Think about it. A man would be willing to date any ethnicity of women around the world. In fact, with lots of pleasure, we would date any Asian girl, Indian girl, German girl, Hispanic girl, etc. it does not matter! We find most women to be gorgeous!
Now, when it comes to men. Girls in America say they would never date an Indian guy or an Asian guy sometimes. My ex used to say she would never date a black guy. This is common for women to be more selective on who they date. But men are not as selective and we welcome all body types.
We find small boobs and small butts attractive.
Uncomfortable question: Why are men more willing to date any ethnicity or body types compared to women?
Because women are chased by men and never have to do the chasing themselves, thus are way more picky and entitled about things like height, ethnicity, looks, etc, than men are. This applies to both hookups that women initiate and men they see as husband material. Very few (Western) women desire ideal men who are below six feet tall, are overweight, are ugly, or really old.
Meanwhile, the only men who have strict preferences for women are white men with their "no woman over 130 pounds cause she's a landwhale" BS. Most other men are pretty flexible when it comes to looks.
It's very unfair women are this way, but life was never fair to begin with.
Which means women need to either "embrace equality" and start doing the chasing - and getting rejected - just like men do. Or go back to acting like traditional housewives and ladies. But men aren't going to put up with the Worst of Both Worlds anymore: Women who expect to be wined and dined like a lady, but don't even know how to cook, clean, or even behave with dignity like a lady.
Actually, yes it does because it still poses a higher risk to women. In general woman do not have as much physical strength as men, so being in an isolated intimate environment with someone that has an advantage in physical strength poses risk. Women are also more vulnerable to STIs due to anatomy, and men aren't even tested for HPV which is the most common STI out there. Then there are the risks that pregnancy poses, or the risks of terminating the pregnancy if she so choses. Not to mention that homicide is leading cause of death in pregnant women. Then there the inherent risks that birth control poses, form side effects that affect quality of life to deadly ones like strokes and cancer. Even from just a biological and physiological standpoint, a heterosexual relationship poses more risk to women than it does for men.
@Subarugirl You're using physical risks and not social/legal risks, like a woman falsely accusing a man of "rape," a woman divorcing a man and taking all his money in child support (like Kim K just did to Kanye), or a woman divorcing a man and taking all his money in alimony, even if she makes way more than him (again, like Kim K.) Then, there's false abuse charges and actual domestic abuse that comes from women 45% of the time, then society at large still doesn't believe or take seriously (even with multi-millionaire men like Johnny Depp; Amber Heard literally said no one would believe him over her cause she's a woman.)
There are definitely MUCH MORE risks to men when it comes to relationships. They're just not physical most of the time. This is why so many men are now MGTOW and refuse to marry or date women anymore; a movement you in the past called "misogynistic." Which makes no sense, because 1) if you refuse to understand the risks involved, you can't criticize the movement. And 2) MGTOW men refuse to have anything to do with women; shouldn't this be what leftist feminist women want? Or do they get mad cause they're not having their asses kissed in general, as opposed to certain men just not asking them out or interacting with women?
Hell, Purplepoppy just linked an article the other day stating how men in the UK can get ARRESTED and PROSECUTED just for a woman not liking him being in the same general area as him. Crap like "walking behind a woman on the street" is an arrest-able offense in that ass-backwards country. England to criminalize approaching women on the street. Good or bad idea? ↗ And you're claiming *women* face more risks in initiating contact with the opposite sex nowadays? Besides the potential of rape, there is no risk at all. All those other things you mentioned are a woman's own negligence to not protect herself, use contraception, or practice safe sex. After all, no one should be able to control a woman's own body, but herself, right? Can't blame a man for a woman getting pregnant in consensual sex.
Actually, if you looked at the article it is about criminalizing sexual harassment. You are overlooking other risks beyond rape. Women are at a higher risk or being, kidnapped, trafficked, drugged, and in general are at a significant disadvantage when it comes to strength and size, not just rape. Contraception isn't 100% effective, against pregnancy or STI's. While women are more vulnerable to STI's, pregnancy and the risks associated with is not a risk that a biological male will ever have. I am stating that engaging in a sexual relationship inherently poses more risk to females than it does to males from a physiological standpoint, and that is why women are generally more selective about who they put themselves at risk with.
@Subarugirl "I don't know how much you think Kim is taking from Kanye but it’s not even close to all his money" That's not the point and you know it. She has over ten times his own money, and no one needs $200,000 a month to raise a child. Kanye's about to be broke anyway due to his feud with the corporate Jews.
And I did look at that article. Again, you're not countering anything I've said. What counts as "sexual harassment" is pretty arbitrary and subjective. A man walking behind a woman or making eye contact with her is not "sexual harassment." Which is the actual point.
Even if we include "kidnapped, trafficked, and drugged" that happens far less than the risks I named with men. Meaning, men still face more risks than women do. Meaning, women should be asking out men more often than men ask out women, especially in the MeToo era and in England where making f*cking eye contact with a Karen or flirting with her will get you two years cause sexual harassment (while they also let literal rapes and murders from Muslim immigrants go unpunished cause they're afraid they'll be seen as "racist" if they lock up Muslim rapists.)
But okay. I don't agree with you, but let's assume these risks you're saying are valid. In that case, shouldn't women still be making more contact with men anyway and speaking with "less ideal looking" men, in order to "equalize" the playing field? Or are you implying women should just avoid all men, altogether? Or that men face NO risks whatsoever in dealing with modern feminist women who think every little thing is "harassment"?
I’m not implying anything I’m explains why women are more selective. And even though you may not find them valid, I’m not sure why you find it so upsetting.
For instance, you're way more likely to be trafficked by a random white guy than some random Asian computer nerd. It has nothing to do with "safety", it's pure social status
@Jamie05rhs Women are more selective because being in a sexual relationship is inherently more dangerous for a woman than men even from a basic physiological and biological standpoint.
You don’t understand. Why is it that whenever there’s a white tall guy that is only average looking, he has dibs over my own women. I am Indian and it isn’t right to be this way. This is racism
Completely false may be true in your country but in mine, in mine White men and Asian men don't do interracial, women do it much more. (White women and arab dating Black guys).
And this is because women are much more liberal compared to men, men are much more racist / conservatives than women.
Your first paragraph don't make any sense.
In my country, men dislike Asian, Romanian, Black and Indian women as unattractive (be it because of face or body shape) they also dislike Arab women for their culture there's nearly no interracial relationship the only one I saw in real life was of very old White men having mail order bride from Vietnam. (I saw 2).
And you're also confusing dating and ons, men will fuck even average ugly women when they want to have sex but they wouldn't date one who they find ugly and they're even harsher on who they marry so no they're not more willing at all but less. But I do agree that for ONS they would pick nearly any woman compared to how picky women are even for simple ONS.
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But Asian and Hispanic women receive the most attention in dating apps
@alice55 I don't think you need to call people racist just because they have a preference for the type of woman that they're attracted to. Otherwise, I agree with the rest of what you said.
False and all pool are biased too you re telling le that un Maine or Vermont those women are more popular while thé states are 90 percent White? Don’t kid me those poll are shit
1. Probably because for eons men dated at their level and below while women have always used it as a way of trying to gain social status/money. And don't listen to the women who claim they don't care if their man is broke. Those women are unable to do better so they settle for that guy & then find excuses to explain their choice. Or they have not reached the point in life where they have to find a dude who takes them seriously.
2. In the U. S. (at least) there's **way** more white people than black people (for example). This means that even if success levels were the same across both groups, the odds of finding an available black dude who is successful would be zero to none compared to finding a white dude in that situation. Same reason why if you toss a quarter in the woods you're not going to hit a parked car but if you do that in the city you probably will.
3. So a woman saying she doesn't date black dudes, is like you saying you don't drive million dollar cars... as if you had a choice. When the reality is that the highest quality car/dude is not available in the first place. She is only thinking about the likely hood of advancing. So perception matters.
4. Very few guys get with a woman thinking, "how does this make me richer" or "now I can work less because I have a woman who is going to be very successful behind me" We just aren't looking at life that way. It doesn't matter if she is the cashier at the fast food joint or the manager at the big store. It's not going to make us think she looks more/less attractive.
What these women act very differently if a successful dude was trying to date them vs, joe average. So I wouldn't listen to what they say about 'why' so much.
It’s funny how women usually act more “surface woke” when it comes to this but when the rubber hits the road they are much more picky about ethnicity. However body type is a separate debate.
Its one thing if you have preferences. If your Asian and not physically attracted to African Americans that’s not racist. Attraction or lack thereof is not a choice you make. But it’s another thing if you won’t date or even interact because of prejudice you have despite maybe finding the person otherwise attractive/dateable.
Also men are more likely to manwhore it up with a “diverse” selection. I’m guilty of that in the past. But I didn’t care if she’s latino, Asian, white, etc. If she was attractive and willing to do it then it was fine with me at the time. Not saying that’s something to brag about but it is true.
As a white man I notice ethnic girls were much more interested in me than other white girls. Maybe they assume I’m smart/rich (which is racist in a way) or subconsciously think their kids will inherit my blue eye color. But it’s hard to turn that down when white girls were treating me like shit.
Most men typically think with our lower head down stairs and we don't give a damn where she is from or her nationality as long she looks good to the man.
Women on the other hand typically think about social comfort especially in the family, safety and acceptance.
Dating a man from a different nationality in particular ethnicity is look down upon from a social and family perspective.
Lastly, women feel more safe and comfortable being with men from their own ethnicity as their is a familiarly there already.
Probably because men are (in general, not always) more interested in sex than women are, so it doesn't really matter who she is, only that she has a vagina. When it comes to serious dating though, guys have their preferences the same as women do.
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No ma’am. We want to be loved as well. Not just sex
Of course, I'm not trying to imply guys only want sex. I'm well aware most guys crave love and care as much as girls do. Only that when it comes to sex, because a bit more ingrained in their instinct, they're less picky about who they have sex with.
This is a great question and I have spent most of my adult life coming up w/ an answer to it. in my opinion it comes down to self preservation most men don't have as many options as women so they can't afford to be as picky. Opening up yourself up to other races, religions etc provides you w/ more choices. This is one of the reason I believe bw have a huge issue w/ bm dating outside of their race. The women understand that the more options men have the less likely they are to tolerate bad behavior and a lot of women's behavior toward men is bad.
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Well men have a lot less biological investment in pregnancy then women do. So it is a reasonable evolutionary strategy for men to go for volume whilst women go for quality - in their perception.
Genetically it is better for women to go for genetics close too - but not too close - to their own. It might be all down to pheromones at the end of the day.
They'll take anything that's why I prefer to be single. Did you hear about the dude with aids going around giving it to multiple women? They finally put him in jail
Rams will only give a ewe three shots of semen so a long time back if a ewe didn't become pregnant a farmer might put a bag over the ewes head to fool the ram into thinking he had a new ewe. So I a thinking that is the backstory of the clip. Naughty nurse outfits anyone?
So we find certain attributes attractive which means we like girls who have them. Girls look at different things and base it a l ou t more on actions. If a lot of people of one ethnicity act a certain way, then that turns them off from that entire ethnicity.
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As I've grown older and more wise, I must say that I'm far more selective as to who I feel is worthy of my time. I just won't sleep with any woman regardless of body type or ethnicity unless we're dating and there is a connection between us.
I'm not desperate to manwhore it and will know when the right woman comes along to pursue anything.
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Because men are attracted to physical features and women are attracted to social status.
There's a phenomenon in Eastern Europe where many women are quite attracted to East Asian men, because these countries are rich and have lots of positive media (mainly Korea)
Women go for perfect, so I personally i want I light skin guy because I feel with my complexion, our children will have good looks. So they want to know the product of the relationship
We are just wired differently. Men still can view the human body as beautiful no matter what color they are compared to women seeing men in a more longer committed relationship and what that will look like in 20 years.
The survival of humankind requires that one gender is the less picky one.
Humans would go extinct if men would start waiting that the woman makes the first move and require that she is taller than them and have more social status.
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Your source: “think about it”😂. I’ve never known a woman in my life unwilling to date outside their ethnicity, myself included.
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Would you date a Muslim man? No? Okay, I am right then. Thank you
If it was a guess (or a question at the very least) you would’ve simply asked “would you date a Muslim man”, and given me an opportunity to respond. It turned into an assumption when you said “no? Okay I am right then”.
I can explain myself. I live in Utah as a minority myself. Most white women are very selective so that explains why I’m frustrated. I’m the only minority in my area is what it feels like
That’s unfortunate, maybe it’s time to move somewhere diverse. Still, the response you gave me was quite rude, and I hope yo don’t do that going forward.
I don't know how accurate that is.. based on a lot of the partners I've seen both men and women choose I'd say a significant portion of them aren't very picky 😂
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Why indeed. What I find funny is how women will call people racist then be unwilling to date a guy of another race. That is the very definition of racism.
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I was like that when I as young, but now i know what I want and I know my type.
I don't personally see that. Actually, the only people I've ever heard say they wouldn't date a certain ethnicity were guys. Granted, only like two or three guys, but yeah.
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Simple. The progressive gender, Women, Are mostly hypocrites.
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