Girls, is it true that a relationship is better and more fulfilling the more self-confident the woman is and the less she puts up with her partner?

[Anonymous]

Have you tried that already? What were your experiences?

[KathrynTaylor]

The more confident without getting overconfident that they both are, the better things go.

[Anonymous]

It’s a balance. There has to be an element of that but also he should keep her in check too to maintain respect. Nobody is right all of the time.

[Asker]

yes of course. but her being bold is important

[Opinion Owner]

Definitely

[Opinion Owner]

My best relationship was when that was the case personally, but maybe that’s because we also connected more too.

[Opinion Owner]

She won’t want someone that she has to “put up with” the majority of the time though. They should be a good fit and have a good depth of intimacy in different ways for the most part (not just sexually).

[Asker]

(Y) then

[Asker]

I think the more time the relation is the less he will do something she has to put up with.

[Opinion Owner]

If he wants to be with her, usually yes. But some people try to take advantage once they get comfortable.

[Opinion Owner]

In my last relationship typically when I’d bring up a concern he wasn’t that interested so I started to feel shut down, there’s only so many times you can try before knowing with evidence that there’s not much more point to it. Some men just don’t listen and then somehow wonder what happened.

[Asker]

you can make him stay interested if you put him into a chastity belt ;-)

[Opinion Owner]

Haha I want him to want to do it himself, not have to make him, he can go if he wants to.

[Opinion Owner]

And back to the point of your question, I think it really comes down to their lair and how they connect, it’ll be different for everyone, I don’t think your question is a main factor unless it’s something that one or both of them prioritise. Some people can get on really well naturally without that coming into play, they just work well together with equally different things they both bring.

[Opinion Owner]

*the couple and how they connect

[Opinion Owner]

Can I ask what’s made you question this?