Can ugly men with no money get with women in 2022?

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Datboi65 · Accepted Answer

I hate to break it to you, but you already know the answer, which is no. Notice how 84% of the women said yes? If you ask them privately, they know they wouldn't date an unattractive man who is low on money. They just said yes because they want to be PC, but I'm here to tell you the truth.

In life, you have to earn everything. You don't just deserve to get what you want, you actually have to put effort into getting it. If you are poor and unattractive, then you know that you don't want to be in that boat forever, do you? I know that deep down you want to look better and have more money or at the very least not worry about paying the bills. I have some good news for you, it's all possible my friend.

You're too young if you're in the age range that your profile shows, about 18-24 right? I'm 21 myself (as of 8 days ago) and I'm constantly trying to level up my life. It's a bumpy road with some obstacles along the way, but you have to do the hardwork if you want to reap the benefits.

Get in the gym and put on some muscle mass. After you do that, get a nice haircut and then work on your skin care routine (for starter I recommend you use CeraVe). Work on your jaw muscles and your neck muscles for some broader appearance, and don't forget your shoulders as well. Improve you fashion sense next without having to break the bank for it. You can get cheap clothes that match very well in color and fit. Get your grooming in order, and grow some facial hair while keeping it nicely trimmed and well maintained. Most importantly of all, don't forget hygiene and smelling good, because that's absolutely needed.

Now that you have your look in order, you're halfway done. Now you need to get your money up. I don't know if you're in college or not, but I would recommend you start by working in media related services. You will meet some influential clients who will ask you to work for them running their social media accounts for example and they will pay you a decent amount, but it's more about having connections. Once you have enough money, invest in yourself by learning a skill and get VERY good at it. Can you sing? Write? Cook? Produce? Play a sport? Are you interested in business and want to learn more about it? You can buy books/ebooks and start from there, and then watch videos and buy courses that will help you improve more. When you're there to a point where you think you have perfected your craft, make it your source of income and combine what you have learned from media with your new skill and you will blow up on YouTube, New York Times articles and so much more. But first, you have to WORK YOUR ASS OFF. Don't be discouraged if you don't succeed from the first time, keep pushing until you get there.

Now let's go back to the question. Is it possible to get women if you are unattractive and broke in 2022? Maybe, but it's not very likely. If I were you, I will first put my life in order physically, mentally and financially before I start looking for women.

Best of luck on your journey solider 💪🏿

MrOracle · Accepted Answer

Largely, no. There are a very few exceptions - someone who has a ton of talent in some entertainment-related area - a singer, musician, athlete, comedian, etc. That person might have nothing today, but has big potential in an area that is popular.

Otherwise, that guy needs to focus on improving himself and his situation. He can make more money, hit the gym, dress better, get his own place and a decent car, and he can learn a lot about women. I would recommend that he doesn't stop trying - meeting women and talking to them, even if it leads to rejection, is still valuable experience. He may get lucky, but he should not expect to much success until his life is in a more favorable condition.

BlueScorpio · Accepted Answer

Listen I wouldn't worry about dating when you're in a tight financial situation. That's having your priorities completely backwards, you need to focus on you and getting your life in order. It's irresponsible to date while not knowing where you're going to rest your head or get your next meal. I will be honest with you, a lot of women not find such a man as suitable partner cause he's not financially depended, not just for her but himself. What If he gets into accident or a child comes up in the relationship, he just put himself in an even worser position then he was already cause now you got medical and childcare bills piling up.

Yes a guy being broke can still be physically attractive but that doesn't matter, what matters is making sure he has a plan to get himself out that rough spot so he can have a more comfortable life. The possibility of homelessness and having no food out ways dating altogether, women aren't going anywhere any time soon. So get that inorder and when you're finally doing okay, then go out and look for a mate. Don't bring a woman/child into poverty knowing you're not going to be able to care for them. Money issues is one of the many reasons why relationships crumble, so why go through that when you can avoid.

Minxxie · Accepted Answer

Unfortunately yes, there are plenty of women with no standards who will even house and feed a man who has just gotten out of prison.

There will always be women who are beyond your reach though and there's no use hating them, especially if they are very beautiful, charming, smart, successful etc. it would be a waste for them to date down when they don't have to.

Plus, as a man, why are you dating when your finances are a mess? You could end up broke with a kid and then your whole family will struggle most likely for life.

Get your grooming and fitness in order, develop a sense of style, get your finances in order, and THEN worry about dating.

Women need to naturally have standards because we control the fate of the next generation, if we choose a lazy whiny man to have kids with it's unfair and cruel to our future kids.

coachTanthony · Answer

You have to be tall, have money, and good looks at least that is what they say here on GAG.

Guy13 · Answer

Not the ones that I know unless you have a list of accomplishments.

Screenwriter · Answer

Do you have a personality? Can you have a good conversation? Are you interesting and interested in life? By no money, do you mean you're unemployed?

If you're unemployed, I'm gonna say, no, you're not going to get with any women. Women like to know you can pay your bills and you have plans to improve yourself. If you're simply living in your parent's basement or the room you grew up in, you've got just about no chance of dating, unless you're very young or between jobs or newly divorced or SOME reason for being in this situation.

Ugly is also relative. And if you're a fetching PERSON, people will always see beauty in. you. Warm, loving people are wonderful to be around.

Unless you're a lazy slug, you have chances with women who are looking for men who have values and plans for positive futures.

lightbulb27 · Answer

Women NEED security. The very thing they are thinking about and their purpose is to reproduce, that drives their need to build a a nest and make offspring. So that is what the man needs to do. If you can't provide that, then stop looking and work on yourself first. Ugly is irrelevant and usually, BS... unless you are talking emotionally. If a man is ugly, he just needs to improve himself emotionally to be attractive enough.

I think the answer is yes, I've seen homeless men with women. But I suspect that is not so ideal and they each have their reasons.

AmeerX · Answer

Actually, if you think about developed countries, girls compromise on economic aspects and pick men like that easily since they are independent.

But in countries like Africa or South Asia, this is almost unthinkable thing on part of a girl. Again exceptions so take it with grain of salt.

I myself wouldn't want a girl to one up my face if I earned less. Otherwise a sweet person can be rich and lovely. So, let's not be negative about it ))

P. S sometimes girls do feel insecure around friends to tell them what there bfs or husbands do when such a rich girl poor guy situation arises

NewYorkCity · Answer

LMAO of course not. Come on lol. Guy that has no looks, means 99% of girls wouldn't want to sleep with him. No money means no resources, no house or even good place to live, no good car or any car to begin with lol and he is unable to travel or even go out.

TenderFantasy · Answer

I picked no. In the long run it's not going to work. Women may be HORNY for the time being and will pick ANYONE with two sacks and a ding dong, but at the end of the day, MONEY makes the world go around! Whether you're single or not!

Blackmoonsns · Answer

Yes but he has to be a highly confident man with really great game he knows how to approach he knows how to talk initiates how to make her laugh how to put emotional intent into a woman. All women feel things on a different emotional levels so if you come up boring with no emotion she's just going to dust you off.

Anonymous · Answer

Ofcourse, ONLY under the following conditions:

- If his financial issue are not due to him being lazy to look for a job or him having poor spending habits.

- He‘s a genuine guy with a kind heart who doesn’t care much about society standards in all aspects.

We women (women, not girls!!) are not as judgmental as men and mostly look for a genuine guy with a good hearz, since these are very rare these days.

Anonymous · Answer

Looks are subjective, so while you think you’re ugly, someone else may not. As for money, if it’s due to him not having a job then I’d only date him if he’s actively looking for another job. But if he just doesn’t make a lot yet works hard then I’d respect it. Money isn’t everything but we need it to survive, in this economy it takes both parties.

mamuma02 · Answer

Yes!

Its not always about looks or money. People fall for different things. And some people are attraktiv to people who "society" call ugly.

That word of what an ugly appearance is , its mostly constructed.

PainusNdeeAnus · Answer

If you follow a woman down an alley you’ll find that women are super weak

but seriously if you wanna have sex with women just lie to them and be toxic af

Any girl who doesn’t have a dad or has a bad relationship with him are ones you want

Chances are great he wasn’t around and never told her he loved her meaning any man that does come along and tell her he loves her she will believe it

Mamaganja · Answer

What do you mean no money? Like is he doing ANYTHING for himself? Does he have a place to live that isn’t his parents? Does he have a car? Does he have no money because he is responsible or because he’s irresponsible? That’s what matters more to me.

Anonymous · Answer

They can. I know some of them. They even got married while he was making below minimum wage. I asked him how he did that.

There are no secrets to it. You waste all chances you don't take. Will being broke repel girls? Sure, the materialistic ones will reject you. Does that mean don't bother? It's up to you.

Haha456 · Answer

ugly men have it easier than ugly women. An ugly guy with a great sense of humor can still get women. An ugly woman with a great sense of humor will never be able to get a man.

Chazmatazz269 · Answer

Absolutely not and anyone who suggests otherwise is either grossly ignorant or lying.

victoriaxoxo · Answer

Forget money, I don't care about that. But looks do matter.

Downhill20 · Answer

Truth is no. Less good-looking guys have more work to do in order to get what they want compared to those who are already good-looking. Also, this sounds like a loaded question.

DoctorSex · Answer

Never as a broke man, date. Never. You are started from a poor position of power  Kind regards, DoctorSex

Lionman95 · Answer

No people might say so but I would consider the chance low because chances are high that he´s overlooked.

MCheetah · Answer

Ugly? It depends. No money? Yeah, it's called not being a simp and having some self-respect and game.

MountAverage · Answer

Your question implies that there currently exist no ugly poor men in the whorld who aren't single. That's absurd. Do you incels never stop to think for a second before you start pounding your keyboard?

Audiofox · Answer

I just like people for who they actually are. The rest is less important.

trina_x · Answer

i mean somebody with literally £0 in the bank isn't very stable for a relationship

FreyaRed · Answer

Yes, if they don't aim exclusively on girls several leagues above them

Chthou95 · Answer

I love the answers here. This again just shows that men and women are living two different realities. The female reality and the male reality. An ugly guy doesn't have a chance. The most that could try & help is money the gym

AsaKyo · Answer

I'd worry more about your self-esteem and income before worrying about dating these stupid whores out here

bamesjond0069 · Answer

Sadly, women have ultra low standards so yes they can. Then when they want a real man they try and get with a hot rich guy and the last thing he wants is a girl who spreads her legs for losers.

Blackcupcake · Answer

“ugly” is subjective and even poor people date so yes.

Valso · Answer

No, we can't. You better get used to that, it will make life a little easier.

Subarugirl · Answer

Yeah... there are millions of people that are

Googlemyahoo · Answer

Yea there’s plenty of ugly women with no money for you to choose from

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

Yes. Happens a lot. Just don't expect to get pretty women. Still can but the chances aren't high. LOL

Teriyaki70 · Answer

Every person has a different opinion so just because you think someone is "ugly" doesn't mean other people do too

LimitedBenefits101 · Answer

Nope, if you are ugly and don't have money it's over for you my guy. So try to get that money and 304s will be all over you.

Anonymous · Answer

If good genes n financial stability aren't important to them, absolutely. Lol

Anonymous · Answer

Ugly and no money lol  You are early 20s you have something no beauty and money can buy  Youth

Anonymous · Answer

There are gullible and desperate women out there for those ugly and broke men.

Anonymous · Answer

Of course they can. You just have to have SOME kind of an edge. Looks and money are two good ones, but there are others.

OddBeMe · Answer

Define no money? No prospects? Yes. No education? Most likely. No ambition? Definitely.

SamK20 · Answer

Sure they can, just maybe not the women they want. 😂

Pohjolan · Answer

He better be standup comedian level funny then.

Anonymous · Answer

No money and ugly…no girl, no woman would accept that in this day and age.

Anonymous · Answer

Yeah. You just have to find a hippie blind chick.

DizzyDesii · Answer

I’ll take broke if he's cute

melanieeeB · Answer

I would worry more about your mindset smh

Labokachulaa · Answer

Yes they definitely can.

SlothySlob · Answer

Yes, she's just not going to be a 10.

misogynistic_pig · Answer

Only if you have a dominant personality.

ArtemisSilver · Answer

Yeah. Charisma is always a factor.

HippieVeganJewslim · Answer

Yes, but probably hardly.

captain_voidwalker · Answer

Nope, either get ripped or get rich.

Jmmmfi4 · Answer

Definitely not

Anonymous · Answer

Just have to fine the right one.

Anonymous · Answer

Obviously

Jccowen77 · Answer

Not likely.

LiamJHayden · Answer

Yes.

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