My boyfriend didn't answer the question 'when did his liking towards me turn into love' instead he evaded it. What does this mean?

[Anonymous]

Well he asked me first and I answered the question. When I asked him the same he evaded it.

[abc3643]

This means he doesn't know the answer.
And he doesn't know the answer because there is no answer; he likely does not actually love you because he doesn't understand love.

I remember the instants that I recognized i was in love and these go back decades.

[Asker]

So in what ways would him not understanding love affect our relationship?

[abc3643]

This is something that I cannot really answer for you.
If you understand love, then you can answer this question yourself.

In a way, think about it like this: When you are blind since birth, color is unfathomable to you - indeed vision is unfathomable. Yet, to those who can see, it is intuitively obvious, but they cannot translate the experience of color and sight to someone who has never seen. How do you explain the difference between red and blue to a blind person?

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That said, I will try and answer your question, but the answer will be trite.
When you are in love, it is a form of organized insanity and your behavior will reflect that. To someone not in love, they will behave more normally.

[D-Pad_Chad]

He didn't answer because he more than likely thought him not knowing details would upset you. Ask yourself would you be upset if he didn't know? And does it matter when so much as if?

It'd be like asking you what was your 15th date with your 1st boyfriend? It's something that happens over time, but you just don't realize it.

[kylee2437]

To be fair that’s a very loaded question. A lot of guys don’t pay attention to that the way women do

[jimmy2]

He not on your page