. Believe me, it doesn’t matter where we’ll go to eat or what we’ll watch, the big picture is most important and what’s focused on. Many strong women are extremely easy going bc they understand that the small things don’t matter! Most also know how to enjoy themselves and their self derived happiness spills over on to those around them!!!