Is there any man who used to be scared of marriage, but could overcome it? Then how?

[Anonymous]

Is there any man or a girl whose boyfriend used to be scared of get married but did overcome it by time?

[connemara_crocodile]

Yupp me. I never wanted to get married. Not even when I was in a 8 year relationship.

Then I broke up, and been in LOTS of short relationships or flings. The plan was the same, I didn't want to get married, or form a family, nor any of that.

Then out of nowere I found the right person and slowly but surely I changed my mind 🙂 I proposed after 2 years of being with her and got married 2 after that 🙂

[Anonymous]

Probably, but most guys are scared of marriage today for good reasons, and those reasons are not going away any time soon, if ever.

[kylee2437]

Having fears is normal, knowing how to cope with them is how you gain a healthy relationship with anything

[BarryLiverstone]

Yes I used to be scared of getting married

[Asker]

How did u cope with it? My boyfriend says he can spend his whole life with me but scared of marriage

[BarryLiverstone]

I coped my working on myself, starting to love who I am, and gaining relationship experience so that I know who I am and what I need.

Have you told your boyfriend that you want to be married so someone and if he can’t ever marry you then best to end things?

[Asker]

I don't make a pressure on him bc we are still young (23). But i have concerns about the future and sometimes think if he doesn't get married even aftrt 3 4 years. I love him so much, i know he loves me too. But he always says he just don't like the idea of marriage. I hope that he will changr his mind by growing mentally...

[Asker]

We are 23

[BarryLiverstone]

Did he say why he is against marriage? Like are his parents married? Is he worried about finances

[Asker]

I asked once. He doesn't know... at least he told me that he had no certain idea...

[Asker]

Of course there must be some reasons but I don't know

[BarryLiverstone]

in my opinion he knows but he is fearful to tell you the reasons. Do you and him get into many arguments or is it mostly smooth?