We started talking again but are not offical. He has already told me he got me a gift. I asked him not to till we talked things out. He said he already bought it. He insisted on a fancy vday date and says he has something to tell me. I love him but until we talk things out I am not sure there is a future.
The red flag here is that it hasn't been long since you guys started talking again and he already wanted to do a date with you, already bought you a gift and you guys haven't even talked about the past yet, and he wanted to do it on Valentines Day. Most exes do not start off with such a bang when reconnecting.
He is either being super presumptuous, just wants a quick date with some sex, or he is going to ghost you after the daye. I lean towards the latter because most times when a person tries to come back into your life with that much firepower right off the bat, they almost always will ghost you shortly after.
He was an ex for a reason. Leave that door closed.
u 1. You know reuniting with an ex is almost ALWAYS a mistake, right? Even if you think you love him. Even if you think "this is different." Even if you really want it to work. Even if you miss him.
2. He wants to get laid on February 14. Tell him no sex on Valentine's Day and you may see his enthusiasm fly out the window.
Maybe if he already has something for you. Nothing too big and don’t give it to him till you guys talked things out. Don’t want to be like “Hey here’s your gift!” Just wait to see what he has to say. Again nothing too big and too fancy, something simple just in case if things don’t work out. Best of luck!
No gift. Just show up looking your best.
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No you are the gift that keeps on giving.
Don't get him a gift, keep your boundaries. And don't even open the gift he got you considering you already told him not to do that. Don't accept the gift and don't give him one. He's using the gift as a way to manipulate your attention to try and convince you of something. I wouldn't even look at it.
I would just buy him a coffee or something first and hang out and talk. Very difficult to talk and eat dinner at the same time. If you are getting along, go for some dessert afterwards.
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oh, that's a lot of stress...
He's making the efforts. Take it as a new start, but there is work ahead, accept that.
I would get him a small gift and try to have a good day.. see how things go...
You told him you didn’t want anything; he chose to get it. He shouldn’t expect something from you. It will be forced and disingenuous. I recommend against it
EX. EX... valentines day. EX...
yeah no, too good to be true. don't believe this nonsense. stay broken up.
Just wear up elegantly and sexy,. That is a gift to show him you are something without him
Yes get him some curry goat
Well you're 30-35 what are the realistic chances you find someone again?
Sounds like a mistake, especially with the uncertainty.
No need to buy him anything. Just make sure the BJ is extra good.
He obviously wants to have sex with you on 14 February. Mark my words.
Get your pussy eaten and leave him on hard. See if he has the same care for you after.
can i shoot myself now or at least throw up
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