Have you ever been heartbroken or burnt out?

I've been single for so long that I've stopped trying to get to know people in that way. Like I've had people show interest, a few girls at work told me they think I'm cute. I just said thank you and kept doing my work. Even tho I like one of them I'm just not to thrilled or interest about pursuing a non professional relationship even tho for the longest time that's all I've wanted I feel like my fire is gone.

Blackmoonsns

Xper 6 Age: 41

Bro it sounds like you're lacking in confidence and you really don't know what you want. I'm almost 40 now and I can go about a year maybe two years without any kind of physical relationship but the ironic thing is I've lost count of how many sexual partners I've had in my life and when I'm in a relationship or just seeing anyone I get it a lot. And as men as we get older it becomes less important as we become more focused on our career our goals and our hobbies so intimacy and physical relationships take a back door the funny thing is the flip side is women get older they get more willing to have sex and have intimacy and more passion and romance it's kind of funny how that works out.

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I see how you could think that, it's hard to explain from my perspective I'm not afraid of rejection I've more lost interest all together, my career definitely does take priority over most things in my life, now more than ever.

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Blackmoonsns

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You have to walk around with confidence charisma a bit of mystery a splish splash of ego be funny constantly and always present yourself as a prize. Women are attracted to men they look up to not the ones they look down to that's what Chase is them away if you walk around in an energy of you know like a scared puppy you're going to have problems you walk around like a lion present yourself show the world your skilled ambitious a go-getter confident and you can give a woman her emotional needs understand her emotionally and fulfill her mentally she will be fully attracted to you no matter how much money you make or what kind of possessions you have.

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Well sometimes I'm not those things. Doesn't that sound a bit one way? What's exactly is the prize for me anyway?

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Blackmoonsns

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What the prize means is women view you as a prize you're a catch you're a man that's recognized by the community other members of your group as a man who is confident ambitious respectful he's a man who doesn't need anyone else. Women want men who are elusive they have a healthy sense of love for themself and others they know where they're going in life and they are happy with who they are he's funny he's charming and he's charismatic. Women date up not down if you look weak you question yourself you're hesitant you're not bold enough front she's not going to notice you I have some of the best reactions with women when I come up to them just point blank blind when I'm a little insulting but charming and kind of cocky but I'm also can flip it around and be like all right I'm going to give you a shot to just prove what kind of a jerk I am see what she got girl you also have to put a sexual emotion into them you have to do this or they're going to see you as just a friend and the simplest way to do that would be to set up a scenario one way if you get an opportunity to you know be able to touch your hair her hand or her lower back now that's after you felt her out and she's giving you all the green lights just don't point blank do this. Long story short what makes you the prize is when a woman recognizes you're a man who has it all in his life and she recognizes that he does not need her that becomes attracting.

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Blackmoonsns

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Be confident be charming befold he physically attractive the emotionally attractive to her and I cannot stress be emotionally attractive to her don't base a relationship around sex face it around an emotional bond.

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