When someone has so many dating options do they just pick the best one, or never settle with any one at all?

[Anonymous]

[DaveJord]

So, in my experience when women have a lot of dating options or are engaged with a various man at the same time trying to figure out which one to date... in my experience, they get easily distracted by the bright shiny objects.

What I mean by that, is that I have met women that I know where talking to various men at once... and it became hard to get any type of solid read off her. She was balancing, weighting and measuring so many different things that it was really tough to hold her attention. The truth was that she was so uncertain on what type of guy she wanted to date, and then having so many available options to her... she just could not focus on any one guy, because every guy had good and bad qualities. So, then she tends to set some unrealistic expectations on men, because she begins to feel that she deserves the perfect man... but is there such a thing? Because some men will really say and do all the right things, in order to win her attention... but they are just doing what it takes to bag the score... the real him does not come out until later.

So, to your point yes, I think they go into overload and make some bad choices, because they do not really find one guy and really put in the time and effort with that one guy. They entertain various guys and options, and the better choice of men realize it and move on. So, all she really has is the best of the worst options and she does not find out until it's too late. So, in some way it is like she eventually settles on a guy, but she does not realize she is settling. She thinks he is the best choice because he jumped through all the right hoops, but in reality, he just played games with her to bag the score... were as the guys she was more dismissive of were probably the better quality of men, they were just not going to jump through the hoops to gain her attention just to get laid.

I think over time women like this gut frustrated and settle with the wrong type of guy... because he was the one that chased the hardest.

If I was a woman, I would not talk to or consider more than 1 or 2 guys at a time and really put forth the effort with each of them to really determine who they really are before just jumping on to next best thing that comes around. Now this can be time consuming and super frustrating at first, but over time you start to really figure out exactly what it is you want and need from a man... so you can start to filter through them faster and really determine the right guy faster. Which means you start finding better guys and talking to the right types of men and dismissing the wrong type pretty quick... because the pretenders are not that hard to spot. But most women find this process very overwhelming and get super frustrated and give up on it. Eventually settling for the wrong type, because it's easier then really putting the working into men and figuring it out.

[Summeroflove]

It’s normal to go for the best one. Who are you most attracted to.

[sheenagwapa]

they will pick onw the obe who they cn abuse and innocent of their evil plans then the other options thry are there as bqckup not backup but hidden pussies to be fuck.


and then they will then convince the chosen one the religious chosen one that she is a shepherd so that she will be fine with these other bitches in the demonic's life. this demonic then will talk about love and depression and suicide to emotionally blackmail and manipulate the religious chosen one and trained


this demonic he trained this poor religious girl that she shouldn't get mad of these bitches because this demonic is insinuating that whatever these bitches will do he is innoceny.


he just wanna eat every pussies in the planet because he is a manslut who cannot be contented but unfortunately for him the plan has beenbusted because the chosen one has a gift of prophecy


no matter how he would tey to confused the chosen one the dreams are statinh different scenarios.


so the option of the demonic is to confused again the religious victim and convince himself and people around him that he is innoceny.


in other words his words vs the religious persons words. in his defense he in fact is helpinh the religious person's ocd but that doesn't erase of his bad intentions.

[bamesjond0069]

There's no everyone does this answer. But women tend to pick none until they are much older and then they realize they have far less options than they used to. Then they either settle or stay single.

Men tend to choose every option and fuck lots of women, date lots of women and never have to settle with anyone.

[churbleburble78]

I dated 20 women in 4 months in 2021 - 50 dates in total; slept with 8 of them, kissed 14 of them - but I settled down when I found the perfect one for me and we've been together 20 months now and moved in together 4-5 months in

[Adam1978]

Depends on the person, some people pick the best, other let time/fate decide other never makes a choice until its down to the last option.

[KrakenAttackin]

This is called hypergamy. Also, social media and dating apps have destroyed daing and marriage as they have amplified and weaponized the worst aspects of female nature.

[Anonymous]

I guess the best one, unfortunately I’ve never been in this position

[Anonymous]

Pick the best one

[Asker]

Well I’ve been the best one and still didn’t get the commitment I wanted.

[Opinion Owner]

You don’t know that for sure. It’s his opinion

[Asker]

Objectively I’m the best though.

[Asker]

Or, whoever’s on his level…which isn’t always a good thing. Lol

[Opinion Owner]

Do you want me to pick you then? Prove it to me because I didn’t believe you.

[Asker]

No I’m a perfect woman on every level. And I don’t need to prove it to anyone. If they can’t see it, they’re literally stupid.

[Opinion Owner]

Well, what about just a coffee then? Or are you hungry? What would you like to do now?

[mateta_haidara]

Maybe you are, but with this attitude you can never progress. Finding some flaws is the first step to improve yourself.

[bamesjond0069]

Most women don't know what men think is the best. What they think is the best is actually usually what men hate.

[Camson22]

Pick the best one.