Do boys in high school think hot girls are nicer or meaner?

[Anonymous]

If you’re in HS or when you were in HS, did you think hot girls are nicer or not as nice as other girls?

most boys think hot girls are nicer

most boys think hot girls are meaner

[SteveSmith1985]

That very much depends on the boy in question.

Also... this is definitely broad, sweeping generalizations here. Not a hard-and-fast rule.

But in general: Guys who are THEMSELVES attractive/desireable are way more likely to think (know) that hot girls are as likely to be nice as anyone else.

Guys who are NOT so attractive/desireable are the ones who are apt to adopt the "hot girls are mean girls" view (because they don't have the regular interactions with the hot girls to be able to see they aren't mean. They look at the hot girl as "the girl who has or would reject them")

Now, again, this is a huge generalization. But still, I think it often holds true.

But, honestly... a very general rule like that... is almost useless when you try and apply it to a specific situation. So this guy is likely to think you're nice or mean based on the past interactions you've had, as well as what he observes about you in general. It's really more situation-dependent, than dependent on these generalities about what boys think about hot girls in high school.

The real answer is "it depends on the particular boy, and the particular girl in question."

But... you can always make a point to show somebody you're "nice"... that's never a bad plan, regardless of what his general views about the demeanor of hot girls happens to be.

Don't overthink it. Just go talk to him and be nice! 🙂

[Asker]

Bold of you to assume I’m a hot girl lol

[SteveSmith1985]

Disagree. Weird of YOU to ask this question if you aren't! 😉

[DeviousD]

Entirely dependent on how they interacted with me & other's. How they actually treated people demonstrated wether they were nice or not so much, or a mix of both. Judging people on how they might treat other's based entirely on their appearance & not on how they actually treat other people that would provide a much greater means of evidence capable of answering your initial question on an individual bases. That's a very inaccurate method of measurement no matter how you look at it, it also just goes against all in compassing "Golden rule" which is the idea that you should actively pursue a method of treating other's the way you prefer to be treated, & if I had to present an educated guess I'd surmise that you personally would prefer people refrain from viewing your outter facing appearance in order to determine how you will end up treating them. Am I right in my assumption? If so, than stick to that, it will have a much higher rate of effectiveness, I can assure you that. Think about it. With that being said take care & good luck.

[Raaj4you]

When I was a school kid, I hated girls. I used to stay away from girls and I was shy about talking to girls. I was completely focused on my studies. Though, I had crush on some beautiful girls. Beautiful hot girls had a big EGO. I don't cared, I was the hot and best student of my class.

[Adam1978]

Hot Girls that are aware of their attraction is going to be meaner than a girl that doesn't. Simply because she doesn't need to be nice to get attention and she can keep rejecting people left to right.

[Anonymous]

Well I was raised that ALL women are ladies and should be treated as such. It took me longer than most to learn the true nature of most women because I was stunted by my upbringing. So I think I'm a much rarer case. But yes, women are taught from a much younger age to exploit men mentally. So I think the younger the guy the more likely he is to be duped by a pretty face.

[HighValue]

I don't know about others, but in my personal experiences, more of the attractive girls were nicer to me than the unattractive ones were, both when I was in high school and now.

[JustinTheGreat]

Highschool boys don’t care what girls are nice or mean, as long as you’re hot. that’s all that matters to them lol

[AngryCarl2]

It was always my impression that hot girls were nicer. But maybe it depends how you approach them. I can see that hot girls probably got a lot of unwanted attention.

[loveslongnails]

When I was in high school, the hot girls were always meaner.

[Guy13]

Meaner.

[inhua]

nobody cares about meanness when you're hot

[Danny_dan92]

It’s determined if the girl is stuck up or polite

[Wise4myage]

They weren't as nice to me, so meaner.

[Iron_Man]

They weren’t mean

[Ur1local2bisexual]

I don't know I just picked nicer

[TallAnon]

I don't think we generalize that much

[serious]

Meaner for sure.