I hung out with this girl for the 2nd time. We went out and had sushi (which is what she told me she liked last time) then we went and saw Christmas lights at our zoo. We walked, shared stories, laughed, and got kinda close. We didn't hold hands (but she did have her hand free. On the side I was walking so I wasn't sure if that was an invitation?) But she did let me touch her arm to "feel her jacket" and she let me hold her wrist so I can help put a wrist band on and she didn't seem uncomfortable.
We drove around the fancy neighborhoods to see more lights and had very deep conversations with more hard laughs. I told her I've never been to an escape room at the mall and she told me she also wanted to go so I asked her if she wanted to go next weekend and she agreed. At the end she said she had a fantastic time and that I made her bad day a lot better (which was my goal) and she asked for a hug. The hug lingered a little bit then she said be careful. Is any of this a good sign? Or see me as a friend?
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I would also like to add that she said her legs were cold because she wore a dress so I touched her leg and was 100% ok with it if that means anything lol
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I forgot another thing😅. She asked me if we could take a selfie by some lights. Then a stranger randomly offered to take a picture of us and she agreed.
She was hoping you would linger into that kiss. Be in the Moment…long hugs means something else is expected. In this case an equally long and lingering 💋 The Vibe was set for it.
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Well now that I look back at it. The hug only lasted like 3-4 seconds but it felt so much longer in the moment.
That was an ideal thing to do for a second date. Sounds like she really enjoyed it. She's comfortable with you now and likes you. There's a bit of trust.
You need to kiss her on the third date. No open mouth or tongue unless she initiates it. Just a sweet kiss.
If you walk somewhere, try putting your hand on the small of her back and see if she responds by pressing against you. Offer your hand when you are walking and see if she takes it.
The idea is to have more physical contact. See if she is hesitant or if she melts into your arms.
Dude. You just have to do it and be confident about it. She’s not gonna do it. You have to just grab her hand then at some point just attempt to kiss her. She will kiss you back I promise. Just don’t hesitate because she’ll eventually see the lack of confidence and leave.
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As it turns out she's not looking for a relationship right now and said if there is an opportunity in the future she'll get into one.
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She was hoping you would linger into that kiss. Be in the Moment…long hugs means something else is expected. In this case an equally long and lingering 💋 The Vibe was set for it.
Well now that I look back at it. The hug only lasted like 3-4 seconds but it felt so much longer in the moment.
You’re missing the point…be in the moment 😎
That was an ideal thing to do for a second date. Sounds like she really enjoyed it. She's comfortable with you now and likes you. There's a bit of trust.
You need to kiss her on the third date. No open mouth or tongue unless she initiates it. Just a sweet kiss.
If you walk somewhere, try putting your hand on the small of her back and see if she responds by pressing against you. Offer your hand when you are walking and see if she takes it.
The idea is to have more physical contact. See if she is hesitant or if she melts into your arms.
Dude. You just have to do it and be confident about it. She’s not gonna do it. You have to just grab her hand then at some point just attempt to kiss her. She will kiss you back I promise. Just don’t hesitate because she’ll eventually see the lack of confidence and leave.
As it turns out she's not looking for a relationship right now and said if there is an opportunity in the future she'll get into one.
But she still has all these places she wants to go with me.
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