This guy I have been dating (casually) for 2 years stopped talking to be for a couple of months which is kind of normal. When he reached out again he told me about another girl he has been seeing who he ended things with cause he wasn’t that into her.
I was annoyed but okay since he was always honest with me. I saw him 2 weekends ago and his birthday was this last weekend. he went on vacation and I found out through Venmo that she was on the trip as well.
when I asked him about her last week in person he told me he hasn’t spoken to her since they stopped taking. I even asked who he was going on the trip with and he said his cousin (who was also there but still)
should I call him out? Should I wait for him to bring something up? Should I wait till I see him in person?
He has always said he doesn’t want to/wouldn’t lie to me and he lied which is what’s making me mad. I didn’t care the first time he told me about her but why lie when I already know about her.
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I am a little bit torn. On one hand, if you don't ask him he can't answer, it is possible there is some explanation or that the discussion could have some sort of good result, and you would at least feel like you were fair.
On the other hand since you prob. don't want to say you were snooping on Venmo it could be an awkward conversation, and to be honest the odds are just that he's lying and there is not a good explanation so it might be a lot of trouble for no benefit.
I think I'd probably just move on and be minimally polite to him nothing else, but, I think it is a close call. Sorry if that is not helpful! JMO.
Thank you! I know, super weird situation 😣