Why do you think most men differentiate between women to only have sex with versus women to commit to? Whereas most women don't?

[Anonymous]

Biology says this is true, backed up my research and studies

Also, conversations with friends of mine over the relationships and hookups we've had attest to the truthfulness of this as well.

For women, most of them, if they have sex with you then they'd also be into or wanting to get into a commitment with you

Actually, another way of saying it would be, the primary reason they are having sex with you is that they want to be in a relationship with you

For men, they may not want to marry or commit to a woman

But that doesn't mean sex is off the table.

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This is GENERALLY speaking of course. Men don't want to commit to a woman with certain qualities both physical and non-physical. Again, that doesn't mean they wouldn't be down for just sex.

[DaveJord]

As a guy after you invest into a potential relationship past a certain piont you start to think as long as you get laid maybe it was all worth it.

I always start out with good intentions, you suffer through all the texting, flip flopping, games being played and by the time she starts to think maybe she's interested... you start to think all this effort is only worth it if you get laid, because she's definitely too much of a hassel. It just stops being fun.

The harder she makes it, and longer it drags on most guys lose interest in long term commitment... because honestly its not fun anymore for you and the more learn you about her by the process she's putting yoy through the less attractive she becomes. At that piont you start to think, only way out of this while keeping your balls intact is to at least fuck her once. But honestly by the time I personally get to that piont I have lost interest all together.

[inhua]

sexual desirability =/= relationship desirability

sexual desirability is mostly to do with sex appeal i. e. physical attractiveness

relationship desirability has to do with everything else from character and personality i. e. is she loving? is she responsible? is she supportive? is she ride-or-die loyal? etc. to habits and behaviors i. e. is she an alcoholic/smoker? is she promiscuous? is she a serial cheater? does she take her physical and mental health seriously? etc.

that's how men separate those only for sex and those who are worth committing to. ideally a man would want both but for most men that's rarely the case

money, status, height etc. and other factors women normally want in a man won't factor in at all for what men look for in a woman.

[jennifer_bloom]

I had a dream about this over ten years ago, in my dream I was told to choose the guy that appealed to my spirit and not the one that appealed to my eyes. If a girl is attractive but does not have a strong sense and sensibility, she will not be long term match. When a guy is stressed, he wants someone who will calm him down and hug him, not that one complains about dirty dishes and messy clothes.

[Avicenna]

That is probably due to pregnancy concerns. Many women my age, who don't have that concern, seem quite willing to do hookups.

[Guy13]

We can sense Good, Trustworthy, Loyal, and an Easy F- ….

[FilmGuy93]

To be honest, if you pay attention to how you interact with women, you'll see why. A lot of women are physically appealing enough to have sex with, but their mental states are terrifying.

[TroyDT2]

My personal, admittedly unscientific, experience is that most women are DTF with no strings.

[Asker]

Scientific, not personal research, polls, and surveys say otherwise

Thanks for mentioning your personal experience though, but it's not applicable to the majority of women or the average woman.

[TroyDT2]

" it's not applicable to the majority of women or the average woman."

Neither are your unreferenced and unlinked "studies."

[TroyDT2]

Rather, until you show the evidence your info should likewise be considered anecdotal.

[bamesjond0069]

Ideal girl for casual sex is someone easy.

Ideal girl for serious relationship is someone hard to get.

They are directly opposite.