How painful is to see a girl who rejected you with a boyfriend?

[Anonymous]

[Cynicaldreamer]

I can only speak from the reverse perspective-

It sucks. Like there's no way to sugarcoat it; being rejected is bad enough, but then seeing them with someone else after they said they didn't want you? It's like a betrayal. Logically you know its not, but it -feels- like it.

It just makes me want to distance myself from him even more... that, or use a voodoo doll on him, lol

[BlueScorpio]

In sure it can be awkward and sting a bit cause you imagine that person as being you at one point.

[Anonymous]

It depends how attached I let myself get. This is why I have a rule. Never get so attached to someone that you feel like you couldn't live without them. Because the reality of life is EVERYONE is disposable.

[coachTanthony]

Not that painful because we can't be everyone's cup of tea and to think so is just immature and arrogant on our parts. Good for her wish her well and know your time is coming.

[Guy13]

Very painful the first couple times

[dustybiker]

It wouldn’t be. They would have rejected, I would have moved on.

Taking something so personally is silly. You yourself have your own likes and dislikes. People you aren’t attracted to. You can’t expect everyone to like you.

[TacosRAwesome]

At least she was honest when she said she had a boyfriend?

[Anonymous]

I don't see why it could be painful.

[Songomatic]

Better yet a husband lol