Should I ghost or should I message him saying I don’t want to be involved with him anymore? (Page 2)

[Anonymous]

Tell him. Ghosting is usually more hurtful, not to mention bitchy.

[Vikkrram]

Of course you should tell him then moove ahead

[kevypatyy7]

Tell him the truth

[katestar]

Are you talking to me?

[kylee2437]

I did lol he’s now blocked since he never apologized , made excuses and now is blaming me for our bond loss

[katestar]

I'm sorry about that

[kylee2437]

Nope all good lol onto better things

[katestar]

Hi there

[katestar]

I have to tell him the truth

[CAPTAIN-OBVIOUS]

I would rather be ghosted than rejected

[kylee2437]

Ehhh well he got rejected lol

[CAPTAIN-OBVIOUS]

Yeah, that’s mean. You probably discouraged him from ever trying with someone else again

[kylee2437]

I don’t care lol I told him from the very beginning that my love does not deserve to be taken for granted

[CAPTAIN-OBVIOUS]

You don’t care about hurting people?

[kylee2437]

Yep I don’t care because when I warn someone that I leave people alone forever when they don’t treat me how I should be treated, then that’s their issue. He hurt himself by taking what I say as a joke

[Anonymous]

Just tell him how you feel.

[LemiaOfThunder]

As someone has been ghosted it was horrible.

[krin_m]

Be honest with him, tell him and move on!

[kylee2437]

I told him already lol

[krin_m]

Good call. I commend you!

[Guardian45]

Ghosting is ALWAYS worse than Rejection!

[Nahid1707]

What is the situation?

[dudewithnoname]

Just tell him ghosting is childish

[PeterLegg91]

Depends on the situation

[Anonymous]

6 one way half a dozen the other.

[MyDreamsAreNotDead]

you must be frank

[Anonymous]

Just be direct and tell him

[Alex8736]

one word. BLOCK

[kylee2437]

Oh I won’t go back. I’ve voiced twice of what I wanted and tonight proved my exact point.

[Alex8736]

only say something once, do it, and keep moving forward

[kylee2437]

Honestly I just texted him saying “I think we need to leave our situation alone, I can mail back your Apple TV remote or I can drop it off somewhere”

[kylee2437]

I was going to send a whole paragraph but after basically getting ditched tonight I’m kind of curious and hurt

[kylee2437]

I think you are right though. Blocking him is probably the best case scenario

[Alex8736]

it is the best bet you gotta live YOUR life because you have to think to yourself "are these negative people paying my bills"?

[kylee2437]

He’s now blocked. When he contacted me he was full of excuses, never apologized and resorted to remove me on certain sites just so he can circle around accountability

[Alex8736]

extreme situations sometimes require extreme measures and times like that is when you see peoples true colors

[kylee2437]

Yep I also contacted a girl he was with previously 2 years ago just so I can get a heads up to how he acts when people leave him and she said he’s inconsistent only until people leave him alone

[Alex8736]

at the end of the day when the people no longer care to listen or are on to them the final piece they try doing is "claiming" they are going to commit suicide which is an upfront lie because if he was serious about it he would have already have done it

[Literalbillionaire17]

Good for you girl !

[Akam93]

Just message him.

[Anonymous]

Yeah you can tell him that by ghosting

[katestar]

I wouldn't do that

[Kareem_z21]

Message him

[hafinjun]

Good job

[Luckycharms12]

Say not interested

[In_Trance]

Either way is fine

[JesseJayNeak]

The latter

[jimmy2]

Just tell him

[panamared1]

Do not ghost

[Anonymous]

I don't know.