What can I do to stop a married man I'm afraid of, trying to manipulate having sex with me?

[Anonymous]

I follow this guy on social media and he follows me too. He always post funny stuff and I always like them or comment on his post but only about the funny stuff. Yesterday out of nowhere he sent me a message saying he had a dream of me dressed up flirting with him. I just laughed it off but he kept going on saying sexual jokes and I was keeping it short and tried going on my day. He then was saying we should hang out and watch a movie. The sad part he has a beautiful wife that looks awesome and cooks great food and he has 2 kids. I just can't do that even tho he's good looking I feel so terrible even tho I haven't done anything like sex. I also feel bad because im talking to a guy that I want to be with and he seems like a nice guy and I dont want to lose him for a married man. I dont know how to tell him that I dont want anything like that because this guy intimates me. Sometimes I think I want to but I say its not worth it at all. One dick is enough for me and I just feel upset because he always posts about his wife and he's trying to have sex with me hidden

[quaranta]

He is just a random impulsive, unreliable man. He had a dream, so he was inspired, and decided to invite you for a date to make it real. Probably, the day after he stopped being inspired about that, after dreaming something else. So don't take his request seriously. You are creating a castle of problems out of a completely random impulse of a man... And you somehow feel responsible towards his wife while he isn't (but while he is the only one who is supposed to be, not you).
Further: never date married men. Never. If they are willing to cheat on their wife with you, it means they are cheaters in general with low morals and a too high perception of themselves vs the others, liars and not responsible for their decisions (if their marriage is bad they should first sort it out and either make it work together or break it, not cheat). And cheaters don't change, they will cheat and lie to their next partners too when the conditions will be similar, because their morals and self perception won't change, and that comes with a pack of other negative effects, not just cheating. So if you end up falling in love with someone married you have sex with, you are trapping yourself with a cheater. Take it like a repulsive trait, a deal breaker from the start.
Said that, what would you lose by telling him:"I'm seeing someone else, I am not interested in a date with you, I thought you were joking because of the dream"? Actually, nothing. What you lose is a chance to get into a cheater, so...

[LazerBean]

A basically infinite amount of extremely obvious things. Blocking, for starters.

[Jdjfjcjj]

I like how youve already decidef that if/when y'all have sex, it will be because he manipulated you.

Not gonna mention what you can do because this is either one of those cases where you rent looking for an answer, but you just want to be heard..

OR you a dummy

[Truthatanycost]

This is a great example of the myth of loyalty among the emotionally driven...

[Summeroflove]

Tell him to stop and block him.

[FilmGuy93]

Just say "no." That's not hard. If he keeps asking, take screenshots and show his wife.

[Anonymous]

It doesn't seem as big as your mind is making it seem. Block him and move on! Simple!

[BJP21]

Call him out in front of his wife.

[Kareem_z21]

There is option called "block"