Should I ask my boyfriend about why does he keep his ring from his first marriage?

[Anonymous]

I found his ring from his first marriage in his night stand by his bed. I feel like if he wants to keep it that it should be packed away and not where he can see it all the time. Should I ask him if he’s still in love with his ex wife and why he keeps it so close to his bed?

[Pyrofox]

I'd say maybe its a reminder of the good times before the divorce is my guess.

[Asker]

He said all they did was argue. That years before they got divorced that she stopped sleeping with him. Doesn’t sound like something I want to be reminded of.

[Pyrofox]

Thats probably what is at the front of his mind his back of his mind the subconscious is probably thinking otherwise. I'll let you in on a secret about guys. Is there's the stuff a guy says actively and thinks actively and then there is a separate mode of where its a daydream long term and theory crafting portion. Most guys have one or the other active.

[Anonymous]

Well I still have a ring from my first engagement and I kept it cause its a real diamond lol. If his ring is real gold you know...

[boggboss]

So ask him asking us won't help u he has all the answers there is bo point guessing as ti why

[Anonymous]

Is it gold or platinum because then I'd buy it, my furnace loves wedding band

[Asker]

It’s gold

[Opinion Owner]

Tell him to sell it, only people who keep wedding bands are mourning the loss of wearer so if they were divorced it doesn't make sense

[In_Trance]

I don't think so; you might not like the answer