A guy asked me out and I rejected him but I said this? Do you think this made him feel better?

[Anonymous]

He asked me out and I said I'm not looking to date right now. But I told him thank you for the compliment. I was flattered by him being into me but I don't have time for a relationship right now. I wanted to really show him I appreciate it because I can imagine it's really hard to do that, asking girls out and stuff. I wanted to show I respect him and everything. But I didn't really know how to voice that so I just said thank you...

[Mansearching]

You did good girl. Most guys rather the polite way that you did than the bitch way some girls do. He'll get over it. We as men always do. Just don't be a bitch. You didn't leave with someone else did you? Because that'll throw a whole wrench in being nice... lol

[Asker]

Uh no definitely not. I'm not that type of girl lol

[Mansearching]

Bc if you did that would hurt and change his opinion. At least me. So as I said b4, you did good by saying that.

[Anonymous]

You shouldn't feel bad. You handled it in a Kind Way. I appreciated women like you despite the rejection.

[Guardian45]

That's nice as long as it's said sincerely

[Anonymous]

Why do you care?

[Asker]

I feel bad. I like to think I'm a nice person and he's a human being I don't want to be mean to him even if I am not interested

[Opinion Owner]

You don't owe anyone anything, you politely said no and thats enough. I don't know what he feels but most people dont take a "No" very well no matter how nicely you say it so its not your problem anymore

[Asker]

True. That's astute of you.