Did you find the person of your dreams?

[lemonette]

More importantly, is he/she still in your life?

[Rosexøxø]

I did.

and he’s gone.

lol he was as close to the dream as I could get.

It was two of them actually.

They were my last hopes in love. I made the right choice in saying to myself

“these are my last hopes.”

One was a brainiac

the other was a walking human heart.

They both failed me.

I guess it is only because something and a few someone’s had failed them in their lives.

They couldn’t and didn’t have the capacity of loving me as I was willing to love them. Most would say that’s fine- everyone loves different- it’s expressive

and I would otherwise agree, except.

I held a standard, and even if they couldn’t meet that standard-

they sure as heck did not reciprocate.

Love can vary yes I will say that,

but it’s NO excuse for it to LACK in intensity.

Love should be intense.

Efforts of love should never cease.

They should live and die for you, but I guess that is too much for a people who are scared to die and haven’t yet love for themselves.

They don’t know what living is

so they will always be having an emotional/ mental affair with the though in the back of their mind- that they are missing out on something greater.

I cast no judgement on that.

They should know how to live so that when they find a special someone, they can decide if they wish to live alongside each other, with each other, and so on.

Not just sky diving alone or on a safari alone, but together,

and when not together or even just in each other’s vicinity. They should be left alone to retreat to their internal selves to explore more about their own epiphanies and beliefs on what this thing called life is.

Sometimes even letting the other into that exploration, and brainstorming it together. Sometimes lol

Sometimes we realize the most about ourselves, when by ourselves, or simply ‘thinking out loud’ with others and such.

It’s like using echolocation. A person knows where they stand when they’re able to bounce ideas off of each other.

They will even get a better idea of where the other person stands when they do this, “practice” of sorts.

It’s an incredible thing.

[Rosexøxø]

I guess I lied. They weren’t the person of my dreams, they were pretty close. They were the closest I would ever get to my dreams,

but that’s the best part isn’t it?

I’m the keeper of my dreams. I can love myself and explore the world and meet many other people who are diving and soaring within their own dreamscapes.

It’s a beautiful sight to behold. I’m lucky to be a part of this concept, called humanity.

[jennifer_bloom]

I don’t have the option to interview every single man on earth so if a guy is good enough, I will accept him.

[DaveJord]

So yes at 20 I thought I had found the women of my dreams, and I was with her for 22 years and then divorce. So now she is not still the woman of my dreams.

But recently I have just started dating a new person, and she seems to be pretty amazing. I am hesitant to jinx anything and say she could be the women of my dreams, but if she is not, she is pretty damn close, and anyone should be so luck as me to come this close to perfection.

[abc3643]

Q1. Did you find the person of your dreams?
A1. Yes! In fact, she went BEYOND my dreams!

Q2. More importantly, is he/she still in your life?
A2. No, half my life she has been gone. I remain undead still.

[Guy13]

Not sure yet but maybe.

[MCheetah]

Yeah. She died in November 2012, a little less than a year of being together. I wrote a MyTake about her.

[linka_pat307]

𝙰𝚖 𝚜𝚝𝚒𝚕𝚕 𝚢𝚘𝚞𝚗𝚐 𝚊𝚗𝚍 𝙸 𝚑𝚊𝚟𝚎𝚗'𝚝 𝚢𝚎𝚝 𝚍𝚘𝚗𝚎 𝚠𝚑𝚊𝚝 𝙸 𝚠𝚊𝚗𝚝 𝚜𝚘 𝚕𝚎𝚝 𝚑𝚒𝚖 𝚠𝚊𝚒𝚝 𝚙𝚛𝚘𝚋𝚊𝚋𝚕𝚢 𝚙𝚕𝚊𝚢𝚒𝚗𝚐 𝚠𝚒𝚝𝚑 𝚘𝚝𝚑𝚎𝚛 𝚌𝚑𝚒𝚌 𝚊𝚛𝚘𝚞𝚗𝚍 𝚋𝚞𝚝 𝚑𝚎 𝚘𝚞𝚐𝚑𝚝 𝚝𝚘 𝚌𝚘𝚖𝚎 𝚌𝚕𝚎𝚊𝚗 𝚝𝚘 𝚖𝚒

[TheSpaceGnome]

Not yet.

I've found women that are just like that person, but are taken. So I know the "woman of my dreams" is a real archetype. I just haven't managed to find one thats still single and in the US yet.

[weysally]

I found my dream totally by accident, and yes he is still my dream lover, husband, best friend

[Nxtawm]

Nope not yet, I am kinda talking to someone but I doubt they’re it since I get a feeling we wouldn’t actually last long.

[dustybiker]

Yes. And yes. They were better than I thought because they offered things I didn’t expect or knew I needed. Nice surprise.

[EmmaMary]

Yes I very fortunately did and he is now my husband

[DeeDeeDeVour]

Yes and it's mutual.

And, yes, we're married.

[Zbrody1997]

Nope the last one used me as an experiment to see if she was lesbian now I just want a small tiddy goth wife

[magiusX26]

i dont think so. does not matter anymore becsuse niw it would either be a case of a dream forgotten and best left that way or a nighmare.

[FunkyMonkee]

I thought so, until she turned out to be a fucking nightmare!!

[Akam93]

Not yet. I'm still waiting for prince charming on a white horse.

[Heolurt]

Even in my dreams I get rejected. I don't have girl of my dreams and if I did, she could never want someone with my face.

[rdubgaming]

Yes I have found the person of dreams and we both like each other but she can't date till she's 16 and I'm sixteen

[Pudsmucker]

I think I found my person in my dreams I've been with her for 44 years. We have had our ups and downs. We had to have a decent relationship.

[Drachen]

I thought I found the real love when I got married with him, but I was wrong.

[sunflower44]

I think so 🤔am not sure how he feels about me yet tho

[Twalli]

Technically, no. Before we started dating I don't think I ever dreamed about her.

[Tellme]

I don’t think so, but that’s ok. Dreams are dreams and have little to do with reality.