Guys, Why do women think they’re on the same level just because they dated the same guy?

[Anonymous]

I met some girls who have dated the same guys as me and they were mad that those guys treated me better and took me on dates. Men don’t treat all women the same.

[Guy13]

You got that right. It’s all too simple to know who a guy values and who he does not

[SwellStroke]

Some people just have to make it a competition in some form or another, as a way to make themselves feel better/equal at times. Though they really should realize people are strange regardless. And there is no two that are the same. Even Monozygotic siblings are not truly identical as life experiences will change how one is each day.

[Asker]

Yeah my boyfriends ex reached out to me on Facebook and age shamed me / said I’m too young for him lmao, and said she’s surprised he takes me on nice dates.

[SwellStroke]

Honestly if someone is just going to be petty then that is not worth your time. I wouldn't waist my time, but that is me.

[slatyb]

Anyone who even worries about levels is on the lowest one.