What to do if my date’s penis is just too big?

[Anonymous]

I am into a man who is just huge, I am much smaller than him, one foot shorter. I like his personality a lot but I am scared that he’ll be too much for me to handle.

I like him a lot but the size difference between us also makes me worried.

He sent his pic the other day and he’s too big.

I would like to have a relationship with him since I don’t really sleep with people unless in a relationship, I am just scared, will he like me? Will he feel comfortable with me and will I be able to be a good girlfriend for him if we don’t even match physically?

I would like to say that I actually prefer smaller size, cause it’s more convenient for a woman of my size.

Updates

1 y

One feet shorter.

[SnowedIn]

You have two choices. Either try it or don't. First, pictures are a TERRIBLE way to judge many characteristics. I can take a picture of my penis and a porn star would be jealous. The reality is far more average. My point is that you can't give up just because of a picture.

Your second option is to be done with him. But be honest and polite and gracious about it. Don't ghost him and don't give a long rambling explanation.

BUT... if you like sex, perhaps try it? If it doesn't work, it doesn't work.

[Asker]

I like him a lot…

[Asker]

But It’s been a long time since I had sex. Because I am not interested in sex outside of relationship.

[SnowedIn]

Totally fair! I respect that very much. Tell him your concern, gently, nicely, and then see (literally) what you want to do.

[Anonymous]

I’d say if you really like him than pursue it. While it may be big at first, the female box has the ability to expand to allow for such things like having a baby. It may be a little uncomfortable at first but I think as you do it more it’ll be fine. If you’re concerned express to him your concerns. That you like him a lot but you don’t want this to be the reason why you two separate. I’m sure he will be more than happy to take things slow especially if he’s really into you as well. I’d suggest maybe you on top that way you can control the depth until you’re ok w going a little deeper. Maybe consider a toy, work up to it when you aren’t w him.

[Anonymous]

I have been in this situation, they are fun and sexy to look at and play with and put the tip in your mouth while you make him cum but you can't really have sex so I just stayed with him for 4 or 5 times of play and then we stopped seeing each other.

[Anonymous]

One of my partners was bigger so I got a larger sex toy to see if I could handle that size.

[Quidthonian]

I would talk to him about your concerns. See what he feels about the situation. Both of you then would need to make the decision of where to from there.

[TotallyAlmost]

I'm huge too, and I've been with women of all sizes, including very petite. If he takes his time and knows how to please a woman, it will be fine. If he doesn't, you don't want him anyway.

[Anonymous]

Have you considered buying a toy that is about the same size as him on having a few private sessions to see how well you could accomodate him?

[Anonymous]

It will be painful at first but you will eventually stretch and adjust and be fine. Of course, smaller penises will no longer satisfy you after that.

[bamesjond0069]

Just want to say hey short dudes... there are plenty of women not looking for NBA players, this post should be proof enough.

[Surely]

Are you assuming that a Big guy in stature equals a larger than normal body part?
You could be fooled.

[Guy13]

Overthinking it.

[Anonymous]

^^^^^^^^^^^^^

[Hellraiser1984]

This is the first time I've ever heard that. Usually you complain about it not being big enough.

[PatriceONeal]

Women are literally insatiable

[Asker]

Why would you think so?

[PatriceONeal]

I know so

[jjj101010]

I’m sure u can make it work

[Anonymous]

Have you tried using lube?