Guys, What would you do if she asked to see your penis on the first date?

[AviatorTom]

This happened to me once, several years ago, shortly after my divorce...

I met this woman, about my age, on an online dating site. We chatted a few times and then decided to have dinner for our first meeting/date.

Things were going well through dinner. We were talking and getting to know each other. Then she said this. "I need to see your cock. If it's too big or too small, it's not gonna work between us."

Guys, what would you do in this situation?

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11 mo

Fyi... I told her, "You're never gonna find out," got up and left. On the way out, I paid my half of the bill and left her with the rest.

[Leapfrog00]

I'd show her and then say, "Sorry I don't date people who are WEIRD!" and then I'd say, "And to think, you could have had THIS!"

A girl like that has some personal issues buried way way way back in her head. That girl is going to go through her whole life never knowing what a real relationship is like.

I had a girl asked to see me naked on a first date once, but for different reasons, lol. Well, actually, we both figured if we see each other naked, when we finally have sex, it won't be awkward. We were kind right, lol.

But yeah, people are weird!

[OlderAndWiser]

I would tell her


1. We aren’t at that point yet but when we do get there, you will be neither disappointed nor intimidated. and I am an attentive lover.


2. When we do get to that point, I’ll show you mine if you show me yours.


To me, I would suspect a control issue and this would be a red flag. Maybe it isn’t a dealbreaker yet but I would have the radar up!

[OlderAndWiser]

Thanks for MHO!

[ManOnFire]

Wow, interesting story. I would probably tell her "Deal. But I need to see your tits too. If they're too big or too small it's not gonna work between us."

[richardcory]

"Tis not so tall as a church tower, nor so wide as the city gate, but tis enough, twill do. But if you want to see it, be sure to say you reject me because you are terrified by its mighty aspect"

I have no problem with sex on a first date if someone wants and reasonable precautions are taken.

[ArrowheadSW]

LOL That lady was CRAZY! I can't imagine anyone asking a question like that on any date, let alone the first one. Anyway, it can't be a good representation of "size" anyway unless it is in the erect position. LOL Did this lady come across as being really weird?

[ShadezMcgee]

I would pause and say. "I see. If that is where you stand, then this isn't going to work for me either. Superficial things are a dealbreaker for me. Hope you find what you are looking for."

Smile, about face and walk away.

[AnusNdaPainus]

Right I’m tryna date not hook up

[Static_In_The_Attic]

Her wish is my command & on the first date if she wants to see my penis I’ll grant her the request if she grants me a request as well.

I’ll show her my penis if she shows me her taco.
I just want to verify she isn’t hiding anything. 🌭

[Jamie05rhs]

I wouldn't let her see it literally, as I believe that goes against the Bible. But I would allow her to see a computer generated model (when we get engaged). And I would give her all of the dimensions. She deserves to know, so she can make an informed decision.

[zagor]

LOL well at least you found out what her priorities were. She could have asked to see your bank statement.

I was at a singles seminar and the speakers were taking audience comments on dating and relationships. One women stood up and said she couldn't be with a man with a small penis, and that she had dumped her last boyfriend because of his, uh, shortcomings.

At the mixer afterwards I noticed no one approached her.

[RobT312]

Wow! Good move man. Fortunately that Never happened to me. However if she really wanted my dick and if we were hitting it off, all shed need to do is shut her mouth and wait another hour for a first date hookup

[BoopBoopBeep]

"yeah, yeah that makes sense. I'll need to see your stuff too... make sure it's not cavernous or droopy"

Unless she was hot and just using it as an excuse to get your pants off. I've had a lady do that before.

[Lionman95]

Sounds like a rdflag. If my dick size so important to her she seems like a person I don´t want to date since to me sexual questions of any kind are too intimate for a first date.