Why do I attract more women when I treat them like shit or ignore them?

Recently I've been having bad experiences with women in dating and decided to cut them out of my life for a while (yes I mean completely, other than family) and when I started ignoring them now they are contacting me more and when I told some of them that I'm focusing on myself right now and am uninterested in relationships suddenly they're interested. What's going on?
Why do I attract more women when I treat them like shit or ignore them?
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