Are You Intimidated By A Strong Sexy Woman? Do you prefer a more submissive woman? (Page 2)

[Andres77]

I prefer strong and sexy but who is submissive in bed, just because I’m a giver and I’ll make it worth her while.

[DoctorSex]

What's more revealing is how you made a distinction between a STRONG woman and a submissive woman.

I reject that outright. The strongest women are the most submissive. It's the frightened

[DoctorSex]

*women who are usually the first to claim strong independent status.. of what I've seen.

[AshLee83]

I made a distinction between strong, independent women and the more “go with the flow” submissive type women. I never said submissive women didn’t have strength. In fact, their ability to be tolerate shows great strength, though I feel they can be overly tolerate many times and don’t need to be. So yes they can be strong but it’s a different less opinionated strength. People can be whatever they want, it makes no difference to me. My question was an attempt to figure out why men feel I intimidated by me sometimes. As in they “fear they can’t meet my expectations” as they say. I’m always kind and respectful and am not superficial or conceded so what about an independent woman makes some men feel they have to work so hard to meet some mysterious set of expectations that I never imposed on them?

[DoctorSex]

Ok I understand your opinion. Thank you for clarifying as in my experience, independent women are the most emotionally fragile. Submissive women are the strongest type of woman emotionally. however that's my experience with spending time with hundreds of women. I regret to inform you but you've shown a lot of red flags in that message you just sent me and I know you didn't even mean to do it, let alone noticed it. It's often difficult for men to be straght with a lot of women in your position because the general trend goes "guy tells truth, girl doesn't accept truth and insults guy".

I promise you from the core of my being that serious Men are not afraid of you my dear, or your expectations. No man worth a dam is intimidated by an independent woman. Firstly you will have to let this idea go otherwise you'll never see the truth.

[AshLee83]

I think everyone carried certain mental instabilities. Whether they’re self derived or stem from a less than perfect childhood. Some independent, self led women are that way because they’ve been taught to be by another strong woman. Others had to learn to be they way due to their past. Strength and mental stability aren’t always co-dependent. Some of the strongest people I know have some of the most surprising weaknesses. Others seem to have no weakness at all. It’s a case by case basis. I understand you’ve met hundreds of women, by your claim, but every women (and person) is different. Every person has red flags when you’re looking for something to pick apart about them. I’ll admit I have lots to pick apart, I’m not perfect but I’ll keep striving to be my best! Thanks for your input!

[Marklaw12]

Couldn't care less. She needs to realise that when she's with me I wear the pants. Out there she can be a boss.

[Skyros]

I prefer physically strong women who are capable of being submissive if I ask them to be.

[WonderingManII]

My problem is meeting a woman that likes me. So I don't currently care.

[Anonymous]

Here is the rub. The women who claim to be "strong independent sexy women" are almost always insufferable bitches.

The really strong sexy women don't advertise it.

[TallAnon]

As long as she doesn't nag me, sure.
Fine line between strong and obnoxious.

[AshLee83]

There’s a vast gap between strong and obnoxious. Nagging only occurs when someone feels as though they aren’t being listened to. I surround myself with people who communicate as openly as I do so there’s never a need to “nag”.

[boobliker]

I would anything she asked of me

but I like all women you all have good things in you!

[red324]

We don't have those around here. They're all insecure hipocrates

[peedy]

No for me to be intimidated by a woman that woman would have to be more of a man than Matt Dillon

[Reign1]

I love a confident woman who is sure of herself, no issues!

[Kingofkings1992]

Good grief you are so dense. It’s about not being attracted, not intimidated. Lmao

[AshLee83]

Nope. I often hear men say they feel like they can’t live up to my standards. To which I’m always surprised bc if I chose to be with them then they’ve already met my standards. I don’t mean to intimidate them. I’m never judgmental at all. I think when I hold myself to high standards people assume I’m judging everything they do. That’s not the case. Plus, I’ll always let them know what I’m thinking.

Also, the 90’s called…they want their use of the word “dense” back. Hahaha

[Pohjolan]

I prefer strong sexy submissive women.

[AshLee83]

Great answer!

[Sabretooth]

Submissive but not afraid to stand up to me.

[krin_m]

I find a strong, intelligent and confident woman extremely attractive!

[Jamie05rhs]

Not necessarily. But I think most of them are toxic and have daddy issues. And they are some weird mix of feminist traditionalist fundamentalist that's just really repulsive and off-putting.

[AshLee83]

In the many cases I’ve witnessed through friends, daddy issues tend to make women more promiscuous and submissive, at least in their younger years. It makes complete sense that growing up without male parental guidance may create a need for it later in life.

I feel there are many varieties of strong women and generalizing the entirety of them seems a bit close minded. I wouldn’t feel comfortable judging the entire male population on a handful of assholes. So perhaps the same courtesy of individuality could be extended to leadership type women!!!

[Jamie05rhs]

@AshLee83 Well, I was trying to be careful not to generalize all of them. That's why I started off with "not necessarily.". And I was just describing the common stereotype of which I had personally witnessed many examples. Buy of course they're not all like that

[AshLee83]

Thank you for clarifying!! 💗

[Jamie05rhs]

@AshLee83 You're welcome! ❤️

[Anonymous]

I love a strong woman, who is and try to be superior in every way, it is also a big turn on as well to have her

[stargazeraug1989]

I'd bang her senseless.

[MrTaboo]

None of the above. Annoyed. They tend to have attitudes that piss men off.

[AshLee83]

None of the above? I’m sorry…I should have included strong men. I was just writing from my own perspective but the question can be extended to include strong or submissive men if that’s your preference!!

[fonduegirl]

I love submissive men

[swettannie]

i'm a complete sub so... can't really say

[James899]

Yes. I prefer!

[PainusNdeeAnus]

Strong men don’t need strong women

[bamesjond0069]

Intimidated no? Just don't like them.

[Guardian45]

I'm switch, so both are fine by me.

[Anonymous]

No one intimidates me.

[dsrice071966]

I love stronger women.

[cuckbetamale]

My wife is the dom in her wife lol

[Anonymous]

I actually prefer dominant girls.

[Anonymous]

On your knees wench!!!

[Tennessee_fan]

Not at all