Does this mean I’m the problem?

[Anonymous]

So I’ve been single for a long time. I’m only 21. But it feels like now is the time to start making more serious connections. Accept whenever it happens I get nowhere. I finally had a potential after months off talking to no one. He gave me his number and everything. Within the first three messages he just never responded and continued posting on his story. I didn’t want to feel shitty about it I just do. I feel like something is wrong with me. I always get ghosted. I didn’t even get to say much. Like what is the issue. Why can’t anyone learn to know me? I’m just sad. I wanted this to maybe go somewhere possibly. Now I just feel like I’m dumb and going to be lonely forever

[Truthatanycost]

Have you ever asked yourself what you bring to the table?

[Dkc123]

Stfu dude she's a kid

[Truthatanycost]

@Dkc123 If she goes for a job at that age of 21, they are going to be asking her the same question. Everywhere in her life onward she is going to be asked the same in different ways. That's the problem with so many of us, we complain about things not going our way but make excuses and are afraid of even pondering something as simple as 'what do I bring to the table?'.

[Dkc123]

@Truthatanycost you're absolutely right.. but she obviously doesn't seem like other girls of her age. Most of them are arrogant brats..

[Anonymous]

It's depends what you text?
And if you looking for serious relationship than do hope from the guy who you just exchange numbers.

[Asker]

He sent his number then ig I took a minute to respond and asked what am I going to do with it. So I finally texted him repeating the question and said “u gave it, what y want me to do with it?” And that was it

[Dkc123]

You need to loose yourself.