Why are dating apps not like school?

[Anonymous]

Hello I have a HUGE rant. I was in middle school and I was popular. I had a lot of girls interested in me. Girls use to touch my hair too. Unfortunately I became homeschooled for highschool, so all the girls fell off for me.

But I did date the most popular girl in middle school, a cheerleader.. and she came after me, all these girls came after me. The only reason the cheerleader didn't work out was because she was christian... and I'm not really religious. their parents kinda profiled me with my name, and I was too mentally aloof to correct the girl and tell her I'm actually NOT muslim nor even remotely arab despite my arabic name... I'm half hindu/half italian..

my rant is, WHY THE HECK is online dating NOTHING like school at alllll. No matches, I spend an hour a day on swiping.. nothing happens. what in the holy world happened between school and online dating? Is it that girls are getting too many likes? What exactly accounts for the fact that I can have a lot of female relationship contact in school, and suddenly it's gone. college isn't good either.

More rant content, has anyone else noticed this? I understand I'm not a manly man, and most of these white girls in America are racist unfortunately, so much for land of the free, they might as well call it "land of the white female everyone else bounce right now if you're not white", they won't want someone with a name that's not nick or something.. or mark walburg looking buff muscular. but seriously, what the heck happened females? why are you ditching me? I assure you you were not drunk in middle school.

I might make another question about racism in the dating scene "are white girls racist?".

Let me know anyone's thoughts ^_^

[canobiwan]

welcome to the real adult world 😄👍

people are not naive like in highschool anymore and are smarter than you probly think or not.

if its not your looks or your financial stuff work on your character personality become good person etc

[Asker]

you're telling me these girls were naive? I doubt that dude. children are more truthful than adults. A child is more innocent and truthful than an adult. I think school wins over the adult dating scene.

I am a good person you won't see it in my profile. You really have to be like back in school and just be all over me, and it'll be the best thing ever. Dating apps are not portraying anything at all other than extreme racism.

[canobiwan]

naive does not mean something bad. and i dont know you but i assume best of you and think your a good person. however not everyone is the same thats all.

relax

[canobiwan]

i dont think highscholers are childeren anymore, and no not all childeren at age of puberty are innocent or truthful

[Asker]

no I'm not mad I'm just sticking to my argument XD thanks for posting though.

[canobiwan]

well i disagree with your argument and this post. goodbye

[Asker]

okay! thanks again for posting here! I definitely respect your opinion

[JustinTheGreat]

You’re 29 and just now discovering school popularity has nothing to do with the real world? lol

[Asker]

not discovering I'm noticing that there's a logical disconnect between school and dating apps. During school girls are more open to dating a non white dude named nick or a beef muscular dwyane johnson. to me that's a representation of a women honest thoughts about dating. she actually prefers the non muscular guy, or the guy that's not named nick, cause if she did, she would've swiped right on me in her head in school and never reached out to me with interest.

school and the real world are the EXACT same, no difference. No matter where you are, at home, outside, you're in the real world every second your alive.

[Asker]

to me I see that women developed a mental illness around dating and online dating... that's all I see one giant mental illness. Like the human race is defective... but then again our sun will one day die out, along with the human race right? so maybe it's natures way of telling the "right guy" that it doesn't matter, life is temporary trick of our senses ;)

[Babygirl_S]

But it's a white man's world (thanks to colonisation) and you are the ones who made your own women seem more important than others.

[Asker]

Are you saying other races do the same thing? monopolize their dates with similar race? is that what you meant? sorry confusing what you wrote! XD

[jimmy2]

Scammers at every turn

[Asker]

scammer? what the heck? I'm clearly asking about what's going on between school era and post-school era. I was popular in school, now it's not working out. I did have a girlfriend in my 20's only 1, I'm 29 right now, again she came to me I didn't go to her and took my virginity (which was much needed)... but online dating is like a desert, nothing going on?

[pacman97]

I agree with ya.

[In_Trance]

Alright