Do you consider yourself to be romantic or non-romantic?

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I think I’m def more romantic HOWEVER, I do feel like not as much as I used to since I never got it reciprocated lol.

zeitgeist057 · Accepted Answer

Don't give up on romantic love! xoxo I am a romantic myself and love is definitely out there for you, and there are men out there who will reciprocate and enjoy being romantic.

I just met a woman and we spent a lot of time talking and getting to know each other, and when we were having sex the first time she started crying and wanted to stop so I stopped right away and I was worried she had a rape flashback or something but she told me that she was scared about love and that she had been so hurt before and there were all these feelings but it was scary. We just talked and it was fine in the end and we spent a lot more quality time together and talked and made love a lot and now she is just pouring forth the floodgates and so happy and it makes me happy too. She told me that I healed her, and helped her learn to love again, that she had given up on love and closed her heart thinking it would never happen.

So I'm just saying. I know it can be rough out there, but there are also a lot of romantic people, too.

Do you consider yourself to be romantic or non-romantic?

OfMiceandMen · Accepted Answer

I think I am a romantic...

I like dropping off hand written letters or cards that I've made that contains poetry or messages expressing how I feel about her and I.

A date to me consists of dressing-up, wearing a sports-coat, a sweater, pants, shoes, a dress shirt and sometimes a tie, taking her to the movies, out for dinner, the theatre to see a play or musical.

One of my favorites during the summer months is packing everything in my kayak dry-bag, us paddling out to an island, me warming up a meal I already prepared, and enjoying it with a glass of wine and candles at dusk.

Last weekend, I flew my girl and I to NYC and saw Phantom of the Opera again. One of our all time favorites. I surprised her with a trip to Toronto the weekend before to get her a new dress for the occasion.

I guess, somewhat of a romantic.

CupcakeTheDestroyer · Accepted Answer

I'm aromantic, I don't really do crushes or feel romantic attraction to anyone in particular. However, I do love me some good romance genres. If you get me the right kind of romance novel with some fantasy elements added to it, I'm enjoying the hell out of it lol

WonderBell99 · Accepted Answer

I'm not good with physical touch, so that would take some points off my "romantic scale". However, I do try to cheer up my SO when he is feeling down and I do my best to make him feel safe, happy and loved.

OlderAndWiser · Answer

When I got married, I wrote a song, arranged for piano, oboe, and choir accompaniment, and sang it to my bride at our wedding. Does that get me some credit for being a romantic?

Anonymous · Answer

Romantic at heart. But, I've learned to temper it quite a bit because most girls really don't appreciate any of that sweet stuff coming from a guy like me. So I learned that I have to save even most of the "little" sweet gestures for months into the relationship, if not further.

Hell, most "friends" and family have been the type to be too dense or messed up to appreciate a nice gesture (when non romantic, obviously) so I would have to assume, as sad as it is, that a lot of girls would see anything as nefarious or desperate.

I dial that all waaaaay back. Anything that takes any time or much planning is often seen as too romantic, so while there is that tendency to think of friends or girlfriends, I have to remember who they really are. And force myself to not be bothered because it will cause me more of a problem than it's worth.

MichaelEspinoza · Answer

I consider myself romantic , well here's my opinion - if the woman ♀️ that I'm seeing wants me to be romantic then I'll do my best to be romantic ( for her only ) . Really if you love a woman that you're seeing then you should show her you love her not other women

benjydyn · Answer

I am romantic but only partially.
There are some behaviors and actions that are always beautiful by demonstrating value and importance in feelings and intentions in a relationship.
There are some other things that seem exaggerated or outdated.

TheSpaceGnome · Answer

I'm a very logical person and a romantic person, but romantic in the "anime slice of life caring SO" sense, not the classical western sense of remembering anniversaries, going on walks, overpriced gifting of shiny rocks and flowers, or going on cheesey dates.

Paulalove98 · Answer

Romantic because I’m pretty thoughtful, affectionate, caring, considerate type of woman. I like to make sure my partner feels happy and secure. I’m the type of woman who’ll reassure her boyfriend and support him.

catiecatie · Answer

Girl I have some amazing dates planned and everything. No matter if it’s sleeping under the stars to watching a movie back at my place. I enjoy it. But I don’t take the lead on it, I will let the guy plan a date, then me, and back and forth.

electromagnetic · Answer

I’m hella romantic.  Chocolate covered strawberry, red lingerie, and bubble baths for Valentine’s Day sorta romantic.

CrazyGirl2 · Answer

I am def a Romantic! I love romance, and being romanced. I love true romantic movies, and romantic comedies (romcom’s), I even love the very idea of romance.

Red-Blaze · Answer

I feel I am really romantic, mostly on small things big gestures are less for md Its the subtle love for me

PinkRose24 · Answer

I'm definitely romantic and sentimental. Meaning, if I give a guy a gift it has special sentiment behind it.

FieldOfVision · Answer

I am the extreme opposite of romantic. Never had feelings for someone in my life, though I wish I did. I guess after while you get content with it.

Passing_by · Answer

I can be very romantic but it really depends who am I with. It'd be a lot better with someone who'd resonate with me.

menina · Answer

I'm very romantic. I just don't have anyone to be romantic with yet. 🤷🏽‍♀️ 😂

PBandJ_Nerd · Answer

Kind of. I like giving flowers and baking sweets.

AydenHazor · Answer

In some ways I'm a hopeless romantic (watching the groom's face at a wedding as he first sees his bride, empathetic cryer, etc) and in other ways I'm not (being contentedly single at the moment).

cryscrys1 · Answer

i consider myself an  Aromatic C02 ester (closed cycle compound usually)

Akam93 · Answer

I would think I'm somewhat romantic. I enjoy physical touch, snuggling on the couch, romantic dates like a picnic on the beach, etc.

Vikkrram · Answer

I never had any relationship in my life so i don't even know how i would be wid my future so and so.

RavVid · Answer

Girls are not as romantic as they are cracked up to be is my beef.

Smoothing · Answer

I am definitely romantic especially with the right person.

Vick2828 · Answer

To be honest, I really don't like doing romantic stuff all the time. Because I have a hard time figuring out what's really romantic. But I love buying any girl I date anything they want.

Anonymous · Answer

Im only romantic when im high🤣 but my sober character is cold and laid back. Or when im on my period im kinda high too hahah

Anonymous · Answer

I could have been romantic if I had ever been given the opportunity. As life turned out, I am the absolute opposite of romantic.

Charlesbrandonf · Answer

I don’t know if I’m romantic or not so I’ll keep it no.

Anonymous · Answer

I'm romantic by my own standards. I used to write an erotic story about my boyfriend, that's my love language

JosyJosy · Answer

Non no you can't really make me go melt with candles and a poem. That romeo talk makes me cringe

Anonymous · Answer

I wrote a song about a girl I had feelings for sophomore year after she was killed in a car accident

Shark_61695 · Answer

I want to be romantic but lack the experience and opportunity to know if I am.

Minahh · Answer

I'm a hopeless romantic lol. I'd rather be alone than accept half ass love ever again.

AdithyaR · Answer

I'm a romantic but it's honestly a wasted skill/quality on me.

JPresidente · Answer

A lot depends on the person and the situation.

Vinnygraphix · Answer

I am very romantic type of man and affectionate but at this current time Don’t have a woman to be romantic to or affectionate

PainusNdeeAnus · Answer

I’m whatever I need to be to get cheeks  remember fellas it’s all about how you make a woman feel

Anonymous · Answer

I write poetry that gets published and can cook and make many handcrafted items, women don't like romantic guys anymore, and bad boys are nowadays lovable men, stayed the same for so long but trying to change slowly.

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

I can show physical affection, but other than that it's not in me to be romantic.

captain_voidwalker · Answer

Non romantic, relationships to me are like everything else in life. A cost benefit analysis

Nikki1989 · Answer

I can be very romantic.

Dreamclouds · Answer

I am dependent of being romantic and if the person doesn't reciprocates I am with myself, romantism brings complexity and beauty in feeling

Anonymous · Answer

I'm totally romantic. Massages with essential oils are my thing. Kisses and cuddles also fuel my happiness.

Samhanks · Answer

Because whoever of the opposite sex to attract me becomes a target of my romance :)

TrustOfWorthington · Answer

I am romantic with people I have feelings for but if its just physical I am jzst semi romantic

TrillXHippy · Answer

Since I’m single I can’t prove it but I’m the cheesy romantic kind of guy

Cassie88 · Answer

A hopeless romantic <3

Shiningtempest · Answer

I consider my self non-romantic because I see dating as high-risk, questionable reward.

Bklynbadboy12 · Answer

I'm a hopeless romantic but I feel like that a trait that's not appreciated anymore

the_sinner · Answer

I guess romantic. I’ve never really been in a relationship so I can’t say for certain.

Djean · Answer

I identify as aromantic, meaning I don't feel romantic attraction. It's kinda like asexual.

Anonymous · Answer

Depends on my mood I'm a combination of kinky and romantic

D_Bone_Steak · Answer

KFC chicken is romantic af!!!

SnowedIn · Answer

Very much romantic.

LaFemmeFatale_1 · Answer

I am very romantic.

BrightBubblyKat · Answer

I’m not very romantic.

SlothySlob · Answer

What are the things you would do to be romantic?

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

Romantic

ChattyGuy43 · Answer

I'm a hopeless romantic.

Luffy1990 · Answer

A non romantic for sure

es20490446e · Answer

I like the hole package.

Jamie05rhs · Answer

I am absolutely romantic.

shortster · Answer

I am not very romantic. I am too logical.

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