Its OK to do shady things behind your partners back until they find out?

Anonymous
So let me get this straight... soo it's okay for your partner to cheat and do shady stuff behind your back.. but it's not ok to look to see who they are exactly texting, when you have a weird feeling about it? And when you do find somthing shady and expose them... then it's the other person's fault for invasion of privacy? .. so it's totally okay to do shady things if you don't get caught? thats what you all are saying.. if you have nothing to hide, I personally think you should be open to who your texting to your partner.
Its OK to do shady things behind your partners back until they find out?
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